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13/f.
I met this guy in like beg of october last year at a campground ((family campground)) and we like have so much funn together and we like kissed and well i have been talking to him like online and over myspace ever since and in december he got a girlfriend, and this past weekend we both went camping again, ((he still has the same gf)) and well a few days before she went onto his myspace and was like 'back off he doesnt miss you' and all this shit, so once i got to the campground i tryed avoiding him but him and his friends approached me and my friend and you know he asked if we could like do stuff but keep it from his gf. and i was like yeah. so we like did, and he called me beautiful and told me he loved me more than his gf. and now i like cry everytime i even like think about him because i like him so much, and it scares me.
but i like almost never see him and i dont know how to get over him...
any suggestions?
PS- i will rate 5's to anyone that even tries
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get his e mail address and or call him and talk to him about it.AbBeY!!!
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Sadly, it seems like he is using you. He just wants to kiss you and stuff. You need to cut off all communications with him because you deserve more then this. If you ever love a guy, he should treat you like a princess, not a little fling. Hope you get over him and find another guy!
♥ Jess
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♥it's ok to be confused. it's ok to have feelings for him. it's ok to miss him, but do YOU think it's ok to let him cheat on her?
♥you may not like this girl, but put yourself in her position. Wouldn't you feel crapy if you knew? don't get a reputation like that. i'm sure your a great girl so don't ruin that
♥if you really want to be with him then you need to talk to him. tell him if he loves you than he should be with you and you only. if it was me i would give him two choices. 1...me. 2...her.
♥if you really love him like you say you do and he really loves you it shouldn't be a hard decision! think about what your doing and then revaluate!
-Cheyenne
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You should stay away from the campgrounds for awhile I think. If you don't go there, the temptation to mess around with this guy won't be at your fingertips either. Messing around with him when you KNOW that he has a girlfriend that he's been with for a long period of time was a mistake and not a very good decision on your part. If a guy tells you he loves you when he doesn't even see you on a weekly basis, it's a pretty good sign that he's just saying it to get the physical rewards that ususally come along with saying those words. Please, for your sake and his girlfriend's sake.. stay away from him. Even if he breaks up with her to be with you.. remember, if they'll do it with you, they'll do it to you.
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> First off all i think gettin invloved with him knowing he has a gf was a bad mistake. guys can tell gurls anyting to just get what they want. you have to be the bigger person and just say no. knowing u cant have him only makes you want him more.. and its normal for a gurl to like a guy alot but think about it. if you were the gurl that was dating him and he went somewhere and was messing with another gurl but told her " what ever happens between me and you, stays between me and you". how would that make u feel really.. it's karma and i personally wouldnt trust him considering you know he cheats already!
-Adrianna
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don't be sad!! he is not worth it. if he loved you mroe then his girlfriend, he wouldn't be going out with her. and even if he did dump her and go out with you (i don't kno how far away you guys live) he'd probably cheat on you too. guys who cheat on their girlfriends will always cheat no matter who they're with. honestly, he was probably telling you all those things about how you are so beautiful so that he could get more out of you. And never let a guy talk to you like "lets mess around." that basically means he has NO RESPECT for you at all. and you're still young. i know you feel older, I did when i was 13, but now i'm turing 16 on thursday and i realize that whe i was 13 and makeing out with all those guys, i was too young, i thought i was a 'teenager' but trust me, when you're a little older you'll see no matter how hott guys are, if they don't respect you, they don't deserve you and 13 was too young to start hooking up with guys you don't know that well. you're tooo good for him girl :)
HoPe I HeLpEd :)
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well.. if he already has a girlfriend and did stuff behind her back then he was cheating on his girlfriend and that's a very bad quality in a boyfriend. if i were you then i would basically think of that as the main reason not to want him near you as much. get a boyfriend near your house and sooner or later you'll forget about the other guy..
i know i sound harsh but thats the only way i know how to put it..
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oooh toughy. well i think that you should talk to him and tell him that you really like him and that it hurts you that he has a girlfriend. ask him what he means to you and that if he really likes you he should dump his girlfriend. also, if you want to get over him here is some ideas...
delete his number from your phone
look for a new boy to like
and spend a lot of time with your friends.
i really hope i helped!! if you need anything else feel free to ask!
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