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What The Heck?!?
Okay, so I was at this party one time, & this boy says that he likes me, & asks me out.
I had a BIG crush on him at the time, so of course, i said yes.
A few days later, he says that he was only kidding, & he didn't like me. He only asked me out because his friends dared him to.
On the last day of school, he asks me out... AGAIN. What am i supposed to do? Should i believe him, or not?
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Don't believe him. I know (from personal experience) it's hard to admit that the guy you like is a jerk, but you have to accept that this dude is an ass. Even on the off chance that he's being sincere, any guy who would do something that insensitive is definitely not worth it. Tell him that he hurt and humiliated you, and that that's not cool.
Good luck, and I hope this helps! :)
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You should tell him what you think. Tell hiim that you were hurt last time and that you can't trust him again. You won't regret it.
Good luck :]
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NO! he may be serious this time, but you deffinatly dont want to go out with someone who tricked you in a mean way like that. Also, there is always the chance that he is just trying to get you to say yes again.
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Turn him down. I know that you really like/d him but do you really want to go out with a guy who either bows that easily to peer pressure (even when it involves hurting someone else), or can't cope with the idea of going out with a girl so much that he would lie about his reasons for asking her out?
Either way, you may have to accept that this guy just isn't the person you had hoped he was and move on. Tell him no because he isn't worth the effort and walk away.
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Tell him no.
He is obviously trying to get to you, or is trying to use you.
Don't fall for it, hun. Chances are, he'll break your heart.
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No no no no nooo! Don't fall for that one again! He seems like one of those guys that everyone thinks is so cool, but in reality, he's just a jerk and not the one you would want to be with. If you really think he means it, then you should ask him if he was dared again. Otherwise, you could end up questioning yourself these questions and back to square one. Be confident, and smile :)
♥ lena
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dont do it. You can find someone else. A lot better at that. If you want go out with him and then a few days later break up with him and tell him the same story that he told you.
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definetely dont believe him. if hes a big enough jerk to ask yo out on a dare in the first place- what makes you think that even if he was serious thistime- that hed be good boyfriend material?- hes a liar. you can definetely do better. good luck.
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Ask him just that!
Say, are you serious or is this another hurtful joke between you and your stupid friends.
Maybe after having joked about it you stayed on his mind. He may be truly sorry. BUT, since he
embarrassed you once already I think you have every right to make him feel bad just long enough to apologise for last time.
If still like him, I hope it works out. If you don't like him anymore, then simply tell him no. :)
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This is my opinion.
I think you should say no.
He def. doesn't deserve a second chance.
He played with you the first time.
Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.
&& even if he is sincere this time, he def. hurt you and messed with your head the first time, thats not fair.
Also, if its the end of the school year, than unless your planning on staying home all summer than there isn't really a point.
On the other hand, if you really like him, ask him if he is joking this time.
I hope this helped you out.
Good luck.
Marta
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