Q: I wasn't sure where to put this, because it's kind of a weird question. Bear it with me.

I'm a thirteen year-old girl and I'm bringing one of my friends with me on a three week long trip to Europe. She's very nice, low-key, and low-maintinence (sp?), so I'm not really worried about getting sick of her. My problem is, I'm afraid SHE'LL get sick of ME. I guess I tend to complain a lot, and stuff like that, but I really want to get better about that. Does anyone have any tips for becoming more self-aware and complaining less?

Q: i recently learned that one of my very close friends is bisexual. She didnt tell me, i just kinda found out through the grapevine. Well, I'm fully supportive of her and everything, but I just dont know how to deal with it. How do i tell her I know? I dont want things to be different between us, because we're really good friends. Help please.
Sincerely,
Confused

Q: 13/f.
I met this guy in like beg of october last year at a campground ((family campground)) and we like have so much funn together and we like kissed and well i have been talking to him like online and over myspace ever since and in december he got a girlfriend, and this past weekend we both went camping again, ((he still has the same gf)) and well a few days before she went onto his myspace and was like 'back off he doesnt miss you' and all this shit, so once i got to the campground i tryed avoiding him but him and his friends approached me and my friend and you know he asked if we could like do stuff but keep it from his gf. and i was like yeah. so we like did, and he called me beautiful and told me he loved me more than his gf. and now i like cry everytime i even like think about him because i like him so much, and it scares me.
but i like almost never see him and i dont know how to get over him...
any suggestions?



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Q: Dear Advicenators,

I am a 16 yr old girl And I like this boy that works at a local grocery store. he is also 16. We flirt alot and we always smile at eachother, and we have hung out once with mutual friends,and i always go through his line but the thing is he wont ask me out. I was told he liked me and he knows I like him, but i dont think hes ever had a girlfriend before, and I am very traditional and I dont feel comfortable asking a boy out. what can i do to get him to ask me out, i think were hanging out again this weekend. Help!

-Stuck on him in Florida.

Q: Well, my friend "Sarah" likes this boy named "Jason" in our youth group. She made it clear that he is her territory, though he doesn't like her like that at all. My friend "Kia" is "Jason's" brother, who is my best friend. She told me that "Jason" likes me, and I like him. The sad thing is, our youth group strictly is against dating, so it wouldn't really go anywhere even if we tell each other.

So what it all boils down to is, "Sarah" doesn't know I like "Jason", and I'm going to keep it that way. I just don't want her getting mad at me when we flirt with eachother ((b/c we do ALOT)). I don't want to make her mad, but I don't think she should run my life just b/c she likes him.

What do I do?!!

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I was think about sending roses and etc. with a secret admirer message...would a girl like that? Just looking for some advice on how to handle this..

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I was wonderin has anyone tried the new acuve oyasis contacts? I was thinkin of switchen to them but i dunno if it's worth the exrta money or not.

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Q: A guy that I'm friends with and hoping will be my bf one day keeps giving me mixed signals. One day he'll be sweet and attentive and tell me things I want to hear; and the next he's mean and cold. For example; one day he told me that he wanted to be with me and hoped I wouldnt marry someone else. Then another day he sarcastically told me I needed a man in my life. He can also make some rude comments about women in general; like "women always need attentiong"; and that men are smarter than woman. One day I took him to play tennis and the whole time he critized me. Everyone tells me I can do better but I feel I really love him. Even with all his faults he's still really sweet sometimes- once he gave me his computer and desk and when it was my birthday and phoned me and sang happy birthday and mailed me a gift (he lives out of state). He'll also say Bye Beautiful everytime we sign off on msn messanger. What do you think I should do?

Q: has it ever happend to you that in four and a half years two of your exboyfriends are so shy and your current one is as well?? wel thats what is happening to me at the momment. look, my boyfriend is really cute and sproty and is the mosy populer boy in the class and he is sooooo shy. he hasnt even kissed me or atleast hold my hand. all he says to me is 'no you did that question wrong'or'im sorry'or'you s**ty head'. the only thing that melts me down is 'i miss you'or 'i love you'
i really dont want to dump him so what should i do

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i have this thing under my arm pit and it hurts really bad
i asked my mom what it was but she isnt sure
it goes far down into my skin and i thought it was like a bug bite or something but its goes really far down and i dont know what it is
any ideas what it could be?

oh and its not from shaving and its isnt a pimple either

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now be honest when you see a person with acne or just some pimples maybe just a break out ... what do you think of them? do they seem ugly to you? would you talk to them even? become their friend? or are you grossed out and do you judge them right away, even if they are really pretty but have acne?

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Q: what is the best way to tell someone that you do not want to be thier girlfriend anymore, but that you still would like to communicate with them, remain friends, ect? it's just that our relationship has never really been more than "just friends," except that we've been calling ourselves a couple... as in he doesn't pay for me, touch me unless he has to, ect. And I would like to have to opportunity to see other people if it comes up. So my question is how do I go about telling him this without him being upset or thinking that just because I don't want to be his "girlfriend" that I never want to communicate with him again? 16/f, if it helps. :) fives for everyone :)

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Q: i told one of my friends a year ago that i liked him. he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship, but i think he said that he didn't like me like that. now we are really good friends and i went over to his house the other day and he's this great guy and i wish i was with him. but it's so hard for me to think of him as just my friend. this crush is still lurking. he's going off to college in NY and i guess there isn't anything i can do, except just stay good friends, right?

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