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WHAT SHOULD I DO? MY BF IS GAY I THINK!!
I KNOW THIS IS LONG BUT PLEASE READ I WILL GIVE 5'S TO ANYONE WHO TRIES!
okay so im 15/f. ive had a bf now for a year and like we've done a lot of stuff if you know what i mean but not all the way. its getting really serious, and he is 16 and a grade older than me. the other day i walked in on his room and like there was this other guy there so i started to make out with him because he was hot, but then my bf walked in but we stopped so he didnt see us making out but so then i left to touch up my make up and when i heard a bunch of like noises from his room and then when i came back they were both in his bed in different clothes than before and they were like really close. like really. so it was kinda like weird. but later that day he when i asked my bf about it he was like, sorry my friend is a drug dealer and is trying to get unaddicted sorry. but then i heard from my friend that the boys at our school when they say drug dealing they really mean gay. so like was my bf and him like making out while i was gone? what should i do? cus this would also mean i like madeout with a gay guy, and almost had sex with another gay guy..what should i do?!??!?!
PLEASE HELP!
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You may not like what I'm going to say. But the first thing you need to do is get over yourself. I am not trying to be mean when I say that, I'm trying to give you some good advice. You seem to think far too much about yourself. You need to break up with your boyfriend. It's obvious you don't care about him--you made out with his friend! That's a seriously unhealthy relationship, and you're only hurting yourself. You need to ask yourself what exactly you're upset about. Are you upset because your boyfriend made out with somebody else? Don't be. You did the same thing. Or are you just upset because it was a boy? There is nothing wrong with being gay, and many teenagers are experimental. Questioning your sexuality is difficult and confusing. I'm not saying it was right of him to make out with somebody else behind your back--far from it. Then again, you don't know that they were making out. Maybe they just changed clothes. Maybe the other boy really is having drug problems. Talk to your boyfriend. Tell him that whatever is going on, it's okay to talk to you about it. But be prepared--he might say some things that you're not ready to handle. I think you have a lot of growing up to do, and there's nothing wrong with that. I can't tell you exactly what you should do--this is something you need to figure out yourself. I can tell you that it's nothing to worry about, and if you make the right decisions, everything will eventually be okay.
Good luck!
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I wouldn't worry so much about it, if it was me I would just go out and ask him. But if your not like that then I suggest that you just wait and see how it goes, you are both only really young so he might just be trying things out. The other thing I wouold do (or should I say wouldn't do) is go behind his back, trust me it doesn't work out.
Hope this helps.
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first off why would you just make out with some random guy when you have a boyfriend?? If your relationship is really that serious i would think you would at least be faithful to him, but thats juss me.
i really doubt that juss because your boyfriend and this guy changed clothes they are gay together. i have played football with gay guys and i changed in front of them and i am not making out with them... nothing is wrong with your boyfriend, you two have a very strange relationship i guess. there is nothing to worry about, continue with life, and good luck to you two!
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