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should i tell her?
Ok, so I've liked this girl for a long time, and during the beggining of the school year she also liked me (I didn't know it back then). Now, she's going out with one of my friends, but we still talk a lot. She also keeps on asking me who I like (A lot!) Every time she says that though, I just ward it off by saying something else. So my question is...should I tell her that I like her, or keep that secret safe with me?
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i think you should tell her....honestly...because one day if you ever see her& him....u will be man what if i have told her how i felt...ya kno??well im juss sayin...if you tell her how you feel all those feelings will be let go and she will kno and when you do ever see her you could be glad yea i did tell her how i feel and you wont regret it...believe me on this one if u hav any questions juss give me message
-penguin
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You should tell her how you feel. cus you'll regret not telling her in the future.. but if she does like you back she'll end up leaving your friend for you and that might not be too good.. its your choice.
i say go for it (:
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This is difficult because if she is dating one of your friends, you don't want to complicate the relationship or cut it short. I would wait until the relationship was over. If you are already good friends with her, after the realtionship ends you should tell her. What do you have to lose?
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Hi there, Yes I think it would be a good idea to tell her because it gives you the chance to just tell her once in your life how you feel. Even if the girl rejects you, hey you can still be friends and maybe work on it again next time. She will feel flattered. And heres 3 tips when having a conversation with her:
1. Compliments
2. Questions
3. Small talk
Just go with what your heart says. Now it's up to you. Let me know how those tips go on. Daniel.
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you could tell your friend on how you feel...
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Go ahead and tell her you like her. Maybe things aren't that serious between her and your friend. I don't think it would hurt, go for it.
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To make sure you don't ruin your friendships with either this girl or her boyfriend, don't tell her anything that will make her break up with him. It sounds like she really does like you, so drop a SMALL hint. (By small, I don't mean outright flirting, because if her guy finds out you're in the doghouse...Stare at her across the room, and keep looking after you make eye contact. It's things like that that really get me, trust me, she'll love it. Also, there's no proof that you were flirting, so you can't get in trouble with your guy friend.) Stay friends with both of them, and keep dropping subtle hints to the girl. Don't get in the middle of their relationship, but eventually they will break up. After that happens, you can be the rebound man ;) Seriously, though, if you're by her side for the breakup, and talk it out, she'll love you. Stay sensitive to her needs, and don't sabotage your friendship with anyone else just for her. Good luck-hope I helped!
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wooooooooooooooooooooooooooo first off never keep that a secret! if you like someone make sure you tell them! especially if your a guy! there are so many girls out there that wish they knew if certain people liked them or not. to me it seems like this girl definatly wants to know.
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Tell her, she probably still feels the same and is going out with your friend to get closer to you.
If you dont tell her, you will never know how she feels about you. And in a few days, what if she doesnt feel the same about you anymore? Get it out in the open before its too late and you regret not saying anything.
..its better to of told then not told at all.
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You've liked her for quite a long time, i guess. You owe it to yourself to tell her. If you're friend gets mad, just explain everything to him. It's going to be hard, but it'll be worth it in the end. Seems to me that the girl might like you. She's asking you who you like, and that's definitely a sign. I'm a girl, and i know how these things work lol.
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well it sounds like she still likes you. so you should tell her, but if she says she doesnt like you anymore, then leave her alone, because you don't wanta mess up the relationship she has now with the other guy if she doesn't like you.
but if she does like you, then she'll probably dump the other guy and go out with you. if she doesn't dump him but she still does like you, then that probably means that she just likes the other guy more than you. if she does, then ask her out once she brakes up with the other guy.
you should tell her, just make sure your friend doesnt get mad at you♥
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Yes, I think you should tell her. It sounds to me that she could still possibly like you. A lot of the time when a girl continuously asks a guy who they like it is a sign of flirting. I'm a girl, and I usually do that when I like a guy, and I know a lot of other girls who do as well.
The worst that could happen is that she doesn't like you back. But isn't it better to tell her and find out if she still has feelings for you, rather than keeping it to yourself and wondering for the rest of your life? So the next time she asks who you like, just tell her that its her. =D Simple as that. Don't worry about it, i'm sure everything will be fine.
Good luck, and I hope I helped. If you have any further questions, just send me a message. =D
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I think that you should let her know how you feel, but also let her know that you respect the fact that she has a boyfriend.
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