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clarify if she likes me


Question Posted Sunday July 30 2006, 12:40 pm

1)okay so this girl first asks for my email add then my phone number,then one day i waved at her in school and she was absolutely shy and looked down the whole time.Now we are talking on msn.so does she like me?or is she just naturally shy and wants to be just friends?

2)But what i don't get about girls is that you know how some girls are outgoing and super friendly?So she may talk to you a lot and like you or maybe just talk to you cause she is just being friendly to you as she is to the other guys.So is their a way to know?I mean,if a girl talks to a guy a lot,does that mean that she's interested in him?cause it doesn't really make any sense for a girl to talk a lot to a guy since girls mostly mix with girls and vice versa, plus girls mostly talk about girls stuff which guys know nothing of,unless he's gay.


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iMxeLmOsxLoVeR answered Tuesday August 1 2006, 11:19 pm:
well by the way you describe her...i think this girl likes you but doesnt want to be shot down...
i think she is shy and doesnt want to tell you how she feels
so maybe start flirting with her and then if she opens up a little and not as shy
if you like her tell her how you feel
because she might feel the same
you never know unless you talk to the person about it

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savannagreenway answered Sunday July 30 2006, 8:50 pm:
well does she flirt with you just a little or even a lot juss start bein even more friendly that will do the trick and most the time it means she does

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wOAHHiiTSANGiiE answered Sunday July 30 2006, 5:00 pm:
1. she prob. likes you but shes shy and scaredd and stuff.
2.she might like you or she might think of you as a friend if she talkes to you a lot.

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VeLcRoxHeArTs answered Sunday July 30 2006, 4:53 pm:
1) I'm exactly like the girl your talking about. She does like you, but is very shy about it.

2)if she shows any signs of flirting like touching your arm or anything like that, it could be a sign of being more than friendly. If they talk about girl stuff she may be nervous on choosing a topic to talk about. So make the first move!

xoxo

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fargo answered Sunday July 30 2006, 4:18 pm:
I think that this girl really likes you but to find out this is what i would do.Ok so you said that you had msn,right?right.so you can start out by asking her if she has a boyfriend.then if says yes then you can back off.but if she says no then you can ask her if she would be interested in having a boyfriend.Yes:you ask her if she likes anyone if she says yes then you ask her who she might tell you who but probably not if it's you she will just say that she can't tell you and then you should ask her out!
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sunnyville answered Sunday July 30 2006, 3:56 pm:
For the first one yes she does but she's just too afraid to show her feelings towards you.As for the second if a girl askes the guy a lot of questions about his life it's because she is interested in him but if she wasn't then she really won't bother.

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Smile_be_happy answered Sunday July 30 2006, 3:41 pm:
Hey!

Well, for number 1, i think either she likes you as a friend or she thinks you're cute. Listen closely, this is important. Just because she thinks you're cute ((if that is the case)) that doesn't mean she likes you. I think my best guy friend is cute but i don't like him. Yeah I know, girls are weird. I hear it alot.

And for number 2, girls, naturally talk alot. They'll pretty much talk to anyone that'll listen, or even if they don't. So I don't think there is a way to know, unless she starts flirting alot and consistantly. So, no just because a girl talks to a guy alot doesn't mean she likes him. Well, it does make sense for a girl to talk to a guy. Girls want opinions from their friends and from a guy, to compare them.

Hope I helped, good luck =]

♥Paige

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Altruistic answered Sunday July 30 2006, 3:27 pm:
:1: it sounds like she either really wants to be friends with you or she does like you as more than a friend. it's hard to tell from what you said, but it sounds like she might like you, especially since she asked for your phone #... but you'll need more 'signs' to be sure.

:2: well, does the girl talk to one guy especially a lot or all her guy friends? Usually even if a girl talks to guys a lot already, the way she'll talk to the guy she likes is 'different' in a way. There are other signs like blushing, stammering, etc that girls wont show around guy friends. I for one talk to guys a lot since a majority of my friends are guys.. so i guess it depends on the girl?

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yoliv answered Sunday July 30 2006, 3:26 pm:
Hi.
Being a girl i know about well, girls. Lots of girls i know talk more about what they did over summer then make-up. If the girl asks you for your e-mail and your number she might like you but she might just want to be friends and is being friendly. You can tell if a girl likes you if shes really shy around you and whispers with her friends and smilies at you. You can also tell if a girl likes you if, while shes talking to you, shes doing lots of hand motions. But this paticular girl i think just wants to be friends.

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iheartyoussx3 answered Sunday July 30 2006, 3:20 pm:
hey, well it depends on the girl. since you said that this girl is shy, maybe she tends to talk to guys shes not interested in and is outgoing in front of every guy accept the one she likes. with me, if i like a guy i just tell him. i talk to him a lot too. maybe its just because i am outgoing? you can always just flat out ask her if shes interested in you also.

-caitt<3

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DefinedEyes answered Sunday July 30 2006, 3:19 pm:
1)Most people are shy in person, but online they arent. Well if she asked for that stuff from you it sounds like a crush, yes it sounds like she likes you.

2)I'm sorry but the second question, girls are girls, you'll never understand them, just like boys. Girls are usually nice to any guy they like, but if they really like them, they will try to get more information about them. ex; number,emails,single? Yeah. Just because girls talk to guys a lot, or have more guy friends then girls, doesnt mean the guy is gay. We dont only talk about "girl stuff" they could just be friends, dont freak out about it.
So if a girl talks to a guy alot and they arent daying that doesnt mean she likes him like that, they coudl just be friends, think about it that way.
And remember girls dont constantly talk about hair and make up, we do talk about A LOT more than just that, with just girls.

<3

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holahayley56 answered Sunday July 30 2006, 3:17 pm:
Well, when I like someone, I smile shyly, & look down. Is she shy all the time, or no? If shes not, she deffently does. Most likely. If shes asking for your email, phone number & such.. she obviously wants to talk to you. See how I am.. is I talk to every guy, except the one I like. I can be funnny & silly around all of them.. except for that one, because I don't want to embrass myself. I bet thats how she is. Just ask her, if she likes you. Girls are usually more open, when you ask. Just ask her.. be like "would you ever consider going out with me" or whateverr.. something like that, you get it. & see what she says.

Hope that helped! bye

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