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I don't want to let go
well I started dating this guy, lets call him Bob (lol).. I dated Bob before like 3 or 4 times.. I really liked him this time to.. We tried meetin each other cause we would never get to see each other.. but he always couldn't go.. well he emailed me and told me I think we jumped into our relationship to fast well I thought we would still be talkin so I was sorta ok with it.. but its 4 days and we ain't spoken a word.. I think he likes other girls and stuff.. I should move on and just forget about him..More I don't speak to him the less I think he cares..I can't even get him out of my head..Do you think I should forget about him or not?
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Forget about him and move on. I know you may say yea easy to say it but hard to do it. I know cause I been there. Let me tell you about mine and see if it helps you. I dated this guy for a year. We was each others first (sex) we broke up and didnt talk for a year. Then when we did..... well he gave me the run around pretty much. He was the only thing I thought about for 3 years. That is a long time a very long time. I LOVED him. But I finally said you know take a chance get with someone else and maybe it could be better what do I got to lose I been with this guy I am with now for almomst 2 years and everyday when I wake up I am more happier than the day before. It was worth it. So take a chance dump that guy and go to the next. Do what I did dump a guy that wasnt worth shit to be with a guy that treats you like a queen and would never hurt you. It will be hard dont get me wrong but take that chance if some hottie comes up to you go on a date with him see how things go. Trust me you will think me later and years from know you will be telling someone else what I am telling you know.
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i don't know why people always say "get over him' or "there is no use of him" it maybe just HIM......but i mean you've like this guy a lot if you can't get him out of your head....if you can EVER get to see him face to face ask him what he thinks about you, then get the REAL truth from him. OR call him.....but if you like him soo much and can't get him out of your head, but him as a back up...I AM 99,99% sure that if you go with your friends, and they tell you to forget him, then do it becasue you will meet other guys, and if you KEEP thinking about "bob" then the guys will never see your true self, so for one day promise me to forget him and find some guys and girls t hang out with, and just put "bob" as a back up
kosko*
(i was in this situation to, and i still am)
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Guys are just fags like that & you have to live with it because while your wasting you time on him there could be someone who loves you and cares for you unlike him.You need to forget him and if he does call you back or try talking don`t answer him,he will see what it`s like.
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well if you really like him then talk to him and ask him for the honest truth ...does he like you as much as you like him ? and if he says yes talk to him more and hang out with him more...but the big problem is if he likes other girls and if he does, its over between you and bob(lol) if that doesnt work then write back and we will see....
good luck
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If I were you I would take all the signals as his way of telling you it's not going to work out. I would move on. It would be nice is he wasn't so non-confrontaional about it, but it really looks like he isn't into the relationship at all, even if it's just emails and chatting.
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Is this an online relationship? If it is, I understand how hard it is to keep up a relationship like that. It takes a great amount of commitment from both sides, as well as a lot of patience. But if the two people really love each other, it's just as worthwhile and wonderful as a face to face relationship.
Instead of waiting for him to contact you, get in touch with him yourself. Ask him where he wants this relationship to go and if he's still interested. Encourage him to speak his mind. Talking to him about it even if he doesn't want the relationship anymore will give you some peace of mind.
Good luck!
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