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crazy about a total loser-jerk-freak-cheater-guy
Hi
there is this guy who i was like in love with and he was in love with me for 3 months but i guess he stoped... annyway about a month ago he asked someone out without telling me(we didnt want to start going out because he had dumped his gf for me and didnt want to make it obvious)and i heard about it from someone i knew and i got really mad and to make a long story short we ticked eatchother off preddy bad and he started talkeing again about a month after i got his gf to dump him and now hes acting like im some obsessive wierd chick just because i want it to be like it was before and i just want to get over this creep before he hurts me anny more. anny ideas? i rate high thank you so much
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"We were in love with one another for 3 months but I guess he stopped."
"He asked someone out without telling me."
If you two weren't dating, then he had no reason to have to tell you. If he asked someone out while you were dating, that's a problem. I don't know which it is.
"We didn't want to start going out because he had dumped his gf for me and didn't want to make it obvious."
You just said he asked another girl out. Now you're saying he dumped a girl and was waiting to ask you out. You're controdicting yourself.
"We started talking again a month after I got his gf to dump him."
Why he hell would you get his gf to dump him? That's horrible. It sounds like he's justified in thinking you're an 'obsessive wierd chick' if you really did that just because you had envy.
On one hand you say you want it the way it was before, then you say you want to get over him. I can't help you if you don't proof read your questions.
I hate being rude.
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Well hun the only thing I can really say is..don't talk to him. You're probably thinking 'yeah right I can't do that, I care about him too much' and BELIEVE ME I know exactly how you feel. It sounds pretty much like my life story.
I'm sure you already feel hurt about the fact that he's asked another girl out, been there done that, it is no fun.
And you are not some obsessive weird chick. You can't control the feelings you have, and you shouldn't have to. I don't blame you for wanting things to be like they used to, but I think the best thing for you to do is just try to get over him.
Don't talk to him, meet other guys, and get to know other guys. Theres a right guy out there somewhere for you. All you have to do is find him. =D Obviously this one doesn't know what he's missing. Hope I helped. I'm here if you need anything else. =D
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Most people would tell you to find something else to do, like a hobbie. But i know that doesnt work. What you need to do is try to steer clear of him, bcuz everytime you see him or talk to him, you will think about what you had before and you wont be able to get over him. Go out with your friends ; movies perferable, and check out all the guys at the mall. Put all your attention to another guy that may have caught your eye, or you know has a thing for you. If some other guy likes you, get to know him..he may just be *perfect* you just cant see it yet. -You cant find the "Right Guy" ; if your holding on to the "Wrong One"- Good Luck ♥
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