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I need help/advice
i really need someones good adivice.so my mom came home from work and she caught me trying to sneek my boyfriend into the closet so that she wouldnt know that he was in my house after we had had sex. and then i told her that i have been having sex since i was 14 years old and i am only 15. this could ruin me and my boyfriends relationship because i could never get to see him again outside of school. and if she tells my father then he is going to try to hurt my boyfiend and blame it all on him even though it is not all his fault. and i am worried that this is going to jepordize my trust with my mom and my dad. i really need to know what i should do!! please help me!!
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I think that you should talk to you boyfriend first. Let him know the posistion that you and you guys' relationship is in. Let him know then see what he says. Maybe his response, hopefully it will be helpful and reasurring, will give you an idea of what you can say to your mother. Maybe if it is easily to write her a letter, then do that. Your goal should be trying to enable your abilities to see your boyfriend with out sneaking.And maybe you might have to hold off on the sex for awhile, or at least until your mother trusts u again.
I really hope this helped.
Good luck
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I think you should have a conversation with your mother, it might be akward but it could help. Ask her not to tell your dad, explain everything to herr! If you really think your dad is going to hurt your boyfriend you should tell a school counselour. Don'tt forget to tell you boyfriendd!! hahaa! Most importantly talk to your mom, if she already told your dad then talk to him after.
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mmm it's so probably they won't trust you anymore like before cause you had their trust and now it seems you lost it . talk to you mother tell her that you where vry consious of what you wheree doing, that no one forced you to hav sex and that your being very carefull with it , and you feel mature enough to have sex hope she'll understand it
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