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i don't have feelings anymore
hey..i have this boyfriend and he's really cute but i don't really have feelings for him anymore. i mean he's very sweet but like he's moving too fast and it's making me like turned off. and now he's making me feel like he should be my brother. idk what to do anymore! please someone help me!
i'll give 5 for trying..thanx!
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As everyone else said, you need to break up iwth him. Being in a relationship with him when you don't have feelings for him is unfair to you and unfair to him. I think you should just tell him that you really care about him, but you can't continue dating him.
Good luck!
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Tell him how you feel. Tell him that he is moving to fast for you and that you perfer slower relationships. If he doesn't understand, then you'll know he isn't worth the trouble.
Good luck :]
P.S. If he feels like he should be your brother instead of your boyfrend, then that is probably a good sign that you guys will be best friends for a long time, but not intimately involved. It could also mean that you feel like you could tell him anything and that you trust him a lot.
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If he's more like a brother, I'd tell him. I'd gently break up with him but say you still love him like a brother. I'd try to be his friend after that but he may need time. I once had a break up with somebody and it was terrible! We were swearing at eachother and yelling at one another but we have it time after the break up and now we're really good friends. Hope this helped.
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you will have to tell him that your not interested in him anymore. also you should tell him your not ready to move that quick. I think that his moving to quick is your biggest turn off and that is always a really hard thing for guys to see beacause that is almost always going throught there mind. so tell him he's moving to fast for you and i think friends are better.
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if you don't have feelings for him tell him..so he won't look stupid...tell him you not ready to move fast..if he don;t like that thats his damn problem..you will find somebody else..
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Whoa, I'm a little confused... If he;s moving too fast say this to him, I really dont want to move as fast as you want to.. Can we compromise?? If he wants to make out with you and all you want to do is hold hands.. peck kiss and if he wants to finger you and you want to make out let him touch your boobs. You get what im saying?? compromise so that you're not too prude for him but hes not too aggressive for you.
and about the brother thing I dont get it so I cant answer that...
WHY THE HECK DID I GET A 1??!
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I would either break up with him or talk to him about it. If he isn't want you want and you don't like him on that boyfriend level, I wouldn't tease him. I would end in gently, explaining to him why you are breaking up with him. Unless you think your feelings haven't completely vanished and could be rekindled - then I would talk to him about it and try and come to a happy medium. This kind of thing sucks but don't hurt the boy more by staying with him just because you don't want to hurt him. It'll hurt him more if you stay with him when you really don't want to anymore. Feelings change. Good luck and I hope I helped! Let me know how it goes! -GC07
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Try talking to him about it.
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If he's making you feel like he should be your brother than you're better off as just being friends. If you don't have feelings for him just let him know. Tell him in a nice way that you'd rather just be friends. There's no point in staying in a relationship that's not working out. Good luck.
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talk too him
tell him you want to take it slower
so the relationship can be more exsiting
because if you know whats going to happen
whats the point of that
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If you feel like the two of you are not on the same page about stuff with your relationship, chances are, you aren't communicating properly. You need to talk to him. Don't bicker, but rather, discuss. Especially if you feel he is moving too fast for you physically you need to speak up. He doesn't know he's doing something wrong unless you tell him. If after discussing things you're feelings still aren't there, you should break up with him because it's not nice to lead someone on. But do it nicely and try to remain friends if you think it's worth it. :)
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i think you should break up with him. tell him exactly what you told us. "you're really sweet, but i really don't have feelings for you anymore. i feel like things have been moving too fast and i see you more like a brother."
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