Member Since: June 3, 2006
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Last Update: June 6, 2006
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16/f My friend and I both like eachother. We've both expressed our feelings for eachother, but we've never kissed or anything else along those lines. I really want to start something with him, but the problem is that he's going to college and I won't be able to see him at school all the time anymore (he'll be about 2 hours away). How do I persuade him that we could work things out even if he goes to college? Anyone have any good reasons at why long term relationships can work? He doesn't believe that they can. (link)
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Yes they can work if you and him have the will power. I live in Georgia and my bf is in the Marines so he is in North Carolina. I am up here right this second visiting him. In January he will be put on a ship varound the world for 6-8 months. We are so happy together and thats why it works between us. If yall like each other enough it will work yall can make it work.
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me and my boyfriend are expecting a baby in february. we are obviously not married- but im wondering if when it comes, will it obtain my last name or his?- i was thnking itd have to be mine- since hes not really my spouse- but is there any way can request that it has his last name if needed? (link)
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the baby can have either ur name or his. My godson was born in Feburary last year (weird isnt it lol) and his parents aint married and his last name is his fathers last name. When yall sign the papers put the name as his. Good luck with the baby.
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Okay, so I was at this party one time, & this boy says that he likes me, & asks me out.
I had a BIG crush on him at the time, so of course, i said yes.
A few days later, he says that he was only kidding, & he didn't like me. He only asked me out because his friends dared him to.
On the last day of school, he asks me out... AGAIN. What am i supposed to do? Should i believe him, or not? (link)
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dont do it. You can find someone else. A lot better at that. If you want go out with him and then a few days later break up with him and tell him the same story that he told you.
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I'm not big into church, I believe in God, but I can't stand going to church. I get bored out of my mind, and idk I just don't like going at all. I hate youth group too, everythings lame, and theres two girls there that are even close to my age, and I hate em both. My moms always trying to get me to go to church with her, but IDK how to tell her I don't like it at all! (link)
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I know what you are saying. I belive in god but I dont go either. I dont see how someone can do something bad on saturday go to church on sunday ask him to forgive them and then turn around and do it again on monday. Its stupid. Tell your mom that you belive in god and all but church is not your thing tell her she should respect your choices I dont know your age or anything but it sounds like to me that you are old enought to make your own decisions. Just tell her that yall have to have a truthful and serious talk. Tell her straight up what you want to say.
Good luck.
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Okay, this is kind of gross, but I mean, I really need help, and fast. You see, we've had a long history of breast cancer in my family, and my aunt died of it 2 years ago.
Well, I was taking a shower today, and I got out to dry myself off. I noticed that my chest hurt really bad, and I looked down, and saw this huge lump on the side of my nipple. I felt it and it felt like this huge ball underneath my skin. It hurts realy, really bad. I know that your breasts already hurt if you touch 'em, but this was just like excrusiating pain.
So I have a few questions.
1. Can you get breast cancer at 14 years old? (I just turned 14 on may 30th.)
2. Does anyone else have this?
3. If not, should I get it checked out?
4. If I do need to get it checked out, how should I tell my Mom?
I'm like, really scared. I hope its nothing, but I don't know who to ask. My Mom's not here, and when she does get here, she'll have 3 friends with her. Please help me ASAP! (link)
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1) Yes you can get it at any age.
2)Not really but I am a small person. I had a lump on my breast and I went to get it checked oout and they said I could feel that cause I am so small.
3)Yes better be safe than sorry.
4)Just be straight up tell her how you feel and show her the lump. Its your mother you should be able to tell her anything this is very important.
Good luck to you and sorry about your history of the family we have it to but lung cancer.
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16/F, Recently, this guy told me how he felt and he said that he loved me since 7th grade. I'm thinking isn't just an obsession or a huge crush? and is it possible to love someone even if you're not with that person and you don't have a relationship with that person? (link)
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yes it is. I had a friend since the 6th grade. When we get in highschool I found out that "I was the only thing that he has thought of since 6 th grtade." Its weird it is but I didnt see him for 3 years and come to find out he was looking for me for 3 years. Thats not a ccrush or anything thasts "love" In my eye yes it is possible.
