kay so heres the issue (sorry its long but i couldnt shorten it much more.);
this guy & i met during a play (we both love drama) and we became close friends. so yeah then i started liking him, so i told him right after the play ended & he said he was flattered but he had to get to know me better before he could say whether he liked me back or not. so we continued to talk, hang out at school, & even went to the movies/lunch once!! for a while, i was also #2 on his top 8. hehe =P well, these people i thought were "good friends" of mine started bugging the crappp out of him about liking me, asking me out, etc. and he got REALLY annoyed. however, i had no idea that this was going on (while he thought i told those people to bug him!)so we just drifted apart, and i had no idea why. now just recently, my other friend told me what they had done & that the reason the guy & i drifted apart wasnt my fault at ALL. i reallyyyy want to reconnect with him because i still have feelings for him, but i dont know how to contact him, let him know i still like him, and tell him that i didnt tell my "friends" to bug him! my bff says i should just call him & be like "hey whats up?" but we havent talked in so long and that would be SO weird. im veryy confused & ever so slightly desperate. help me please!
haha ok.
well i mean if it was me, id call him up. ive talked to people that i havnt talked to in a long time on the phone and its really not weird...i mean deff tell him that whole thing wasnt you..dont tell him right away you still like him. give that some time. but i mean at least reconnect with him by calling him and making an effort.
hope this helps! keep me posted!♥ =]
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how do you keep a long relationship?
well i mean u should only keep a long relationship if its not forced.
im assuming u mean romanticly so:
obviously the basics; no cheating, total honesty, and real love for one another.
it'll take some work from both ure parts.
so be prepared.
if the spark dies, end the relationship. dont have a just keep it if all you want is to be telling people you're longest relationship was a whole year.
hope this helps! ♥ :]
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My boobs are so small and people make fun of them how do you make them bigger?
well. unfortunatly, you cant. well i mean yes, you can stuff, but i mean then you just get made fun of more. u could try a push up bra. those make ure boobs appear bigger. but dont worry! in most cases theyll grow.
hope this helps! ♥ :]
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13/f, my grandmother used to be okay, never used to get into my way, always feeding us, and helping us. I went to this award banquet, and she didn't like what I was wearing. When she described what I should wear, it was a wedding dress. I explained that for this occasion, you just wear simple things, but she didn't listen. I went the way I looked anyhow. Everyone who passed us, she would say, you see how that person has that... and other what nonsense. She said how my breasts were sticking out. Bra or no bra, of course it would show, I have breasts, wouldn't the shape and size of it show? Now for graduation, she's forcing to dress up in some wedding gown thing. My mom had to tell her no. My grandmother thinks that I'm dressing the wrong way. What's her problem?
well..alot of grandmas are like this. they live in there generation, and see it their way and no one elses. she doesnt have a problem, she just doesnt approve of how you dress, and is probably ashamed of it. but u shouldnt be, b/c if you think you look fine, it shouldnt matter about anyone else.
hope this helps! ♥ :]
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Ok I always use the term "i like him" because it seems at my age i can't really love someone (i'm 15 and a girl) but i've 'liked' this guy for almost a year and a half. Everytime i see him i feel lots of butterflies in my stomach, i find myself stareing at him and when he looks at me i look away. i also find him looking at me. but i also find myself constantly talking about him and when i talk about him muy friends are always like wow you smile a lot when you talk about him, and when i'm not talking about him i'm thinking about him. i feel a little over liking him for my age. I don't go out with him but i've turned down dates because i can't imagine going out with anyone else. I either need some serious help or could i be in 'love'?!?!
kinda scary to think about.
hunny.
age does not matter.
you can fall in love whenever. i was like..9 wen i 1st fell in love like you did. haha i know that probably sounds crazy, \"how could a 9 year old be in love?!?!\" but it just happens like that. no you dont need serious help...everyone gets like this when they either reallllllllllly like someone or love them. and how should you get him to know? well...im the type that flat out tells them. so i mean as scary as it seems. tell him. either online, or on the phone, or in person. just think of it like this:
if you get rejected. its not the end of the world, life will go on.
and if you get accepted. hell that speaks for itself. haha
hope this helps! ♥ :]
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is always calling him. Like everytime I am with him, she calls. she'll call like 92875 times if he doesn't pick up. Then he told me that he told her to stop calling because he has a new gf and she cried, cuz she loves him and they lost their virginity to each other but they broke up in february. soo then i thought she stopped calling, but then the other day when i was with him and his friends and his friend has his cell and told him that she called, and then he's all like, why.. what time.. etc. He was really interested in her call.
i've never met the girl, she goes to a different school.
