On September 20, 2004, i started going out with this kid, Bryan. Me and Bryan only lasted like what? 3 months? we broke up on January 3, 2005. Even though it was a short relationship, i can't get him out of my mind. But when we were going out, the world felt like there was no misperfections at all. During the time we were together, i met this other kid, Rich. Rich was hotter than Bryan, and I wanted to get with Rich. [which was stupid of me]. Bryan did everything he could to change my mind. When I broke up with him, he came to my house the next day with roses. Anyway, now, i think about him all the time (bryan). When we broke up, he started to pretend like everything was okay. He was an ass to me, and everyone knew that it was because he was still mad that i dumped him. and i told him i was sorry. But he just doesnt listen. I know that he still loves me though. The bad thing is, is that he went to DR two days ago. He's staying there for a YEAR. i cried when i found out. Me and bryan had our convo's where we talked about the past, and he always said stuff like "I was the best thing you ever had". or like "I gave you my all, and you gave me shit". And i know he's upset, but i still love him. And i don't want to tell him [even though i think he knows], but what should i do? He says that he never loved anyone in his life, but theres a feeling in my gut that tells me that he really loves me, but he doesnt want to admit it. Maybe i'm just imagining things, but i dont know. So what do you think? Should i just get over him [which i've been trying for 2 years]? Or should i tell him everything..how i feel..and all that. I'll rate 5's to anythingg.
LUSHiiOUSadvice answered Monday June 19 2006, 1:05 am: -Dont leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love..and it will just be you- If you still care for him..tell him how you feel. Its better to of told, then not told at all. Oh, all guys are like that. Its in their ego to act all tough, like they dont have a care in the world..thats when they really care the most. He most likely still has the same feelings that you do. Why else would he say those things, and bring it up like that. He cant get it off his mind either..you'd be doing a wonderful thing telling him your feelings & fixing your relationship. 3 months may not seem long to you..but a week in love is almost a lifetime.
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jumadel answered Monday June 19 2006, 1:00 am: Hi, the best thing that you can do is tell him how you feel. Hopefully then he will tell you how he feels and yeah, take it from there. Keeping things inside for to long can upset us. See how things go when you ask him. You might never get the opportunity again. Daniel. [ jumadel's advice column | Ask jumadel A Question ]
SHINYTOYGUNSx3 answered Monday June 19 2006, 12:50 am: okay...
you're deff in a situation here. bryan sounds like an amazing guy,and to let this guy without a fight would be just plain stupid.
yes. u dumped him. but you obviously werent in your right mind. so now that you are, you can start to make some sense.
if your gut says he really still loves you, and you love him, i say you tell him EVERYTHING. i have a couple friends who both liked each other but never said anything to the other and they both never knew how the other really felt. just ran on rumors. so tell him. and then see how it goes. because if its meant to be, destiny will take its course.
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