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I like
A mean , rude, jerk.
He's mean to me, he calls me fat etc.
He hates me
But we used to be really really good friends
I still like him
No matter how mean he is
wtf
help?
14/f
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I have to be honest with you, otherwise, I wouldn't be a very good person at giving advice at all. Look, this guy doesn't deserve you and he most definitely is not worth your time. I mean, do you really want someone who calls you "fat?" Think about that, I know deep down you do not want that.
No one would want that type of treatment. But I'm assuming, that you're feeling that you know the "real" him from when you used to be friends, and he's just putting on this tough exterior. This could be true, if this is how you're feeling, but you really shouldn't waste your time with this guy.
If he's never nice to you, he just isn't worth it. Trust me, there are much better guys out there who are not mean like this, and who will treat you as you deserve -- unlike this guy!
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With all due respect, for you to say, "I still like him, no matter how mean he is" is the equivalent of saying, "I am a doormat - treat me like dog crap and I'll shrug and smile."
It's unfortunate that this person who used to be your friend has become so callous and crude over time, but that's what happens to people sometimes. You have to give him the cold shoulder. If you care about what he thinks or says, then you may start believing it of yourself, and that won't do you any good.
He is no longer your friend. You will need to accept that and move on. You might consider telling him what a piece of garbage he's grown into, but truthfully he's unlikely to care, so I'd advise you not to waste your time with it.
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I HIGHLY doubt you like him. Maybe you lust him, which means you are attracted to him. But like is you like them for everything - their personality, who they are. People change. Obviously, this kid has changed if you USED to be friends. I think that might be why you like him...you still think of him as the way he was when you were friends with him. But, you cant change him. He seems like a real jerk. Someone that hates you and calls you fat is NOT worth your time. Please get over him. Forget about looks. Say, if he wasnt attractive would I like him? If we hadnt have been friends would I like him? Chances are, no. You need to realize there are better people out there who you'll miss out on if you waste your time on jerks.
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This guy might be insecuree.. he might feel like all those things and takes it out on you! I know you can'tt helpp likingg a guyy.. maybe talk to him. It might be akwardd beingg like "what's up with youu?" noo hahaa but be like why do you say those thingss? He might get madd but in the long runn he'll be like woahh thankss<33 Maybe better writee him a notee.
*Hope I Helped*
xoxoxoxoxoxo<33
&&Good Luckk =]
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What triggered all this hate towards you...did something go on your not explain'n ??? I would pull him to the side and confront him, this tatic works well,but you have to go 1 on 1, without his friends, (ya-know cuz he'll have to act tough)..you'll throw him off his square..What ever you do, dont drop to his level, be a bigger person..Good luck..I wish I had more to go on...
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