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Making a good impression.
13 Female.
School starts in 10 day's, and I want to come back with a splash. I'm getting braces tomorrow (finally) my hair's grown and taken an adorable shape, and my boob's have gone from being a 34B to a 36C. I've done alot of shopping and my face has cleared up.
Now I want that personality to go with it. You know, friendly, outgoing, confident, cute, and flirty. I'm sick of being too loud, or too obnoxious. How do I tone myself done, to be the calmer, cooler, collected girl I am? Thanks!
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don't try to be someone you're not, it's too much work. work on thinking before you speak or act, try not to talk so loudly and just be kind to everyone. if you can't be yourself with your friends, how can they really be your friends? you have to be yourself, because if not, no one will really know who you are. don't try to grow up too fast.... you'll miss being a kid when you're older. i'm not calling you a kid, it seems like once a kid turns 13, they're practically grown up.. :) anyway, be true to who you are... that's what will matter in the end. good luck!
ps: the whole boob growing thing, don't let that be what defines you. i developed breasts when i was in grade four, i've been wearing a bra ever since, and sometimes, that's all guys want to talk to you for. so be careful of that, and make sure guys treat you like the queen you are. peace out...
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everyone has their imperfections. if your thinking of changing yourself for someone else, who are you really inside? maybe certain things could be controlled, but not everything. be the person everyone loved before, but it you want to tone down being obnoxious or loud, think before speaking. take a deep breath, then talk calmly. but dont change everything! if you do, your nobody.
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Hmmm i would have to say that you can't really change who you are, but you can affect how you present yourself. Like, think before you talk and review what your going to say before you say it. Don't get over excited about everything and try to make sure that you won't look back on a conversation and go, omg i shouldn't have said that!
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I can't say this any other way but this.
just be yourself.
fxck them&what they think.
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hey, well to start off i dont think you should change for anyone but yourself. if you want to try for a differnet personality then go for it! but dont be something your not.
-caitt<3
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HI!
Your off to a great start. I think you should just be yourself and not someone your not. If your friends dont like the way you Are now, then they arent your friends. I think that by now your practically perfect. Keep up the good work and remember to be yourself.
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Heya i think every girl will dream to be like you, you seem more confident about yourself so i think you will have no problem in changing your personality to the way you want. Just make new friends and believe in yourself! Thats the best you can do, before you no it you will have boys lining up to date you.
Like-a-diamond
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I had that problem too.. my mom took me to a neurologist and they diagnosed me with ADHD [[attention defisit hyper-active disorder]] if you are ADHD you can get pills and it will calm you down and not make you so loud and obnoxious
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Well pretty much the only thing that you can do about this is practice.Try to keep it down around the house and stuff like that and when you go back to school maybe because you look so different you can get a whole new start on everyone!!
~Erin (fargo)
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Hi There
Like yourself: How can others be expected to like you if you don't like yourself? It's no fun hanging out with miserable sods. Repeat the mantra - bah forget it.
Choose well: Don't overstretch yourself, while it's great to have loads of people you know and like, it's better to have a select few that you spend more time with.
Make time for each other: Don't abandon your mates at the first sign of lust, they're the ones you'll run to if it all goes wrong, and if you've vanished off the planet for a few months previous to this they may not want to pick up the pieces. If you are on the receiving end of this, tell your mate directly, as subtle hints tend not to work.
Treat them as you wish to be treated: Obvious? You'd think so, but most people fail on this one.
Make them feel wanted: Just like with lovers, where you may give surprise gifts, special dates and candle-lit meals, making your friend feel special can help make your bond stronger...and you may get gifts in return!
Speak: It is better to bring up problems before you get to the point of a massive row, but either way make sure you do discuss them rationally and apologise for being an idiot if necessary. Then let it lie and move on.
Listen: This is a two-way thing, don't expect them to continually help you out with your dilemmas and then have no interest in helping with theirs.
Trust and loyalty: These are essential to close friendships. You don't have to share everything, but if you do, make sure you don't blab to everyone else. How would you feel if they did the same?
Support them: If you want them to 'be there for you' you'll have to be there too.
Admit when it's over: If you bore each other and it's a chore to spend time together, then call it a day.
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Well you can be anything you want to be. Just tell yourself your friendly outgoing confident cute and flirty and you will be.
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A personality you should have for your huge comeback would be outgoing,funny,friendly,and a generous person.You should have someone to test you on how to be the personality you want to be.Like for example, a person to show he or she is calm like when people are going loud or wild you just show you're not by just watching,another example for showing your cool would be that when someone needs some help from you help them out,you stick up for them,or you could also dress cool to fit the whole cool personality.
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