I'm sorta pale and have dark hair so alot of people asume I'm goth and it really ticks me off! I just dont like outdoor activities and have a huge fear of bugs...I even think pale guys are way cute! I'm afraid maybe a guy wont think I'm as pretty because of my skintone...which isnt PAPER white I'm part native american so even when my skin is VERY base there is a little color in it and I have freckles. I dont know...I'm just worried guys wont think of me as cute/hot because of it..help?
FAITHEB answered Saturday July 29 2006, 4:53 pm: Hello , I think if a guy don't like you for your heart and your brains then what is the point being with him anyway, because it's what's on the inside that matters the most.You must feel beautiful to you before others see it, look in the mirror every day and say i am beautiful. It don't matter if your very dark to very light, everything starts from within
have a great day your friend Faitheb [ FAITHEB's advice column | Ask FAITHEB A Question ]
xO_b_r_i_a_n_a_Ox answered Saturday July 29 2006, 4:01 pm: Try a self tanner, or you don't really have to do outdoor activities. When you go to the beach (or even if you don't have any beaches near where you live) you can tan outside in your yard or something. [ xO_b_r_i_a_n_a_Ox's advice column | Ask xO_b_r_i_a_n_a_Ox A Question ]
StarryNightSkies answered Saturday July 29 2006, 3:25 pm: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
(girl on right) she is very pale, dark haired, and very beautiful... guys also tend to like pale girls just be yourself around guys and dont try to impress them.
Jade09 answered Saturday July 29 2006, 2:20 pm: if you don't want your skin to appear as very very light, then you can always lighten your hair to a lighter brown. that will make your skin tone look a little darker. =]]] [ Jade09's advice column | Ask Jade09 A Question ]
TEENAGExHEARTS answered Saturday July 29 2006, 11:53 am: if it really bothers you, then don't wear dark eyeliner, and wear lots of pretty colors. and if guys only judge you by your appearance then they aren't worth it anyway. [ TEENAGExHEARTS's advice column | Ask TEENAGExHEARTS A Question ]
Helpful answered Saturday July 29 2006, 10:50 am: A lot of famous people have that kind of coloring. Look at Vanessa Carlton. If it bothers you that much, you can dye your hair. But you can still look like you with your dark hair and light skin. Try putting something in your hair that a goth would never wear, or getting a new kind of haircut that's 'in'. You can choose who you are, and it was wrong for them to label you a goth. Good luck! [ Helpful's advice column | Ask Helpful A Question ]
fabulous11 answered Saturday July 29 2006, 10:42 am: If a guy wouldnt like you just because you have light skin then i really dont think they are worth it. But if your really that concirned then go to a tanning booth.
hottie411 answered Saturday July 29 2006, 10:31 am: you shouldnt listen to what other people say, and the guys wont not think your hot because of that.
but if your really worried, then just go to the beach or to the pool or go outside where there arent a lot of bugs, and get a tan.
SiMPLExSECREtS answered Saturday July 29 2006, 9:19 am: If people are going to judge you then Mind Me saying SCREW THEM , you dont need to be judged you know who you are , and you shouldnt have to proove anything to anyone but yourself ;; but maybe if you wanted to get more social outdoors , try doing things that dont involve surroundings with bugs, and a guy will like you for who you are and if they dont then they are not worth it , im pretty shure your Beutiful (NO LESBO) even if your complexion is Lighter then MOst People , Words Of Advice dont Listen To what Other people Say, they talk about other ppl ususaly because thier insecure of themselves , so look at it this way be yourself [ even if you have to try and get out doors a little more] meet a guy that likes you for you , that you like [ one with a pale complexion like you said you liked ] dont try to impress unworthy people , there not even worth your time , your better then that . =] [ SiMPLExSECREtS's advice column | Ask SiMPLExSECREtS A Question ]
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