hey,
I recently just got over this boy because i know i had no chance with him but now i like someone new and there two completely different people. The new person i like, vinnie, is my best friend's cousin. This best friend has liked me since kindergarten so i obviously can't tell him that i like his cousin that would crush him. I would try to get over Vinne but we kissed and we got close a lot but my best friend said he asked vinnie if he liked me and he said "i love her as a friend" hearing made me wonder what that kiss meant. Should i talk to Vinnie about it? And should i tell my best friend about it? Please help me. I'll rate for any type of advice. Thank you very much. xo
WBrown999 answered Thursday June 1 2006, 1:00 am: Its perfectly normal to be so concerned about your best friend's feelings like you are, and good for you. but, you also have to realize, if he is really your best friend, he should understand if you like his cousin. Talk to your friend before vinnie about this, tell him that you have a crush on vinnie, but break it to him gently. go to him just as you came to us, looking for advice. if he is REALLY your friend, he will help you out.
oh and by the way, vinnie was just covering his ass when he said he loved you as a frined and thats it, guys say that all the time.
CiNdYLoUwHoO answered Wednesday May 31 2006, 11:24 pm: First off, you need to tell your friend. No matter how hard they will take it, it is extremely important to be honest. As for vinnie, call him up and talk to him. If he keeps dropping hints that he likes you, go for it. If he seems like more "friend material" that always works too. Just wait it out and see what will happen. Hope this helps.
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