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hello :)My name is allie and i'm here to help everyone with their problems.
I am a 15 year old girl so i can relate to most problems having to do with that kind of stuff & i love helping people. i hope to be a guidance counselor or something close to that profession when i grow up. i like most stuff that 15 year olds like and thats basically everything you need to know about me :)!
Well enjoy my page & ask if you need ANY advice at all ♥
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Me and my close friend like the same guy. But she threatens me that if I ask him out of some sort she'd get people after me.
When I walked into the Art Room [He's in her class] He called my name and hugged me, then she got upset at me and called me a trature..I dont get her..Can anyone tell me whats her deal?
she was probably jealous that you were getting the attention from the guy you both like so just ignore it and dont take it personally when she says stuff like that.. and if the threat is really gonna happen then tell an adult about it, that's the safest way to deal with a threat =)
ok well i like this guy and i dont know if he likes me or not because he looks through my classroom window when ever he walks by and looks at me and shows off infront of me or when he plays B-ball before he shoots he looks at me..and i dont know he talks to me more then all the girls and calls me up and everything but recently he had told someone that he liked me only as a friend but im not sure i think he might be lieing because hes friends with my brother hich is like the leadr of the group so he might be afraid to loose his friends..or i might be wrong he might not like me...im not sure wut to do or think..i dont know if i should tell him or not..thanx
yeah from the information im pretty sure he likes you.. he probably told your frends he doesn't because he doesnt want his friends to know but it sure does seem like he likes you.. so if he doesnt seem like he's gonna make a move then be the bigger person & ask him to hang out or something. i know you'll do fine =)
hey i really need advice. ok i'm 13 and i'm a girl and in 5th grade i went out with this guy andrew, i know fifth grade (it wasnt like a real bf) and then i broke up with him but then we went out again in 6th grade. i met him a few years ago at a summer club called the beach club. the beach club is pretty much my life. i spend every day there and i have like the best friends in the world there. well andrew joined the beach club a few years ago and then he asked me out when we were in 5th grade (im in 7th now). well in 6th grade we went out and then i broke up with him again. we went out again about a week later again but that only lasted a few days. now he's one of my best friends. he's liked me for a really long time and he flirted with me soo muchover the winter, but i didnt like him like that then. a few weeks ago he started to like this girl erin and he asked her out five days later. she said yes, and for some reason i was extreamly jealous and miserable. i think i loved him all along but i never noticed it. he says that a part of him will always love me too even though he's going out with erin. yeah were 13 and thats a little young for love i know, but i really feel like i love him, but i dont really know what to do so if you can help me at all that would be pretty awesome! k thanks like so much
okay well honestly i feel like you just think you love him now that he's with erin. once he breaks up with her, then see if you still love him and if you do then take a chance and ask him out.. you'll just have to wait til they break up =/ and be patient too..
sorry its not much help but good luck with your situation!
(im a girl, 14) Right I am freaking out over this and i really need help..
There is a new lad at our school called Ashley and me and my friend (laura) both like him loads. He seems to like us both but as Laura is in more classes with him she is getting to know him loads better and hes already said that he thinks theyre going to be great friends. Laura has a boyfriend already and she says that she'll let me have Ashley but he still flirts with us BOTH in front of her boyfriend .
In their classes together Ive heard that they get really close and hes pinned her against the wall etc and they sit together. They also talk about people and she says that he said that i was pretty/fit but then she asked about her and he said 'erm..no' but I reckon that he only said that because she was there and didnt want to give her ideas..Hes also said that he wouldn't mind going out with either of us.
So the next day I totally freaked when i found out that he had been flirting with her in science, and i was pulling letter keys off the school computer and threatening to kill her so much that I really scared my friends. Its all going great for her ;-(
It so happens that day that she is staying down (she lives in a village)because we both go to this tramplolining club every wednesday and after school at the gates I was freaking out and pulling my bag apart and on the verge of screaming/ smacking her / crying n biting my nails off... and he was still flirting with her on the way to the local shop we all meet up at but he doesnt normally walk this way . Finally i decided to sort this out with her and i was nearly crying but she said that shed lay off him etc for me (bless her).
And what do you know he started flirting with me. I kept getting hugs and he was showing me how to do drumming etc and he was coming to watch us (probably Laura) at trampolining with her bf later on..
OK So now we're at trampolining and we both talk to him as much as each other but hes giving her piggybacks and he gave me a single shoulderlift to show of how strong he was. He probably knows I like him because of the many people who have been coming up to him and asking him if he likes me etc. After trampolining we went back to his where we were sat down watching TV with his cute puppies jumping allover us and I was sat on the couch next to him getting closer and he was talking to me and asking laura questions.
