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i rly d0nt wanna say anything personal
this isnt about being personal. it is for help that i need and tht i can give you =]
but i AM a TEENAGE girl . thts pretty much all you needa no. but , mayb if we become okay il let you no somemore about ME . BUT NOT Just anyone can no about ME ; BUt imma Rly nice Person and i love giving advice . but need it myself sometimes . ! =] sooo let me here your questions an im ususaly pretty good with given advice .
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i got my nose pierced and was told to clean it with an antumicrobial cleanser. i got Hebiclens, but it seems sort of strong...is there anything else i can use?? is antibacterial soap ok (link)
i havve/had my nose pierced also
what ever you use make sure youc lean it, it WILL get infected Lol. but i knoew that a freind of mines mom had said salt water worked good, it was a solution she bought im pretty sure, i thynk that antibacterial soap will be okay just Occasionaly clean it with peroxide [Just not alot on the indside that could b dangerouse] but lemme kno wht hapns
goodluck
C*c


OK i need all of your opinions! i have to write a story, and i'm deciding between two plots. I need as many opinions as possible please! thanks
1. about a girl, 15 or so, her mother died when she was very young, over the summer she is in a store and meets a woman in her 30's, 40's, the woman tells her about a place up the mountain where she is landscaping this whole big beautiful garden like thing. The woman offers to teach her to garden in return for the girl helping out. they start to do that and become friend. All the while the younger girl is kind of seeing this woman as a mother figure even though the woman isn't doing anything motherly, they're just friends. In the end, she puts too much trust in the woman, and is disapointed because the woman like goes away without telling her or something else bad that she knows a "mother" wouldn't do. And it's basically about that, just how when people want something so badly they see things that aren't really there. She wanted a motherly so desperately that she clung to anyone and was let down.

2. a girl in ny city, her mother dies and she finds an adress of a family member(she doesn't know any of her relatives) they live down south so she goes there to find them. She finds out that her "mother" is actually her aunt her took her away when her mother went crazy. So it's about her learning about the south and meeting family and getting to know her mom.

which should i do? i'm better at descriptions than big exciting course of events. which one is more original and crative, and what should i do? does the first one seem like boring, like it's been done before and is too disney, cliche, boring?

PLEASE HELP ME DECIDE

I really want it to be well written

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i like the second one ; its interesting, and different, the first ones kinda of boring to me no offense just honesty. stick with the second one
goodluck
yooh could be an amazing writer some day :)


i have this huge problem this boy jus broke up with my best friend lizy and today i sorta hung out wit hym but he grabbed my bff emme's ass i mean she is supper skinny and totally dosent have one lol but she ii let hym do that cuz i really really like hym o should ii oo idno please help me!!!!!!! PLEEASEE (link)
Lol,Well Talk to your Friend First, if shes your freind then you should chose her over a guy, and get her consent to hang out wit him & what not but if she says it makes her uncomfortable and hurt then fall baQ, but the thing wit him grabbin the others girl butt dont rly mean nutyhn [evn if she has one er not lol] but, he could jus b messin around & she likes the attention, all girls like attention [specialy from a guy] lookinto it summore before making conclusions, just make sure you talk to your other freind abuot hangin out wit him and stuff before you do it, you wouldnt wanna fuck up a good freindship b.c u liked some guy.

hope i helped & lemme kno how it al works out
goodluck .
C*c


well I`m a 14-year-old girl and I`d say I`m pretty mature for my age. Although I`m a freshman, I understand things that most kids in my grade wouldn`t. I`m in the highest English class and I find many upperclass men relating to me more then anyone, because they say that I don`t act like a Freshman, nor do I look like one. but thats the thing. I can barely relate to the kids in my grade, especially the boys. I`m not trying to steriotype, but its the majority of them. I hate when I try to talk to them and they just end up saying or doing something stupid. I don`t exactly WANT a boyfriend, but it`d be nice, but I can`t find one in my grade, and I`m not about to date an upperclass boy. It pisses me off because all of my friends have had a long-term boyfriend already, and I haven`t had one. I don`t know what to do! Any advice? (link)

i can tell just by reading your entry that your mature more then a freshman would be. its a good thing, you may not have to date and upperclass man but maybe a 10th grader? find one with ur maturity and intelligence, dont mess with the young and immature boys if its not what you want to do , just cuz your freinds had long term relationships it hasnothing to do with you and your feelings, i mean your a freshman long term relationships arent so common or "important" some are but you kinda want to expand your horizon on guys, not sayin mess around with alot of different guys but geting to know different guys of diffrenet personalitys to kind of find out what your interested in. just dont jump into a relationship because thats what your freinds are doing. hope things work out =]


Okay, well... I guess you can say I`m one of the go-to-girls in my school. A lot of people look to me for advice, and i`d say I have a lot of freinds but, few of them are with me on making the right descisions, my school, my grade; its so stupid! everyone`s two-faced, no ones honest... everyone in my grade [and I`m a Freshman] has done drugs, drinks on a regular basis, and/or has had sex or done something sexual. when I was in eigth grade, I had some amamzing teachers with whom I connected so closely with. They were like family; they always encouraged me to make the right descisions. well I am I mean, I`m not a goody-goody, I mean I flirt with guys and I mess around but I`m not even considering loosing my viriginty. && when it comes to drugs & alcohol? no way! thats just stupid. its trendy in my grade to get fxcked up and look like a mess. I don`t wanna get into that, not smoking, not drinking, not drugs. Its hard though when everyone thinks you`re a p*ssy because you won`t do the stuff they want to. I need some encouragement, or even advice, please. (link)

