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My bestfriend and I like the same guy
Me and my close friend like the same guy. But she threatens me that if I ask him out of some sort she'd get people after me.
When I walked into the Art Room [He's in her class] He called my name and hugged me, then she got upset at me and called me a trature..I dont get her..Can anyone tell me whats her deal?
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you shouldnt worry about that.if she threatens you just because of a guy shes a bitchy friend.
~beebee~
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Her problem is you both like the same guy. Generally, when 2 friends like the same person, if one of them gets him, the other is going to extremely unhappy about it.
Ask yourself how you would react if it was the other way round. I don't think you'd be very impressed if he paid more attention to your friend than to you.
However, if she is going to threaten to get people after you for asking out a guy you like, then I wouldn't consider her much of a friend to begin with.
Guys will never let a female come between their friendship and us women should do the same. If he's going to come between you and your friend, then he's not really worth it, but at the same time, if you're friend is going to get you beaten up for dating a guy, then she isn't really worth it either.
My advice... forget about them both and find something better
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Ahh. This is toughy. Well for one, your friend shouldn't be this obsessive over a guy. Talk to her. Tell her you don't want a guy to get in the way of your friendship. What ever happened to chicks before dicks? Don't let a guy ruin your friendship. No guy is worth it. Hope this helps.
-cindy <3
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shes just jealous that this guy has taken more notice to you, i think you should forget about her if she threatens you over a guy, shes obviously not a very good friend
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she was probably jealous that you were getting the attention from the guy you both like so just ignore it and dont take it personally when she says stuff like that.. and if the threat is really gonna happen then tell an adult about it, that's the safest way to deal with a threat =)
<3 allie
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