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Two people meet at a bar...
I am 17 and I met this guy at a bar. He is 21 and I just wonder if other people think that is too old for me. Should I go out with him again? We exchanged phone numbers and we have talked on the phone. Any and all responses are appreciated.
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no not at all at least in my opion i dont think that hes to old for you if you like him than go for it see what happens goodluck
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There are a few red flags here, he's 21, you met him at a bar and you're asking about the age gap.
If you meet guys at a bar, you get guys who like to drink. While in some cases - its not bad, but most aren't the type of guys you need to date.
If you told him you're 17 and you know he's 21, meeting at the bar only leads to one thing. If you're just game for hooking up, then go out with him and talk to him again.
Next, if you were comfortable with the age gap, you wouldn't be looking for reassurance here.
Personally, I wouldn't go out with him again. At 17, he'll be taking advantage of you.
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If you like him and you enjoy being with him than go out with him again. Age difference isn't a big thing and you guys are only a few years apart, so that's not a big deal at all. My boyfriend and I are four years a part and it doesn't bother anyone. If you like him, that is all that should matter.
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No, he's not too old for you as far as the relationship being weird or illegal. However, have you considered that since you met in a bar, he might be under the impression that you're 21? You do owe it to him to reveal your true age if you intend to date.
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i think that you should do what seems correct to you .. in my opinion its not too old 21 to 17 it's okay for me , but also have in mind that an older guy , other kind of interestes involved sometimes, commitment ,sex, etc good luck!
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By law hes to old for you, because you are not yet 18 but it may be different where you live. But age is nothing but a number, if yall hit it off and are interested in eachother then go for it.
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hey, you shouldnt care what other people think. you should be concentrated on what you think is right for you and what feels right. i would call him and see how everything goes. then if you hit it off, go out with him on a date.
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