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There is the guy that I have 'talked' to twice. The first time he just blew me off and wouldn't return my calls. The second time we got into an arguement and we didn't talk for a week or so and by then he had already found another girl to like. However, this past weekend he has told me that he misses me and stuff, and we hungout the other night and he barely said 5 words to me. I don't understand why he wouldn't talk to me if he misses me and wants to talk more and stuff. Do you think if the opportunity came around I should give him another chance? This being the third one? I'm afraid of liking him again and then in the end being the one left upset and hurt. Boys are confusing.
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It's nice that you're willing to give him another chance, but he certainly doesn't deserve one. He has messed you over twice already, and as you put it "found another girl to like" even though it had only been a week! He doesn't sound very genuine. By giving him another chance you may just be hurt again. Don't waste your time on a guy like this when there are plenty who will treat you well. If he had only upset you once, then maybe you could give him another chance. But twice is unacceptable.. I think in this case its true that a leopard never changes its spots. Don't let him hurt you again.
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Dont do it. He aint worth YOUR time. You can find a guy out there that will treat you right. The guy should run back to you not you run to him. Dump him and leave it at that. Go find someone a lot better. And if you want for the fun of it..... after you fnd someone else show him what he is missing out on for being a jefrk off. lol
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I wouldn't go out with him again. Or if you really really want to, I'd sit down and talk to him and tell him how you feel. Explain your afraid to go out wtih him because he might leave you upset and hurt. I'd also mention about how he blew you off and doesn't seam to make you feel "special", he just another girl. It appears that's how he's acting. I could be totally wrong! I wouldn't suggest going out with him if he goes from girl to girl it shows he can't make a commitment. I think for your own good I wouldn't go out with him, but it's your choice. Good Luck!
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Given the fact that he's been ignoring you and everything that goes with the last two times you were together, I say you shouldn't bother giving him another chance.
I don't see him changing anytime soon and neither should you. He sounds like a guy who tends to think he wants something and when he gets it, he kind of pushes it away. So let him learn that he can't keep this pattern up because you aren't the kind of girl who tolerates it.
-TheTeenGirl
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Well I guess it really just depends if you really like the guy and if you think that he can be trusted again. However, If i were in this situation I would probably try and just let him go. If it didn't work the first two times you 'talked' then it most likely isn't going to work the third time. And you are right, boys are confusing. I guess the question you have to ask yourself is, "Is is being hurt in the end if things dont work out worth it?" If your answer is no, then I would not begin anything with him again. Hope I helped!!
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