hello, this is Jackie here. I have a problem. I am confused... there is this boy, I like him and from what I can tell, he likes me. I am 14 and he is a little older. This weekend this boy, my sister and another boy went to a community swimming pool. We sat next to eachother, he put his arm around me, and we held hands. after that I went home and soon I got a call from some girl saying that she was the boys new girl friend and that I need to stay away from him now. and I'm not sure if she's for real, or just being mean? I think that it could be this girl who's friends with him, that I made a comment about me not liking. So maybe she found out and knows that I like him, and wanted to get me back. I'm not sure. what do you think? Please help i rate well
KayArrSee answered Tuesday June 20 2006, 2:27 am: Sounds to me like that girl is jealous.
I think she is just saying stuff to maybe bother you?
I think the boy definately likes you or he would not put his arm around you or hold your hand. But if he is with some other girl now, that makes him a dick.
BeautifulEEbr0kn answered Tuesday June 20 2006, 1:07 am: Well, he definitely likes you. Thats obvious. It is possible that she is just trying to get you back, but maybe she really is telling the truth.
The best thing to do is just to flat out ask him. If he likes you, then its not like you have to worry about feeling embarrassed. Just simply ask him if he's dating anyone, and if he is then thats pretty messed up. He led you on, and he shouldn't have done that if he had no intentions of persuing his actions.
tRuEe_lOve answered Tuesday June 20 2006, 12:53 am: well he deff likes you, if he put his arm around you and held your hand.. & this girl she might be telling the truth.. i dont know but i doubt it, unless this boy is a player, but just ask him what i think is, that this girl is jealous, but yeah jsut ask him if he has a new g/f & see wat he says.
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LiLmissMelanie answered Monday June 19 2006, 11:41 pm: you NEED to talk to this guy you like. ask him if he has a girlfriend. tell him about the call, and tell him if he had a girlfriend and messed around with you, he better get himself straight, cuz otherwise he'll never have another girlfriend. you need to let him know that hes not going to get away with anything.
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queenhearts answered Monday June 19 2006, 11:36 pm: Talk to the guy first. Sometimes girls get jealous and say things so others will back off.
But since he was doing that, maybe the girl is joking.
I don't know. Speak to him. [ queenhearts's advice column | Ask queenhearts A Question ]
clearlypink428 answered Monday June 19 2006, 11:30 pm: i think you need to confront the guy- not this bimbo girl. she very well might have no idea what it is that shes talking about. at such a young age as yours though, she might for real think that shes going out with him when shes really not. just check it out with him- i doubt hes playin you for another girl, or vice versa- but honey if he is- you need to drop him as quick as you can. sorry to be negative- just tryin to help. good luck and IM me if you need more help on this. [ clearlypink428's advice column | Ask clearlypink428 A Question ]
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