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him & his ex girlfriend.
is always calling him. Like everytime I am with him, she calls. she'll call like 92875 times if he doesn't pick up. Then he told me that he told her to stop calling because he has a new gf and she cried, cuz she loves him and they lost their virginity to each other but they broke up in february. soo then i thought she stopped calling, but then the other day when i was with him and his friends and his friend has his cell and told him that she called, and then he's all like, why.. what time.. etc. He was really interested in her call.
i've never met the girl, she goes to a different school.
I feel like i'm just getting in the way of something that they could have again. If you've seen The OC, I feel like I'm Anna and they're Seth and Summer. I wish I knew a way to bring this up to him, but I don't know how and I don't even know what I'd say because I can't even put it into words how I feel. I feel like a fool, but theres more to it.
and then last night we hung out til like 11, and then he called me at 11:15 because he's going on vacation and we won't see each other til next week and i said i had a headache, and he told me to go to bed, and i told him that it wouldn't matter if i went to bed because i'm not tired. at the time i thought he was just trying to give me good advice about my headache, but he was really just trying to get rid of me so he could CALL HIS EX GIRLFRIEND. after the headache thing, he was all like, "im sooo tired, im gonna go to bed." but i believed him at the time. then i logged onto myspace and his ex left him a comment being like, 'thanks for calling me at 11:30 last night! call me tons when your down there!" me and him got off the phone a little before 11:30. so much for GOING TO BED.
i've never mentioned anything about how i feel about him and his ex gf, i just keep it to myself because i don't know how to bring it up. he said he'd call me while he was on vacation, so when he calls I think I'll just be like, "I'll let you go, so you can call [his ex] or something." Idk. Advice?
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This should be more then a red flag, it's a recipe for cheating and I promise you that he still has feeling for this girl. Get out while you still can, before you get even more hurt. There is no excuse for this behavior, in fact, there was no reason for him to ever talk to her on the phone, even once, while he is with you. It is shockingly disrespectful, and the "we are still friends" excuse is total BS. Honey, get out.
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whoa. okay...since they lost their virginity to each other, i'm sure this girl just has a connection to him and is having a hard time letting him go. and it also seems like hes having a hard time letting her go...if i were you..i just be friends with him. and i mean that. like not brake up and say ure gunna be friends, really be friends with him. because until hes ready to start screening these girls calls and crap, hes not ready for another realationship unless its with her. but thats just me. andddd! he was trying to get rid of you?! to call her?! im sorry. but thats where i would draw the line. but its totally up 2 you.
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okay. you've got to tell him how you feel. If they lost their virginity to eachother, then yea..she wont stop calling him. Especially if he was her first, she's going to feel the need to continue talking to him. About the MySpace thing, you need to confront him about that too.
A casual way to bring it up, would be..go out to dinner one day. Or lunch. Or breakfast or w/e and just talk about everything. Let it all out.
Maybe because he lost his virginity to her too, he's attached because she has something very dear to him. (his virginity).
Just talk to him about this. Keep checking his myspace. And if you can, talk to her about this too. Tell her to back off, cause he's yours.
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You should tell him, I saw your comment last night on your myspace. Why did you lie to me and tell me you were going to bed? And just see what he says.
He obviously still has feelings for his ex and i hate to say it. Maybe he's not over her and it's still to early to date. You should tell him if he doesn't tell her straight out he doesn't want her bothering him and if it doesn't work then tell him you don't want to be with him. If it does work then it will be ok. He might also just be nice and not want to be mean.
Hope this helps..
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