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immaturity...
well I`m a 14-year-old girl and I`d say I`m pretty mature for my age. Although I`m a freshman, I understand things that most kids in my grade wouldn`t. I`m in the highest English class and I find many upperclass men relating to me more then anyone, because they say that I don`t act like a Freshman, nor do I look like one. but thats the thing. I can barely relate to the kids in my grade, especially the boys. I`m not trying to steriotype, but its the majority of them. I hate when I try to talk to them and they just end up saying or doing something stupid. I don`t exactly WANT a boyfriend, but it`d be nice, but I can`t find one in my grade, and I`m not about to date an upperclass boy. It pisses me off because all of my friends have had a long-term boyfriend already, and I haven`t had one. I don`t know what to do! Any advice?
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It doesn't really matter how old they are. If you find that you like one and they like you, I don't think there is ANY problem with that and I really don't think anybody else would. So what if all your friends have had one? Once you find somebody, go for it, no matter who it is.
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i can tell just by reading your entry that your mature more then a freshman would be. its a good thing, you may not have to date and upperclass man but maybe a 10th grader? find one with ur maturity and intelligence, dont mess with the young and immature boys if its not what you want to do , just cuz your freinds had long term relationships it hasnothing to do with you and your feelings, i mean your a freshman long term relationships arent so common or "important" some are but you kinda want to expand your horizon on guys, not sayin mess around with alot of different guys but geting to know different guys of diffrenet personalitys to kind of find out what your interested in. just dont jump into a relationship because thats what your freinds are doing. hope things work out =]
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I WAS IN THIS SITUATION! One thing you dont want to do is go out searching for a boyfriend. Let the time come. ALOT! and i mean ALOT of 14 year old boys are extreamely immature. u just have to get to know some of them. see which ones are mature. because i always thought i'd never date anyone in my grade because they are all so annoying and immature. but i found someone great. yeah he is silly sometimes, but he knows when to be serious, and doesnt judge anything. those people are hard to find. thats why you shouldnt go out looking for them. You will find someone buy getting to know people better. you dont always have to get older guys. just keep on talking ;) you'll find someone!
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