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i HATE my school!
Okay, well... I guess you can say I`m one of the go-to-girls in my school. A lot of people look to me for advice, and i`d say I have a lot of freinds but, few of them are with me on making the right descisions, my school, my grade; its so stupid! everyone`s two-faced, no ones honest... everyone in my grade [and I`m a Freshman] has done drugs, drinks on a regular basis, and/or has had sex or done something sexual. when I was in eigth grade, I had some amamzing teachers with whom I connected so closely with. They were like family; they always encouraged me to make the right descisions. well I am I mean, I`m not a goody-goody, I mean I flirt with guys and I mess around but I`m not even considering loosing my viriginty. && when it comes to drugs & alcohol? no way! thats just stupid. its trendy in my grade to get fxcked up and look like a mess. I don`t wanna get into that, not smoking, not drinking, not drugs. Its hard though when everyone thinks you`re a p*ssy because you won`t do the stuff they want to. I need some encouragement, or even advice, please.
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i know exactly how you feel my school is the exact same way. i'm a freshman too.
drinking, smoking and using drugs, can and will fuck up your life. just tell people, your not a pussy, your just smarter than that, you know how much that stuff with mess you up. and if they don't accept that, you don't need them.
and having sex. do they releaize how common HPV is? and that it leads to cancer, and condoms don't help. having sex is dumb, especially at 14 and 15.
you just need to stand firm in your beliefs.
if you ever need to talk, i'm here <3
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First of all I would like to sayy that i'm proudd.. && i haven't even met youu! Hahaa! It's really hard to go against the crowdd.. especially when your whole grade is the crowd!
I just want to say you're doingg the right thingg. My brother did drugs & he almost commited suicide. Consider the consequences of drinkingg.. so you're right. Smokingg.. that's just ridiculous! Sex.. do you really want a babyy? I'm so proudd.. you're doing everythingg right. If people think you'ree a babyy .. whateverr you're the one that went against everybody! You did this for yourselff.. ! Maybe now you'ree not in the groupp.. but when you grow up it'll be good to tell your kids what you did, and you'll be proud you did it.
*Hope I Helped*
xoxoxoxoxoxo<33
&&Good Luckk =]
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Okay, well I cant say I feel EXACTLY the same as you do..it would be hipocritical for me to say I agree when I do some things you listed. However, I only do it a little ONCE in awhile. I HATE when kids in my grade brag about how "fuckkeedd up" they got this weekend or how many beers they drank. It seems like thats all they want to talk about. Ive heard girls have conversations with eachother about how much throwing up when you drink a lot sucks. Also, drugs PISS me off. I hate when people talk about doing serious drugs, like cocaine! It makes me so angry that kids are doing this to themselves and their parents. I feel terrible when I see kids that feel like they have to do it. But, its even worse when they have to brag about it to everyone in class. My opinion? Youre smart. Youre mature. You need to forget about stupid people..dont try to preach to them. They'll learn those things are STUPID and BAD...the hard way.
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just keep thinking how lucky you are. if you look at it this way, one day, these people are really going to regret doing all those things they did. i honestly think, you are an amazing influence and a good role-model for people. i think you can probably make an impact on somebody's life on day.
just don't give into anything these people are doing. because yes, it CAN fuck up your lives.
if this is only their freshmen year, i don't even think they'll end up graduating. its sad, really.
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Think about it this way.
Whos getting the STD? you or them?
Whos going to be pregnant and kicked out of their houses with no money? You or them?
Whos lives are ending riight now because their health is no good? You or them?
Whos ACTULLY going to be something when they grow up and get married to a nice man and be very rich? You or them?
Hope i helped
-Krazy<3
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Don't give in!
It's not worth it, trust me.
I am a freshman too and I gave in in the begining of the year and I want to stop soo bad but thats all that anyone ever does so I can't escape it!
Be the better person, and not giving in is a plus to never get caught, your grades will be good, you won't have to lie about it to your parents, and you'll be way more healthy than everyone that does do it!
STAY STRONG!
HOPE I HELPED!
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Wow that Sounds so Much like MY school
but ive found Freinds That thats not all to them, school is were u go to learn if people are going to judge you because of your good morals thats [exscuse my language] fucking immature, your obviously better, and smarter, and have more common sense then that. so even if they think your a pusssy brush yuh shouldas off girl . keep your nose up at them hatas and find freinds that arent allin to that , maybe older freinds or freinds that dont even go to your school, dont change your judgement because " everyone else is doing it " its the most degradeing decision to yourself to follow everyone else, you seem unique because your so young with your priorites straight, keep doin what your doin and let your "freinds" know your not changin and ruinin your life, and you keep it up girl im proud =]
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