this may be kind of long but ill try to make it as short as possible. me and this guy mike have been broken up for about a year and a half. the whole time we have talked and he still tells me he loves me and misses me every once in a while. well tonight i was with my friend and he called me. well he then told me he was coming to my house but i told him no cause im scared of heartbreak. i do have a boyfriend of 7 months but i still do care about mike. and my boyfriend is amazing so i dont want to hurt him. well mike stayed for like 10 minutes trying to get me to come outside but i couldnt bring my self to it cause i always do. well later on he told me that he made me something since i made him a scrapbook last summer. he refuses to give it to me til i see him. he stayed on the phone with me after he left and had something to say but couldnt because his friend was there. he told me wed talk about it later and i asked when that was and he told me he didnt know. i really care about him and i always will cause he was my first love but i dont know what to do. should i just let him come over and give it to me and talk to me like he wanted and say what he wanted or should i just say no? please help. thanks so much!!
This may be kind of long, hope you don't mind. but here it goes. =D
Well darling. I was amazed while reading this, because I was in the same situation and in away still kind of am.
Honestly, from experience. I think this guy may still have feelings for you, but I also think that he might just be jealous of the fact that you're with someone else. You know the whole " He doesn't want you, but doesn't want you to have anyone else" type thing. It's very normal for you to still care about him, seeing as he was your first love and everything. I still care about mine to. Trust me.
I'm proud of you for not giving into him and going outside to talk to him. By doing so you're only setting yourself up for another heartbreak. You're much stronger than I am, and I admire you for that.
And the whole "he refuses to give w.e it is he has for you until you see him" thats bribery. He shouldn't be doing that. He should do it no matter what, if really cares about you. And also, if he really cared about you and wanted to tell you something, he should have said it infront of his friends regardless.
It's kind of hard to say if you should let him come over. Do you want to get over him? Or do you want to get back together even though you have another guy you care about?
If it was me, because i previous just did this. Have him come over and give you what he has for you, and let him tell you what he has. But don't respond to him with an "omg i love you, i want you back" type thing. Act like you don't really care, as hard as that may sound to do. It is possible. Maybe you should just let him go, tell him you're over him and move on. It will hurt. Yes. But i've learned that it's better to just let go and be hurt, then to continue giving into him and being left heartbroken everytime. It sucks, and I think everyone goes through it once in their life time. But, you just have to let go. =D
I hope I helped in someway, if you have any further questions, feel free to write back or
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hello, this is Jackie here. I have a problem. I am confused... there is this boy, I like him and from what I can tell, he likes me. I am 14 and he is a little older. This weekend this boy, my sister and another boy went to a community swimming pool. We sat next to eachother, he put his arm around me, and we held hands. after that I went home and soon I got a call from some girl saying that she was the boys new girl friend and that I need to stay away from him now. and I'm not sure if she's for real, or just being mean? I think that it could be this girl who's friends with him, that I made a comment about me not liking. So maybe she found out and knows that I like him, and wanted to get me back. I'm not sure. what do you think? Please help i rate well
*jackie*
Well, he definitely likes you. Thats obvious. It is possible that she is just trying to get you back, but maybe she really is telling the truth.
The best thing to do is just to flat out ask him. If he likes you, then its not like you have to worry about feeling embarrassed. Just simply ask him if he's dating anyone, and if he is then thats pretty messed up. He led you on, and he shouldn't have done that if he had no intentions of persuing his actions.
Hope I helped. =D
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there is this guy who i was like in love with and he was in love with me for 3 months but i guess he stoped... annyway about a month ago he asked someone out without telling me(we didnt want to start going out because he had dumped his gf for me and didnt want to make it obvious)and i heard about it from someone i knew and i got really mad and to make a long story short we ticked eatchother off preddy bad and he started talkeing again about a month after i got his gf to dump him and now hes acting like im some obsessive wierd chick just because i want it to be like it was before and i just want to get over this creep before he hurts me anny more. anny ideas? i rate high thank you so much
Well hun the only thing I can really say is..don't talk to him. You're probably thinking 'yeah right I can't do that, I care about him too much' and BELIEVE ME I know exactly how you feel. It sounds pretty much like my life story.
I'm sure you already feel hurt about the fact that he's asked another girl out, been there done that, it is no fun.
And you are not some obsessive weird chick. You can't control the feelings you have, and you shouldn't have to. I don't blame you for wanting things to be like they used to, but I think the best thing for you to do is just try to get over him.
Don't talk to him, meet other guys, and get to know other guys. Theres a right guy out there somewhere for you. All you have to do is find him. =D Obviously this one doesn't know what he's missing. Hope I helped. I'm here if you need anything else. =D
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Ok I always use the term "i like him" because it seems at my age i can't really love someone (i'm 15 and a girl) but i've 'liked' this guy for almost a year and a half. Everytime i see him i feel lots of butterflies in my stomach, i find myself stareing at him and when he looks at me i look away. i also find him looking at me. but i also find myself constantly talking about him and when i talk about him muy friends are always like wow you smile a lot when you talk about him, and when i'm not talking about him i'm thinking about him. i feel a little over liking him for my age. I don't go out with him but i've turned down dates because i can't imagine going out with anyone else. I either need some serious help or could i be in 'love'?!?!
kinda scary to think about.