We went to the kitchen (all 4 of us [me laura Ashley and her bf, Lewis]and he was flirting with us both (tickling me and jumping up behind me etc, doing exactly the same to Laura and her bf was staring daggers)and we decided to go to a shop and buy a pizza. Me and Laura bought the pizza and he seemed to be tagging along with her more but then on the way back to his place he had his arm around me and I was loving every second and he kept putting his hand round my waist…J Back at his house we were in his kitchen again with the pizza on (her bf didn’t seem to mind him messing around with her anymore because we were all just great friends) and then I realized that now he had his arm round her (serious twinge of jealousy)….. But then he has his arm round both of us either side of him as we waited for the pizza to cook. I kept whispering to Laura that I REALLY LIKED HIM I have honestly never felt so badly for someone I was almost shaking when he entered the room. So after a while she takes him outside and all I hear is playful giggling and I am worrying but she comes back to tell me that though he’s happy with his girlfriend if he ever dumps her he will definitely say yes to me. And now I feel like a total prick for acting kinda shy around him and leaving it at that. Does it mean anything when he hugs you last?
Today at school I saw him and hugged him and I was so happy until I found out that he was going on the school trip that Laura was going to and he wants to share a room with her……..But in dance today he came running over to me to knock me down/ hug me and I was just like ‘Hi?’ and he me and laura kept talking to him as he’s the only boy in our class and can break dance. We had to choose groups and he chose to be in a group with me and Laura and not the popular, pretty people or his other friends he knows better. We were so chuffed. He was teaching us how to do a box jump and lifting us up by the waist (more me than her) and all the popular people were scowling at us with jealousy :-)At the end of the lesson they all had a go at him and asking him why he was hanging out withus losers but he stuck up for us and we were really surprised at his guts etc. After the lesson he jumped up behing me again and he walked me to my next lesson. Although he didnt walk the same way home again to see me..
I want to know who he likes best and whther to make a move or not...? Because I dont want him going off with Laura on this French trip if Im going out with him, I feel like tearing my hair out coz I wish he would make a move on just one of us and stop confusing me...
congrats if you finished reading this btw lol and thankyou for your answer lol luv rachel xxx
wow, thats reaaaaally complicated
this guy sounds like a regular teenage boy who doesnt know what he wants. I think he wants both of you and cant pick because he's been giving you guys both attention at different times.
maybe you should ask him if he wants to hang out with you sometime, maybe with another one of your friends & not laura, and see if he says yes, because if he does then he likes you and if he doesnt then he doesnt like you
other than that there really is no way your gonna find out unless you wait for him to decide, its kinda wierd for your friend to do that with him if she already has a boyfriend..
anyway, good luck & i hope that all this clears up and that he ends up liking youu :)!
I'm 18/f. My boyfriend's birthday is coming up in june (he's turning 21), and I had the idea to throw him a really cool party, but I have a bunch of options right now and I'm not sure which to go with. My first idea was to have the party at his house (surprise party), and involve his parents.
Thing about his parents is I don't think they really like me, and I'd like to win them over, so to speak. I think if I went and talked to them about it, they might like me more...well, this might actually go in another question...anyway, I could throw it at his house and involve his parents a little bit, but then it'd have to be a dry party.
I could also get some of my older friends to help me out and make it a wet party, but then it couldn't be at his house, and it might cost more.
Money's not much of a problem right now, but I don't wanna like, splurge, so I can't like rent a place or anything. Yannow? It'd have to be at a friend's house or something.
So I guess I'm asking if anyone has ideas and/or opinions.
Lemme know!
Decent spelling and grammar, please. They're important. If you TyPe LyK dIz, you're not getting a five. =D
Okay well i think a surprise party for your boyfriend is a really great idea. I think you should go to his parents for advice on what he likes, even if you already know what he likes, just so they can feel involved. That might make them like you more. Just have the party at one of your friends houses and see if you can make it so they dont go. If they go anyway then just make sure it's a "wet" party, even with them there :)!
hey my mom bought me this shirt b/c one time i said it was cute. i didn't want it or anything though. i'm never going to wear it so..how do i tell her i don't want it. it was a present on my birthday and she was like so happy with it. plz answer i need to know soon.
i think you should start it off saying "mom you always want me to be honest right?" and she'll say yea probably and just say "well thank you soo much for that shirt but im probably not gonna wear it" and if she asks why not then just tell her nobody wears those kinds of shirts or something,
if that doesnt work then just wear it to make her happy but wear it like when your in the house for the day so that way she wont be sad & you can wear it for her :)
Ok some im not a tottal reject who doesnt know how to hold there breath. It just seems to hurt my nose when I go under. Is there something I could be doing wrong?? Im not breathing in my nose cause im not that retarted. Can you give me some pointers on what to do. I used to wear those goggles with the nose cover but im afraid this year I'll get made fun of. Can you give me some pointers on what to do. Could it just be im so used to plugging my nose with the goggles? Should I just try start the summer off without them and see how that works?? I'll rate high for any simple tip! THANKS
okayy.. i can relate because i used to hold my nose jumping in but my friend told me one time that if, while your under water, you blow OUT your nose it wont go up it :)
For my birthday my uncle gave me $500 and I spent $320 on a tiffany's neckalace. Now I have $180 and I want to buy a digital camera. I was thinking about going to best buy, but will I be able to afford a digital camera with $180? I want a small one, definetly not big and bulky. So really my question is will I be able to get a digital camera at best buy for $180
I'll rate 5'!!
