Ok, so theres this guy and I like him. He flirts with me a lot, but idk if it's intentional or not. We have a really small class and I'm the only girl he admits being friends with. We used to talk a lot. He told me he thought I was the prettiest girl in our class {but keep in mind we have a super small class}. Then, I wanted to go out and he pretty much said no bc he thought I was ugly. Since, then we're still friends, but I have no self esteem. Guys give me compliments, but it doesn't matter bc I always think back to what that guy said. I'm just confused because there's always "accidents" in which he'll hit my ass or boob, but I'm the only girl it happens to with him. Everyone thinks he likes me and that I like him. I just don't know what to do, I moved on but then he kept coming back and flirting so, what should I do? sorry its long, I do rate!!
Tulipg17 answered Wednesday May 31 2006, 11:19 am: I don't think he is really all that into you, flirting means nothing..it sounds more like he is just bored and passes the time in that way- to entertain himself. Also he sounds like a complete idiot, why are you wasting your time thinking about him. Because he called you pretty and hits your ass? You really do sound like you have the self esteem of a worm. Take care of yourself honey! [ Tulipg17's advice column | Ask Tulipg17 A Question ]
barbieblissx answered Tuesday May 30 2006, 7:57 pm: he likes you.. simple.. it could be he said no because he is not ready for a relationship.. he lieks you but maybe he just doesnt get the idea of commitment by having a g/f. i know your not leading him on and he shouldnt do that with you.. try to lay low and ignore him a tad bit more.. when he comes running back let him know you arent always going to be there.. you dont want a guy to think that he controls you..
WHYDOISTILLLOVEYOU_OX answered Tuesday May 30 2006, 7:14 pm: maybe you should just flat out ask him if he likes you anymore. maybe there's a certain reason he does this to you. from experience, i sometimes learn that when i guy likes you, he really can act mean to you too. maybe he just is to shy to talk to you so he finds other ways to talk to you by hitting or bumping you. &&' if he doesnt like you; just move on and maybe things will work out when hes more mature. Also, dont worry if he says you're ugly; then you're too good for him. Plus, you deserve to be treated better. Hope I helped. :] [ WHYDOISTILLLOVEYOU_OX's advice column | Ask WHYDOISTILLLOVEYOU_OX A Question ]
xx_nickelbackbabi_xx answered Tuesday May 30 2006, 7:08 pm: ok 1st off hun, it doesn't matter if you have a small or big class he called you pretty! why he called you ugly maybe it it because he really does like you but doesn't want you to know it. I think he really does like you because why else would he grab ur ass or boobs? I think you ask him if he likes you more as a friend. be stright with him and he should be stright with you. [ xx_nickelbackbabi_xx's advice column | Ask xx_nickelbackbabi_xx A Question ]
4everMyself2 answered Tuesday May 30 2006, 6:39 pm: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So don't worry about what he says when you have other guys saying the opposite. That happens to me also. Some guys may think I'm pretty and others may not. It happens to all of us. So you are not alone.
If he can touch over your body but can't go out with you then I think he wants friends with benefits. I don't think you should be friends with benefits because you may get emotionally attached. I think you should move on. [ 4everMyself2's advice column | Ask 4everMyself2 A Question ]
darkblair771 answered Tuesday May 30 2006, 5:50 pm: ok this is obv. he likes you. its like a fact. you just need to make him realize that what he is saying does not affect you and laugh about it. I have the same exact problem and move on. when a guy gives you a compliment smile and take it in and forget about what the guy said. he should know that your not going to give your self esteem up for him. [ darkblair771's advice column | Ask darkblair771 A Question ]
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