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ughh so shy!
i'm really shy and i have been for like ever.
i'm always known as just the "shy one" and i'm really sick of it. im not shy in front of people im comfortable around and people that im frends with, but im shy around big groups of people and just cant get over it!
i really wana b outgoing and everything even in front of people i dont really know and in front of large groups, but how?
please helpp!!!
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you just have to be confident in yourself.. if you have no confidence then you cant be outgoing. just try hard to go with the flow and dont think of what others say, just talk how you feel and do what you want. you have to be true to yourself. you should be comfortable around your friends too! so just dont be shy to speak what you feel! good luck!
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Well Normaly the reason people are shy is because they are scared of what other people will think about them. So just dont care. Let free and just act like you would if nobodty is watching. Unfortanatly advice cant change how shy you are you have to just do it.
xoxJess
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Don't worry about what other people think of you. don't think about if everyone will agree with something you say, or waht they'll think of it. just be yourself, let loose and act as though you're with people you're comfortable with
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Let go of all your worries and just live in the moment. It works for me. Don't be concerned with what others may think just think about having fun and doing what you like. Half of the stuff that I do is considered crazy but I don't care because a lot of people like me for it and I have fun.
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well me too...i hope you get confidence and just think one day you will...i've been told when you kiss a guy dont think about it..
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WOW! scary...its as if I wrote that question. All I can say is you have to face your fears, and try to force yourself to feel comfortable around people...in time you won't have to force yourself. :)
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