im pretty sure almost all the best buy cameras are $199.99 so in the list below are some that are $199.99 and the rest are under $180.00. If you can get $20 more then you can get the 199.99 cameras & that'd be better
199.99
- http://www.bestbuy.com/site/olspage.jsp?skuId=7686667&type=product&id=1134703785643
- http://www.bestbuy.com/site/olspage.jsp?skuId=7607422&type=product&productCategoryId=cat15197&id=1130983394274
UNDER 180.00
- http://www.bestbuy.com/site/olspage.jsp?skuId=7292468&type=product&id=1118840866998
- http://www.bestbuy.com/site/olspage.jsp?skuId=7292468&type=product&id=1118840866998
- http://www.bestbuy.com/site/olspage.jsp?skuId=7722592&type=product&id=1140392366821
what is it? is itt illegall? can you get caught? just tell me basically ab it.
iill give 5s
i dont think anyone really knows if its illegal or not but i dont think it is unless you download specific things, and yes you can get caught and fined for a lotttt of money but i use it all the time and im never caught so just make sure your safe :)!
Prom is tomorrow and i'm really stressing. My hair lady cancelled on me and can't style my hair for prom. All the other places are booked. What can I do to my hair without going to a salon?? (My hair is naturally pretty straight and it's layered. The longest layers go to about my bra strap in the back.)
hmm maybe you can have a friend or something come over before the prom and style your hair a cute way or just get some cute clips and stuff and do it yourself (i know thats hard sometimes).. or youu can just wear it down because a lot of girls do that
I got really sick for about a week and a half, and all I could manage to do was lay in bed and vomit (sorry for the info) So anyway, when I finialy got back to school, I feel so much slower and weaker in athletics, can you get totally out of shape in a week? I haven't gained any weight..I just feel weird. Is that normal?
Also, I've alwyas eaten healthy...but after being sick..I've become addicted to carbs...what do i do?
your probably fine. i mean, if you've been laying in bed all week then its not that your out of shape, but your just tired and not used to moving around much.. you'll get faster and everything in no time
and the carbs thing, i think that since carbs are supposed to give you energy (im pretty sure) then your just wanting to get more active so your eating more and more carbs..
15/f
Okayy there is this kid. We have only met like once or twice, but we talk online all the time. I know he likes me but I dont really like him like that. Then one day he asked me how far i had gone with a guy and I told him I had never even had a boyfriend. Ever sence I told him that he hasnt talked to me sence(its been like a week). I dont really mind because I didnt like him/know him that much anyway. But my question was do you think that the fact that I have never had a boyfriend make guys less attracted to me?
honestly, yes i do think that
hes really stupid though to stop talking to you because of soemthing like that. hes totally not worth it and he was probably just wanting you for someone to have sex with and thats not worth it either..
guys like him dont like girls who dont have experience and those kinds of guys are really stupid and wierd so your better of without him
i have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half now & i want to do some things to make him see how much i love him..ive done the writting notes and stuff but i would love if someone could give me ideas on sweet things i could do that dont cost any money that will show him that i care and that he will love
maybe you can make a 'just because' card and say you were thinking about him so you decided to make a card, other than that there is really nothing else i could think of unless you wanted to invite him over for a movie you already have that wont cost any money and pop some popcorn in the microwave or something :)
i'm cramping and I am suppose to start my period next week sometime. last time I started was April 20 that was 22 or 23 days ago(if i counted correctly) I'm bleeeding a little bit..Do you think I'll get my peiod tomorrow more than likely cause I got a bball tournament tomorrow.. or do you think it is just temporary bleeding like alittle before the period actually starts?
its probably just a little blood for before it starts but since you have the tournament tomorrow make sure your prepared with stuff on just in case it comes tomorrow during your game
better safe than sorry :)
ok i need some serious advice on how to make it so that i accually wake up when my alarm clock goes off because normally i just shut ot off and then go back to sleep... and i cant move it because there is no where else to plug it in. and ive tried moving it away from my bed but then when it goes off i just get up, bring it near my bed, and go back to sleep. i have no idea what to do... i cant go to sleep earlier because i cant fall asleep till 11, i dont get ttired till then....would some one help me please?
if you have a parent or brother/sister who gets up around the time you need to get up then have them wake you up on time
or if you dont have someone who would do that then get one of those alarm clocks with the radios or something so you'll hear music and want to get up :)
Okay so for engish coursework i have to create a news paper article on 'Lord of the FLies'.
