I have a "3 is a croud" problem with my cousin! What to do?
Question Posted Sunday June 18 2006, 9:22 pm
my cousin..which we will call Billy..always turns his back on me when my other cousin "JANE" or step-cousin "BOBBY". when hes with me...he laughs and my jokes and stuff i do. everytime we see each other we say this thing which is an inside joke. well the other day i said it in front of bobby and he was like... no that stupid.. then he always says embarrasing things that i have done to them or just says somthing mean about me. he always hangs around them and leaves me out so i have to just be a tag-a-long. hes a great guy and i love him to death!!!! but only when its just me. i dont know what to do. i have tried to tell him but he insisted that he doesnt. and i try to ignore it but it really acually bothers me. i know saying somthing mean back (which my bro told me to do) wont help anything. then i try just to not even talk to him or follow him when hes around jane or bobby. but then i feel left out and bored bymyself. please give me somthing other than this!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? DefinedEyes answered Monday June 19 2006, 2:57 pm: Okay in my opinion, I would ignore him.
When he is alone with you, be mean to him, thats so cruel of me to say, but if your mean to him, he'll ask you whats up? And you can tell him if he likes it when you treat him that way, and how he always treats your so mean when your with yoru other cousins, tell him its not nice, and you dont appreciate it and that it hurts your feelings.
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