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ok it has been two years for me liking this guy we have went out and broke up several times... currently he is going out with this other girl and it is making me annoyed! I really don't want to like him anymore but i just can't stop and anyways i no for a fact that he likes me bc when i told him i liked him he asked me if i would ever go out with him after him and the other girl broke up...
what should i do about no likeing him anymore cause i really dont want to like him!!! please respond quickly
P.S. know i just cant let go ive been trying for 2 years!!!!!!!!! (link)
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So your question is how to get over him. It takes time. I liked someone for 3 years and we went out for a while. I know it sounds hard and dont get me wrong it is hard. Thats life not everything is easy. (like that girl he was with lol just kidding trying to make you laugh. Dont know if she is easy or not.) I was almost over my 3 year of wanting to let go guy when I took a chance and went out with this other guy. I am so happy with him. It like everyday is better than the day before. Its going to take time. In the meantime go out have fun try not to think of him and if a hottie comes up get his number go on a date see how things work out. good luck.
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Yes, I am sure everyone is getting sick of these "does he like me" questions. But, you have to understand the only reason they are being asked is because we sometimes can't tell as well as a 3rd party would. So, here it goes...I seen this guy I know at the video store & he walked out with me to the parking lot & we ended up standing there for a good half an hour talking. He made some sexual remarks, jokingly. Then, he even said, "you in the market for a boyfriend because your all gussied up." And, yes he was looking at me a lot. Now, does he actually kinda like me or do ya think he was being "friendly." Sometimes, I just can't tell. Thanks. (link)
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well either that or he is just waanting to get you in bed. If he says sexual things or looks at your body more than your face (dont get me wrong they are guys they will look at your body and talk sexualy if they didnt they would be gay. lol) than all he wants is sex. Get his number go on a date see how it is and you can see if he likes you. If he does than good luck if he doesnt there is someone better for you a lot better.
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Are there many girls that don't shave down there? Or do most? I was messing around with my bf today, and his hands "slipped" down there and I hadn't shaved. I asked him if he minded and he said he didn't, but I dunno. I've never shaved it before and am not sure whether I should start. Can someone give me some advice? I don't want him to be grossed out. (link)
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Its all up to you. To tell you the truth I shave sometimes. I know how you feel. I didnt know what to do at first shave or not shave? I decided to do it one day and I lilke it. It makes me feel cleaner and more breeze like. If you still aint sure ask your bf if he would rather like you to shave or not. But mostly do what u feel confortaBLE with. I havent shaved in a while and my bf did the same thing and he told me that wasnt what mattered what mattered is if I wanted it to be shaved or not. So do what u think is right and if it doesnt matter to you ask your bf what he would like.
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Ok, this guy asked me to a school dance. But, he is fat, and he is a real nerd. He was the first to ask me. Im afraid that people will laugh at me for going with him. I really want to go because it will be fun and we get to go to six flags afterwards. What should I do? Go to the dance with the fat nerd... or stay home? (link)
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You need to stop being rude first of all. Looks does not matter. Thats very sad. If you are going to judge people like that you will not make it far in life. And second you should not care what people think of you. If they dont like you or laugh at you or say mean things to you then tell them to fuck off. I am not saying all of this because I am "fat or a nerd" because im not. I am a small person and I am not very smart. And no people never made fun of me because they knew if they did I would have hit them. PLus I wasnt in school that much. I was a trouble maker. lol. So see right there should be all the answers to your questions.
1)I dont care what you say or think about what I wrote you dont like it then shove it.
2)Dont worry about the looks of someone I am sure that that "fat nerd" is a very nice person. At leat you know he will make something and be someone out of life.