Ive designed my layout but i REALLY REALLY don't know what to write :| i really need some help and would be sooo greatful.
Im struggling with news type language.. if you understand what i mean.. i've taken a look at some local papers for ideas but i still don't know :(
i need some help on:
the main text (i have to write about 200 words
so any bullet points would be a great help):)
a headline
sub-headline
5's ALL ROUND! AND I WILL RECCOMEND YOU TO ALL :)
PLEASE... :):) yours truely... stuck xx
i havent read the book but here are some sites that have stuff about Lord of the Flies so you can use their key points and expand on them =)
good luck!
- http://www.gerenser.com/lotf/
- http://www.sparknotes.com/lit/flies/
- http://www.novelguide.com/lordoftheflies/
- http://www.homework-online.com/lotf/
tell me if you need any more ;)
Well I pulled my quad about 2 months ago and its been getting better until I pulled it again. Then it finally got better until a few days ago when it repulled. Now it feels like the muscle is displaced when I move my leg even though its not.
I have put ice on it, heat on it, but nothing seems to be helping. I also put icyhot on it.
I have a soccer game tomorrow and Its not bad enough to not play but its bad enough for it to hurt so I don't do as well.
Any advice on how to fix it?
Thanks. 5's for helpful info. =)
i know this is a generic answer but you should go to the doctors to make sure you didn't dislocate your leg, and i wouldnt play in the soccer game if i were you because you could make it worse =/
good luck & feel better!!
in school the other day me and a head of the guidance office. Got into a argument over if i was cutting A period. I told her i was in the school but didn't sign in right away because i didn't want to go to the detention room (T1).i told her i was at school in the cafe room. she keep telling me im lying to tell her the true. i started to yell and told her i know where the hell i was at. she kept saying in know what i saw but she had here times mixed up and when i told her about it she corrected here self. now at home i lost my computer right. my mom say i have to tell her im sorry for the way i acted but i feel that i didn't it in my own self defence. But this is not the only time she tryed to get me to lye or tell here were i was at.
well you should just tell the guidance counselor that your sorry because you dont want to lose a computer over it and you dont want trouble with a guidance counselor because they're the ones who usually write recommendations for colleges and stuff
Hey fitness people! =)
I'm gettin ready for summer by changing my body into..well, fit and fabolous.
So I'm already jump roping/running 45 minutes a day, but recently I found out it won't make me lose weight + get a fit body unless I combine it with some weight lifting or workouts of those forms, so there's a problem with this; I'm under 16 and not allowed to join a gym.
How can I work on the muscle-building part of getting skinnier AT HOME? what can I do, that actually works, and won't need to by extra equipment? will just simple crunches and push-ups do? or do I acrtually need WEIGHT ?
Thank you in advance!
well im trying to get fit too and i have the best solution.. if you have comcast On Demand they have a sports / fitness section where you can rent FREE excersize tapes on your TV and do them without having to wait for shipping or buy them or anything.. it works so good and they a lot of different types of workouts.. lol i sound like an advertisement but anyway if you dont have comcast on demand then either get it or get some excersize tapes, thats the only ways i think are really effective for muscle-building :)
Hi im 15/f and I am what you can call it a "semi-bulimic"
i am "semi-bulimic" because i only purge when i feel i need to...
you know what i mean? like if i feel i ate a lot
which i feel that right now ...because i decided to go on like no bread or potato or cake and snack crap... only for a week like south beach diet... but nooo i hate to eat the fricken cup cake (not one but 5)
and i had to have potatoes and bread...
I knew i was full when i was eating cakes...but i shoved that in anyways because it tasted so good...ugh and now im feeling rly full and feel really guilty that i couldnt control my stupid
temtation i had... so yeah...
I mean i am even on this stupid pill that is suppose to control my hunger but it doesnt... i mean it doesnt make me hungry but i still eat it anyways cuz it taste good... how can i control my temtations??? i've been through this so many times that i am depressed all the time i think about me losing control over my self like that...
so anyone please help me stop over eating like that... please??? thank you so much in advance
well its not a good thing that your semi-bulimic but i have some ideas for you.
- if your one of those people who knows where all the snacks in the house are then take those snacks and ask your mom to hide them and put fruits and good healthy food in their places
- to make you feel better about eating a lot, excersize A LOT because the more you excersize, the faster your metabolism gets (i thinkk), and the more you can eat
- dont worry about eating too much because you've only got one life and you shouldnt spend the whole thing worrying about weights, live each day like its your last
those are just some ideas..