Wow that Sounds so Much like MY school
but ive found Freinds That thats not all to them, school is were u go to learn if people are going to judge you because of your good morals thats [exscuse my language] fucking immature, your obviously better, and smarter, and have more common sense then that. so even if they think your a pusssy brush yuh shouldas off girl . keep your nose up at them hatas and find freinds that arent allin to that , maybe older freinds or freinds that dont even go to your school, dont change your judgement because " everyone else is doing it " its the most degradeing decision to yourself to follow everyone else, you seem unique because your so young with your priorites straight, keep doin what your doin and let your "freinds" know your not changin and ruinin your life, and you keep it up girl im proud =]



i went to the am i fat site thing and it said my bmi was 17 how can i get it down lower? to like... 15 or 14? (link)
1. thats not fat
2. dont always listen to what INTERNET TESTS say
but either way thats not fat, dont jeperdize your health by trying to get 15 or 14
Buttt If you wanna be in shape you could eat healthyy and exercise not neccisarily 30 minutes a dayy start off slow , so you dont overwork yourself and then just grow to working out more each day or week


Hey,
Im 15 years old, female, 5'3, and weigh 87 pounds All theese B.M.I things say i am dangerously underweight...even though i have a very small body frame, im also a late bloomer (I havent had my period) I go to the doctor regularly and they never said i was underweight...i dont feel like im too thin. Should i be worried? Does not having your period and being a late bloomer have an affect on ideal weight?

Thank you. (link)
the School BmI's are Guesses they arent accurate because thats true they cant see your body frame, some ppl are just naturally little or petite, if you dont feel to thin , and you arent having an eating disorder dont sweat it ,im not really sure about the weight thing with your period ? i didnt know that it effected it but anyway i dont think there is an "ideal weight" if your healthy and feel healthy dont worry about it unless its an eating disorder or somthing , wait until your doctors says somthing because thats were it really counts , school doesnt kno much about each individuals health, so ask your doctor maybe next time you see him/ her. =]


I'm about 5ft and 125 Ibs and have a I consider myself as having a big butt...am I fat? I wear baggy clothes because I'm afraid people will see and I'm really self conscious and pretty sure guys find big butts unattractive..well one guy asked me out because he liked my butt but he was kinda wierd. So my questions are: Am I fat? And if I do have a big butt do guys not like that? (link)
dont consider yourself fat because what your weight says, if your a little bigger then some girls Good, your not trying to fit in , dont think your fat because from the looks of it your not , youve juss got some JUNK in tha TRUNK . but if your going to date a guy that just likes your butt, thats not always good cuz then it seems lyk they dont actualy like you , but big butts arent Bad , im not a guy but they usualy seem to likee BIGG BUTTS . dont b self consiouce . its not a bad thing , cuz its ususaly attractive


ok so I got my period about 1 and half years ago in february 15,2005 but that was the only time. it nvr came back once a month and stuff it nvr came back...is this normal? (link)
yess yess this is Very normal, your period is quite irregular when you first get it, the same thing happened to me when i first got it =] dont worry youl git it again


I'm sorta pale and have dark hair so alot of people asume I'm goth and it really ticks me off! I just dont like outdoor activities and have a huge fear of bugs...I even think pale guys are way cute! I'm afraid maybe a guy wont think I'm as pretty because of my skintone...which isnt PAPER white I'm part native american so even when my skin is VERY base there is a little color in it and I have freckles. I dont know...I'm just worried guys wont think of me as cute/hot because of it..help? (link)
If people are going to judge you then Mind Me saying SCREW THEM , you dont need to be judged you know who you are , and you shouldnt have to proove anything to anyone but yourself ;; but maybe if you wanted to get more social outdoors , try doing things that dont involve surroundings with bugs, and a guy will like you for who you are and if they dont then they are not worth it , im pretty shure your Beutiful (NO LESBO) even if your complexion is Lighter then MOst People , Words Of Advice dont Listen To what Other people Say, they talk about other ppl ususaly because thier insecure of themselves , so look at it this way be yourself [ even if you have to try and get out doors a little more] meet a guy that likes you for you , that you like [ one with a pale complexion like you said you liked ] dont try to impress unworthy people , there not even worth your time , your better then that . =]


ok so I am 13 but I want to learn and get started on being a cosmetolisgist are there any websites that can teach me how to cut peoples hair properly without having to buy a book and stuff? (link)
Ususaly In high School you take Classes For cosmetology ; Which i also Like to do =]
But, Anyway you could probably just search It up on Google Or Something But im Sure you wont learn much properly with out havin to pay you would probably be safer buying a cosmetology book, because not everything on the internet is accurate. but its cool that you want to start early, but im not positive finding it on the web is a good idea .


i took a ept pregnancy test and it came out positve could the test be wrong (link)
I agree With The Person Before Me
.About all the time the pregnancy test is correct , but it could b wrong . i think that you should wait a week and then take a nother pregnancy test and if that is positive 99 percent chance is your pregnant =[




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