OK let me just say I am the type of person who can settle arguements easily and I can cooperate and really liten to my partner so dont think I am selfish. But lately we have been fighting about everything. And he likes to just ignore it and talk lets say the next morning or w/e. The problem is that I cannot sleep until I fix the problem. Today he said something that really hurt my feelings and i am sick of solving problems and him not giving a shyt. I love him to death but think i should dump him.
tRuEe_lOve answered Monday June 19 2006, 4:52 pm: before you dump him, try talking to him one more time.. tell him exactly how your feeling. and if its still the same then break up with him, you sounds great and there will be better guys :o)
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LOVEx3DISASTER answered Monday June 19 2006, 2:58 pm: Guys do push problems out of the way without solving them. Girls, on the other hand, don't. So what I think you would need to do with him is to sit down and really talk about it with him. And remember, relationships do have a lot of problems so dont take it too hard on yourself.
Good Luck=)
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xthis1sakilluhx3 answered Monday June 19 2006, 12:13 pm: Guys do tend to ignore problems.. and they dont realize how much worse it makes things.. I have the same problem as you though, if me and my boyfriend would fight i would cry myself to sleep if we didnt make up that night. If you think you should dump him, then by all means dump him. Do what you want to do. [ xthis1sakilluhx3's advice column | Ask xthis1sakilluhx3 A Question ]
xhollister_babex answered Monday June 19 2006, 1:27 am: you should just dump him. please trust me on this i've been thro this before and if you dont dump him he's gonna hurt you soo.
i know it'll be hard for you but please trust me.
hope i helped
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jumadel answered Monday June 19 2006, 12:47 am: Hi, you both need to really sit down and talk about this problem if your relationship is to go on. Relationships do involve arguments and bad feeling but if it's constantly happening and it keeps on hurting you then it really really needs to be discussed. If he won't and refuses to talk to you about this problem then really things are'nt going to work out for long, and then I suppose it would be fair to dump him. Try and talk to him. If he carries on and just can't be bothered to discuss it then he's not really that bothered about you or the relationship now is he?
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LUSHiiOUSadvice answered Monday June 19 2006, 12:46 am: If you love him, like you say you do..you wont give up on him over a fight. You've tried to keep it together in the past..dont let all your hard work just slip away like that. All men say hurtful things, especially if you make them alil mad or want them to do something they are too lazy to do. Dont let that phase you unless he begins to say [or has said] hurtful things repeatedly.
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HCOxBABE answered Monday June 19 2006, 12:42 am: If he keeps hurting you & doesn't listen to what you have to say & not even try & make things better for your relationship than I think you should dump him. If you keep trying to fix your problems & he doesn't care then there's no point to stay with him if all he's gonna do is hurt you. [ HCOxBABE's advice column | Ask HCOxBABE A Question ]
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