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umm yeah i feel dumb asking this but my boyfriend reallly wants me to have phone sex. ive never done it before....so help!
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you basically ask him you know, what are you wearing or what makes you horny, stuff like that. he'll ask you the same things. it's pretty much describing yourself to him and him doing the same. you both pretty much masturbate over the phone together.
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Phone sex can be really awkward, but it can also be very arousing. I very nearly did it for a living, but life got in the way (funny how that works . . . )
Anyway, I'm going to assume it is something you are at least a little interested in, or you would have asked how to get out of it. So, here are the basics, and some tips I got from the person I was going to work for:
1. Role-playing works great here. You aren't seeing each other, so it is easier to pretend to be someone else for a bit (I mean, easier than trying it in person where the visual can take away from the fantasy sometimes). So, decide who you want to be and why you are doing this over the phone. Can you do an accent? Perhaps you are a french girl who will be coming to the states soon to meet him, but you just can't wait to be involved with him so you are using the phone.
2. Whether you role-play or not, a sultry voice can work wonders. Yes, it will sound forced at first if it is not how you naturally talk, but it is part of the fun. Just make all you say come out almost like a purr. Practice if you want. Talk to your cat in that voice and anyone who wanders in on you will be less likely to think it is strange.
3. What do you say? Well, be dirty. Tell him in detail just how you want to suck his . . . or kiss him on the . . . or how wet you are . . . or whatever you think sounds good. Be very descriptive of what you are wearing, even if the description is something you don't really own but you think would look great.
4. On the topic of being descriptive, don't just start out in underwear. You will need to describe how you take it all off. What kind of outfit does he fantasize about? School-girl? Nurse? Teacher? Play it up.
5. Simple props go a long way. Props? When he can't see you? Of course. You need to sound right. All you really need are a couple tootsie pops to suck on. If you have a vibrator, or something that sounds like one, that is also a good idea.
6. Enjoy yourself. If you are actually getting aroused and such, it will be apparent in your voice. If you are comfortable with it (at this point, I don't see why you wouldn't be), masturbate. And tell him all about it.
If you do that, you will probably have him rushing to your place for the real thing before you even realize he has put the phone down.
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Are you asking what phone sex is? If you are, phone sex is talking to your boyfriend on the phone while you both are touching yourselves and explaining what youre doing. Ex: "Im rubbing your chest and working my way down." Something like that! Ha. :] And making noises. You know what I mean. Dont do if it makes you feel uncomfortable.
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You shouldn't be akwardd askingg. this is what it's forr! You should only havee phone sexx if you'ree readyy! It could be akwardd if you're nott=]. Phone sex is like you describing what you would do if you were really having sexx.. ya knoww? You touched this then you did thiss.. but like more detail=]. Have funn. If you're not readdy tell himm.. he should understand!
*Hope I Helped*
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