I feel like i'm just getting in the way of something that they could have again. If you've seen The OC, I feel like I'm Anna and they're Seth and Summer. I wish I knew a way to bring this up to him, but I don't know how and I don't even know what I'd say because I can't even put it into words how I feel. I feel like a fool, but theres more to it.
and then last night we hung out til like 11, and then he called me at 11:15 because he's going on vacation and we won't see each other til next week and i said i had a headache, and he told me to go to bed, and i told him that it wouldn't matter if i went to bed because i'm not tired. at the time i thought he was just trying to give me good advice about my headache, but he was really just trying to get rid of me so he could CALL HIS EX GIRLFRIEND. after the headache thing, he was all like, "im sooo tired, im gonna go to bed." but i believed him at the time. then i logged onto myspace and his ex left him a comment being like, 'thanks for calling me at 11:30 last night! call me tons when your down there!" me and him got off the phone a little before 11:30. so much for GOING TO BED.
i've never mentioned anything about how i feel about him and his ex gf, i just keep it to myself because i don't know how to bring it up. he said he'd call me while he was on vacation, so when he calls I think I'll just be like, "I'll let you go, so you can call [his ex] or something." Idk. Advice?
whoa. okay...since they lost their virginity to each other, i'm sure this girl just has a connection to him and is having a hard time letting him go. and it also seems like hes having a hard time letting her go...if i were you..i just be friends with him. and i mean that. like not brake up and say ure gunna be friends, really be friends with him. because until hes ready to start screening these girls calls and crap, hes not ready for another realationship unless its with her. but thats just me. andddd! he was trying to get rid of you?! to call her?! im sorry. but thats where i would draw the line. but its totally up 2 you.
hope this helps! ♥ :]
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someone said;
"I got my permit"
what does the person mean? thanks..
I rate
well...in most cases it means like a "pre" license. you normally get this when you're 14 and 8 months i believe, but dont call me on it. and you dont have to get it exactly when you're able to. this also means you have to be driving with an adult (someone 18+).
hope this helps!♥ :]
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On September 20, 2004, i started going out with this kid, Bryan. Me and Bryan only lasted like what? 3 months? we broke up on January 3, 2005. Even though it was a short relationship, i can't get him out of my mind. But when we were going out, the world felt like there was no misperfections at all. During the time we were together, i met this other kid, Rich. Rich was hotter than Bryan, and I wanted to get with Rich. [which was stupid of me]. Bryan did everything he could to change my mind. When I broke up with him, he came to my house the next day with roses. Anyway, now, i think about him all the time (bryan). When we broke up, he started to pretend like everything was okay. He was an ass to me, and everyone knew that it was because he was still mad that i dumped him. and i told him i was sorry. But he just doesnt listen. I know that he still loves me though. The bad thing is, is that he went to DR two days ago. He's staying there for a YEAR. i cried when i found out. Me and bryan had our convo's where we talked about the past, and he always said stuff like "I was the best thing you ever had". or like "I gave you my all, and you gave me shit". And i know he's upset, but i still love him. And i don't want to tell him [even though i think he knows], but what should i do? He says that he never loved anyone in his life, but theres a feeling in my gut that tells me that he really loves me, but he doesnt want to admit it. Maybe i'm just imagining things, but i dont know. So what do you think? Should i just get over him [which i've been trying for 2 years]? Or should i tell him everything..how i feel..and all that. I'll rate 5's to anythingg.
okay...
you're deff in a situation here. bryan sounds like an amazing guy,and to let this guy without a fight would be just plain stupid.
yes. u dumped him. but you obviously werent in your right mind. so now that you are, you can start to make some sense.
if your gut says he really still loves you, and you love him, i say you tell him EVERYTHING. i have a couple friends who both liked each other but never said anything to the other and they both never knew how the other really felt. just ran on rumors. so tell him. and then see how it goes. because if its meant to be, destiny will take its course.
hope this helps! ♥ :]
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does anyone know a good site to get icons with quotes or just quotes.
i need good quotes to say goodbye. by friend is moving to another country this year and im making this thing for her but i need goodbye quotes for it.
thanks
really good site for icons:
www.iconator.com
i get ALL my icons from there.
for quotes:
www.wittyprofiles.com
hope this helps! ♥ :]
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Ok, I know so many people have asked this question but I still need help. I can't put in a frikkin tampon!
ok. well...if you're moms willing, have her do it for you. haha since not all mothers are willing for this, there are directions on tampax boxes of how to insert. and after you read those...my doctor always tell me to aim for the arch of my back. i know weird...but you'll have to try it.
hope this helps! :]
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heres a simple question, am i weird? i am 13 and i like old songs like by the 4 seasons and i have them on my ipod and stuff. and also ALOT of other oldies or old songs. not just oldies, like stuff from 80's and 70's. and i loved the jersey boys musical. i dont think of myself as a geek. i also love new songs but i love old songs just as much, am i a little.. odd?
no. you're not odd. u just like oldies. alot of young kids like oldies. its not a big deal, its just what u enjoy. and ure only a geek and odd if YOU say you are.
hope this helps! :]
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Okay, so after i take a shower
I blow dry my hair and straighten it
and my scalp is really dry
and now my hair comes out easier..
AHHH
what do I do?
i know im now balding.
ok. well mine does this too. this does not nesscarily mean you're balding. well..if u have thin hair this could be a problem. my hairs realllly thick. so if i loose hair i rejoice. but it grows back. it would help if didnt straighten and blow dry everyyyy time after u shower. crimp it every now and then. let ure hair enjoy moisture.
hope this helpss
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