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to shy for the guy?
I really like this guy! he asked me out today adn i said yes! Things are going great! ((im 13/f by the way)) I'm sorat shy but i want to hold his hand nd stuf but i feel like mayb he is shy to. I dont want to have to make the first move so what do i do? i want to hld his hand but i dont think i should have to make the first move.... HELP!?
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you guys are going out so why so nerves i know you dont want to make the first move but why not its obvious that hes not maybe he thinks your reject him so just try to make the first move you guys cant go anywhere if your standing still you cant move up if your not gonna take that step you know hope i helped goodluck
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of course you should! dont be afraid. he is probably much more scared than you haha. just when your walking bump into his hand. and then if he looks at you go and hold his hand. if he doesnt notice. try it again later. maybe he will get it. dont be shy! its much better getting out your feelings than leaving them in!
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fortunately/unfortunatly guys are extremely shy, just like girls, and sometimes girls have to make the first move otherwise you'll never get anywhere. so, try some simple flirting and see what happens, but if that doesn't work, GO FOR THE GOLD and make a move! after all it could pay off in the long run!
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Go ahead make the first move. I bet he will like you more if you do :). Plus maybe he is thinking the same things that why he isnt making the first move. One of you has to so you can break the ice. Holding hands isnt to big of a move, start it off and let him do the rest.
Jess<3
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hey, well theres nothing wrong with girls making the first move. some guys actually get turned on by it. just let him know that he can be comfortable around you and open up to you. its going to take time for him to come out of his shell so just try to be patient with him.
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