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Um..in like or in love?
Ok I always use the term "i like him" because it seems at my age i can't really love someone (i'm 15 and a girl) but i've 'liked' this guy for almost a year and a half. Everytime i see him i feel lots of butterflies in my stomach, i find myself stareing at him and when he looks at me i look away. i also find him looking at me. but i also find myself constantly talking about him and when i talk about him muy friends are always like wow you smile a lot when you talk about him, and when i'm not talking about him i'm thinking about him. i feel a little over liking him for my age. I don't go out with him but i've turned down dates because i can't imagine going out with anyone else. I either need some serious help or could i be in 'love'?!?!
kinda scary to think about.
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well ive been in a situation like this, i really liked the guy, and did all the stuff you mentioned.. but then i got over him and realised it was just a BIG crush, maybe you do love him, but i dont think so because you cant question love, i suggest try talking to him, or if your shy ask a friend to talk to him.
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hunny.
age does not matter.
you can fall in love whenever. i was like..9 wen i 1st fell in love like you did. haha i know that probably sounds crazy, "how could a 9 year old be in love?!?!" but it just happens like that. no you dont need serious help...everyone gets like this when they either reallllllllllly like someone or love them. and how should you get him to know? well...im the type that flat out tells them. so i mean as scary as it seems. tell him. either online, or on the phone, or in person. just think of it like this:
if you get rejected. its not the end of the world, life will go on.
and if you get accepted. hell that speaks for itself. haha
hope this helps! ♥ :]
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I know exactly how you feel! If he doesn't know that you like him, you should tell him. Maybe he has the feelings back. You never know. I know that you may not think its possible to be in love with some at your age, but I think that it is possible. I'm also 15 and know exactly what you're going through. I've liked the same guy for 2 years, and I only dated him for 4 months and i'm still head over heals for him.
I think the best thing you could possibly do is just to tell him how you feel and get it our of your system if he doesn't know already.
Good luck, and I hope I helped. =D
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It seems to me that you may be in love and you aren't even dating him. The best way to find out if you are in love with him or not is to date him you can't love something you haven't tried. After you are dating a while if the feelings stay the same then you very well may be in love with him. But you won't really know until you have been with him.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Its scary on how much I was just like you at 15. I also don't like to say "I love him" because that is a young age to know about love. There was a guy who I had a huge crush on (( he was a grade older )). I liked him pretty much all throughout high school. I got butterflies and got incredibly nervous when I saw him & when he looked I'd look away, just like you. I was always thinking about him but the thing is, is that I NEVER talked about him. None of my friends knew and the only person who knew was him, I'm pretty sure. I was never really interested in anyone else and kind of avoided the guys who had an interest in me because I couldn't see myself with anyone else.
But I kind of blew it. I never talked to him. He graduated last year and I graduated this past thursday so I guess its kind of time to move on. I couldn't really help you with the whole love & like thing but I pretty much know exactly how you feel. I would say you probably just have a realllllly big crush on him.
But please, please, please do this: talk to him. If you've never talked to him, find someway to introduce yourself to him. Ask him if he wants to hang out. You'll regret it if you never do. And I would also know how that feels.
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Hi, it could possibly be love. But it could be lust. Here are the differences:
LOVE
Heart warming, like him for who he is, When you both feel a liking for one another, When he makes you feel special, can't stop thinking about him, feel romance, feel all lovey-dovey (love letters, poems) towards him, care about him
LUST
Turns you on (makes you feel horny), Want to engage in a sexual activity with him, Fantisise about him, like him because of his looks, Attracts your attention, Sexual desire, Have an orgasm for him, Get emmbarressed (face goes red)when near him, Have a high libido for him
It is normal to feel in love at your age. Try and work out how you feel towards this guy. Look at these 2 categories above. If you feel more to 1 than the other then there is your answer. Don't confuse love for lust. Daniel.
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Your not too young to be in love. If you have alot of feelings toward him then maybe you are. But don't be too obssesive over him because it will scare him away. He`s probally your first love, if you are going out! We`ll i hope i helped. =]Good luck!
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