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I really like my BF but I am going to Kentucky and Florida this summer and wont see him for 5 weeks =/ I dont know whether to break up with him, Go on a break, or just stay with him. BUT if I stay with him I will never see him for awhile. What should I do? (link)
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If you like him stay with him. 5 weeks isnt that bad. My boyfriend went to Iraq for 7 months and I stayed with him. He is about to leave in January for 6-8 months and you better bellive I will still be with him when he leaves and when he omes back. If you like him dont give it up because of 5 weeks not see him. It will fly by. Yall can talk on the phone and write letters. It will be romantic and not only that maybe the time apart will be good. Make sure that yalls relationship is worth keeping.
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well I started dating this guy, lets call him Bob (lol).. I dated Bob before like 3 or 4 times.. I really liked him this time to.. We tried meetin each other cause we would never get to see each other.. but he always couldn't go.. well he emailed me and told me I think we jumped into our relationship to fast well I thought we would still be talkin so I was sorta ok with it.. but its 4 days and we ain't spoken a word.. I think he likes other girls and stuff.. I should move on and just forget about him..More I don't speak to him the less I think he cares..I can't even get him out of my head..Do you think I should forget about him or not? (link)
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Forget about him and move on. I know you may say yea easy to say it but hard to do it. I know cause I been there. Let me tell you about mine and see if it helps you. I dated this guy for a year. We was each others first (sex) we broke up and didnt talk for a year. Then when we did..... well he gave me the run around pretty much. He was the only thing I thought about for 3 years. That is a long time a very long time. I LOVED him. But I finally said you know take a chance get with someone else and maybe it could be better what do I got to lose I been with this guy I am with now for almomst 2 years and everyday when I wake up I am more happier than the day before. It was worth it. So take a chance dump that guy and go to the next. Do what I did dump a guy that wasnt worth shit to be with a guy that treats you like a queen and would never hurt you. It will be hard dont get me wrong but take that chance if some hottie comes up to you go on a date with him see how things go. Trust me you will think me later and years from know you will be telling someone else what I am telling you know.
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I feel REALLY bad about something that happened today. Well I was in a horrible mood this morning because of what happened at work the other day- things got so bad I almost quit. Also I got no sleep because I ran out of my medication last night that I'm supposed to take before I go to bed. Well my friend walked over to my appartment this morning (uninvited). I was still in a really bad mood and was being really bitchy- not to her just moody. I apologized to her and then treated her to lunch at Mcdonalds. I told her why I was upset and that I was thinking of looking for a new job. I still feel really bad- when she first walked in to my appartment building she said "good morning"- I said "it's not a good morning". I apologized twice- but she sort of just invited herself over which upset me a little she should have phoned first. Should I still apologize for being bitchy or just drop it? (link)
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I say just drop it. You have already said you are sorry and if she still holds it against you then maybe she isnt as good of a friend as you think she is. People have good days and bad days. Your normal. lol. I wouldnt worry about it. Shit happens. And good luck with the job thing.
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okay...is it at all possible to feel as if you are totally in love with someone and then for a little while not feel as strongly and then a few days later feel in love again??....yea weird...i know but idk...
~thanks!
-Rosemarie (link)
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I dont think its love but I am sure you haave strong feelings. Its just like when people fight they say thing they dont mean. But with this its your feelings.
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There is the guy that I have 'talked' to twice. The first time he just blew me off and wouldn't return my calls. The second time we got into an arguement and we didn't talk for a week or so and by then he had already found another girl to like. However, this past weekend he has told me that he misses me and stuff, and we hungout the other night and he barely said 5 words to me. I don't understand why he wouldn't talk to me if he misses me and wants to talk more and stuff. Do you think if the opportunity came around I should give him another chance? This being the third one? I'm afraid of liking him again and then in the end being the one left upset and hurt. Boys are confusing. (link)
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Dont do it. He aint worth YOUR time. You can find a guy out there that will treat you right. The guy should run back to you not you run to him. Dump him and leave it at that. Go find someone a lot better. And if you want for the fun of it..... after you fnd someone else show him what he is missing out on for being a jefrk off. lol
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