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serious relationships/fingering/boners
When do you consider your relationship a 'serious relationship?' How do you know when it is serious?
What do you do if you're being fingered but nothings happening/you don't orgasm?
When you get fingered, are you usually kissing/making out or just sitting there or something? How are you usually sitting/laying when he does? And him?
How long was it into your relationship/past relationships until you let him finger you?
And I still can't tell if he has a boner or not? Like when we are making out and he's on top of me he'll like put his dick right near my vagina, but we're clothed of course, and I feel something, but idk?
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I'd say it was serious after a about six months or if we'd talked about it or fallen in love. But it all depends on the relationship. Some people don't consider things to be serious until they've moved in with each other whereas others consider it serious after a month.
Guide their hands to the right places and show them what feels good. If it's a girl then she usually knows what to do but guys aren't geniuses, they haven't got a vagina, they're not going to know where to go and what to do.
I've never been fingered while I've been in a relationship, but I don't think there's a set time when you should do it. It all depends on the relationship and how comfortable you are with each other. You might find that you're happy to do it a few weeks in, but you might find that it's months before it happens.
The thing you can feel is probably his erection. But if you're really not sure then ask him!
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You consider a relationship serious when you have very strong feelings toward someone. If you dont orgasm when your being fingered then maybe the guy isn't doing it right, but some girls don't reach their first orgasm until later. It depends on the moment if you make out or not. Whatever way you feel comfortable than that's the way. I've never been that far with a guy yet, so I can't answer that question lol. He most likely has a boner if you can really feel it or it's just his thingy. It's really your decision if you think your ready to go further with him. I hope I helped.
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