I know exactly how you feel! If he doesn't know that you like him, you should tell him. Maybe he has the feelings back. You never know. I know that you may not think its possible to be in love with some at your age, but I think that it is possible. I'm also 15 and know exactly what you're going through. I've liked the same guy for 2 years, and I only dated him for 4 months and i'm still head over heals for him.
I think the best thing you could possibly do is just to tell him how you feel and get it our of your system if he doesn't know already.
Good luck, and I hope I helped. =D
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im 14 and ive been straightening my hair since like 12 1/2. so its been like 2 years kinda.. well like what hair straightening does.. it fried my hair. and i also blow dry it every day.. and its REALLY bad, like its poofy and its like dry.. but once i straighten it it looks kinda healthy, and not so poofy. so i was wondering what could i do to get my hair back to healthy.. you dont understand how POOFY it gets when i get out of the shower.. so if i like blowdried my hair on cool(not the high heat, like cold heat) and not straighten it as much, would that help? what things could i do so it will become healthy again? and im sorry its so long, but i will rate!
Well, my hair used to be the same way and still kind of is. My hair is also poofy once I get out of the shower and it starts to dry and when I blow dry it. I also straighten it a lot as well.
Good ceramic straighteners tend to work better, and not dry your hair out as much. I used to have a cheap one from walmart and it really dried out my hair. But then i saved up my money and bought a CHI. The best cermaic one you can buy, and it doesn't damage your hair as bad.
Also, you can buy conditioners that you leave in for awhile, and it's like a deep moisturizing thing, and cutting your hair and getting it thinned out also helps to keep it healthier.
You can also try not blow drying it, let it air dry and then straighten it, that way you're not adding as much heat to it. =D
Hope I helped.
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Ok, so I've liked this girl for a long time, and during the beggining of the school year she also liked me (I didn't know it back then). Now, she's going out with one of my friends, but we still talk a lot. She also keeps on asking me who I like (A lot!) Every time she says that though, I just ward it off by saying something else. So my question is...should I tell her that I like her, or keep that secret safe with me?
Yes, I think you should tell her. It sounds to me that she could still possibly like you. A lot of the time when a girl continuously asks a guy who they like it is a sign of flirting. I'm a girl, and I usually do that when I like a guy, and I know a lot of other girls who do as well.
The worst that could happen is that she doesn't like you back. But isn't it better to tell her and find out if she still has feelings for you, rather than keeping it to yourself and wondering for the rest of your life? So the next time she asks who you like, just tell her that its her. =D Simple as that. Don't worry about it, i'm sure everything will be fine.
Good luck, and I hope I helped. If you have any further questions, just send me a message. =D
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How do you make your buddylist on AIM alphabetical? I know there's a way to, but I can't figure it out. Thanks for any feedback! ♥
You go to setup buddylist and then right click on the category like "buddies" for example and click sort group. Hope I helped. =D
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I have alot of black heads on my nose, and a bunch of pimples on my forehead and my temples. They aren't like big and red, just alot of bumps. I've used dozens of acne medicines (Noxzmea, Clean and Clear, Clearasail just to name a few) and nothings ever gotten rid of them. My mom doesn't have the money for ProActive, or the dermatologist, so what are some ways to get rid of my acne once and for all!
Well, I have had the same problem as you are currently having. The best thing i've found to do is just wash your face a lot, and wear as little make up as possible. Wearing make up causes your face to get oily and causes more acne. Also, Eating good food, cutting out the grease from food and drinking plenty of water will help maintain a beautiful skin. Skin is nourished during sleep. Therefore good rest is necessary to maintain a healthy skin.
Most teenagers go through their stage where they start to break out. So just continue to wash your face. And good luck!
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There is the guy that I have 'talked' to twice. The first time he just blew me off and wouldn't return my calls. The second time we got into an arguement and we didn't talk for a week or so and by then he had already found another girl to like. However, this past weekend he has told me that he misses me and stuff, and we hungout the other night and he barely said 5 words to me. I don't understand why he wouldn't talk to me if he misses me and wants to talk more and stuff. Do you think if the opportunity came around I should give him another chance? This being the third one? I'm afraid of liking him again and then in the end being the one left upset and hurt. Boys are confusing.
Well I guess it really just depends if you really like the guy and if you think that he can be trusted again. However, If i were in this situation I would probably try and just let him go. If it didn't work the first two times you 'talked' then it most likely isn't going to work the third time. And you are right, boys are confusing. I guess the question you have to ask yourself is, "Is is being hurt in the end if things dont work out worth it?" If your answer is no, then I would not begin anything with him again. Hope I helped!!
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