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i'm 14 years oldand i'm a freshmen and i had never had a kiss before...is this embarrasing???
Sounds like we are on the the same boat, I'm a freshman and I have never been kissed.It feels so embarrasing sometimes when I see my friends make out with there boyfriends and everything and I'm there all alone.But the trick is to remember you want the first kiss to be special, something you can remember forever.You don't want to kiss just to say you kissed somebody.So sometimes it might feel embarrasing but it isn't.Good Luck!
Yours Truly
lmarielondon
im 14 and me and my friends are going out this year for halloween. i dont know what to be!! nothing like a witch or crap like that because thats little kid stuff.. i dressed up as a gothic person last year.. so i need cool ideas. im female so you know and im a prep if that helps and i like the color pink but and i might be a devil not sure so tell me your opinion for a devils costume am i too old? and give me new sugestions of costumes of your own. thank youuu.
Some ideas might be:
-fairey
-corpus bride ( from the movie you get a cheesy wedding dress and tear it up the way you like it and but heavy eyeliner with dark blue eyeshadow)
-angel
-cleopatra
-godess
Good Luck!
-lmarielondon
p.s. sorry for spelling!
I have had a crush on this boy in my class since like fourth grade and he thinks i am weird. I dont even know why i like him....i just do. I've tried just talking to him as friends, and sometimes he's ok with it and other times he just looks at me like i did the weirdest thing ever. I dont really understand why...i'm not overweight, i'm not ugly, but i'm not the prettiest either. How can i get him to kind of like me?
It sounds to me like your not the one with the problem it's him. If he doesn't like you for YOU, he doesn't sound worth it. Don't think for a minute there is something wrong with you because this guy doesn't like you.It's his lost! If he can't apperciate you for who you are, then you two aren't the right match. Once you realize this you can move on and your prince charming will swep you off your feet and like you for You.Good Luck!
Yours truly,
lmarielondon
what are some things you can do with the kids you are babysiting? i mostly babysit a 6 year old boy, a 3 year old girl, and a little todler. what are some ideas for fun? thanks
Kids at that age have ALOT of energy, so my advice is that you do d something active/outside. For example: tag, hide and seek, dance to a silly songs, kick the ball, go explore the backyard etc. After you are done with that, do something a bit relaxing. For example: crafts, watch t.v. with a bowl of popcorn, read some books, make a snack together, easy board games, etc. I hope this helps! Good Luck!
what are some good books you've read lately? i need to catch up on stuff
There are so may good books out in the world for example-
1. Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen
2. Harry Potter Series by J.K. Rowling
3. Bleak House by Charles Dickens
4. Where the Heart is by Billie Letts
5. Lord of the Rings by J.R.R. Tolkien
6. The Face on the Milk Carton series by Caroline Cooney
7. Artemis Fowl Series by Eoin Colfer
i think my sibling may be bulimic. she has alot of the signs. i dont know how to confront her. or how to help her. im scared though.
any advice would be great. or anyone else who has been in the situation wanna share a story???
The sooner the confrontation the better, if she is bulimic she need medical help right away. The longer she is bulimic, the harder it will be for her to get better. I know it is scary to think this could be happening to your sister but you have to confront her. She needs you more than ever, even though she probably doesn't want to admit it. You have to ask why is doing this and that she needs to tell your parents. I wish you the best of Luck!
I am going on vacation for a week and my neighbor has offered to water my garden and vegetables while we are gone. She is an older lady, not elderly but older. She lives next door, but we have a lot of land so it will be a hassle for her to come over and get out the hose, then roll it up again...but she offered and I need the help so I accepted.
My question is, I want to do something nice for her in return but I don't know what. I was thinking maybe a gift card to a grocery store or Wal Mart, but how much $$ is appropriate? Thanks for your advice!
That is a great idea, gift cards are always appreciated. I think about $30.00 to $50.00 will be plenty. Other gifts you might try is making dinner for her, or some kind of dessert. It shows that you really appreciate the deed she did and that you wanted to do something a bit more personal. Other ideas are fruit baskets, nick-knacks, antiques etc. Good Luck!
I`m supposed to be the advice GIVER, not RECEIVER. . .right? Then why am i so confused? School is about to start and i am in a class called "Publications" which means i write the school newspaper and do the yearbook. I am NOT a dork . . . i am actually pretty popular. But a lot of people think it`s a pathetic class. should i drop out and be in study hall, or stay in? I`m so confused.
thank you in advance.
Don't be forced to do something you don't want to do. If you really like this class, stick with it. Don't be peer pressured into something you don't want to do. If your friends think you are a loser for joining the class they don't seem to be very good friends. Don't give up on your interests just because they are NOT in style. Besides you will meet new people in this class, who have similar interests. Best Wishes!
me and my boyfriend have been going out for six months now, and im always jealous because he has alot of girl friends, and i mean i think its not jealousy but its not trusting him, i have no reason why i dont trust him because he is faithful and i need advice on how to trust him and maybe be more sicure about what he does and not care as much. thanx
A relationship is based on trust, if you can't trust your mate then the relationship will most likely will fall apart. You don't trust someone right away they have to earn it, so I would talk to boyfriend telling him you feel a little uncomfortable being with all his girl friends. Make sure he understands that you don't want to break up his friendships, but for him to understand that you need to learn to trust him. If he cares for you he will totally understand, and try to make things better. But it is not just him who has to work in this relationship, it is you. You have to learn how to trust him and how to feel better about all his girl friends( remember he choose you not one of those girls).I wish you the best of luck!
I absolutely HATE my sister. Shes 14 and im 15..im female by the way. She always gets the attention from my parents. Shes the one whos always good at sports..and all that..and then im the one who is good at school..so therefore i come off as a nerd..and i really hate it..cuz im not a nerd at all. She doesnt really have any friends so she always wants to hang around with me and all my friends..and my friends like her more than i like my sister..and i hate that. Shes always so mean to me and stuff..and she always takes my stuff with out asking...theres alot more to it..but yeah i can barely stand being at home anymore. when i am home im always int he basement on the computer..far far away from her cuz i really hate her..what should i do about this? thanks..
Wow! It sounds like we both have the same sister except mine is a couple years younger than me. My sis is very talkative, hyper, and drives me crazy! My advice for you is to talk to her tell her all the things she does that drives you up the wall! Hiding will not make it better(trust me i tried), it will turn you into strangers. You have to try to work out some of your problems because one day she might need you and you need to be there for her. You have to at least try talking to her. Unfortunately you and me have to play the "big sis" role so we have to be more responsible and take care of are younger siblings! Good Luck!
i am 15/f. one of my best friends is 14/m. he told me last year that he liked me. i don't like him and have never liked him. i told him that. i thought he would get over it during the summer. however, last week school started and he's being very clingy to me and i'm uncomfortable with this. when we're standing in line for something, he'll stand really close to me and when he talks to me he'll get really close to me. this is really creeping me out. most of the time, i'll find a way to get away or go talk to another friend, but i can't seem to get rid of him. and i like him as a friend, but he won't realize that i don't like him in that way. i already told my best girl friends how i feel and they said that they would talk to him about it. am i doing the right thing, and if he doesn't stop, what should i do? i want to keep being friends with him. also, there is a big banquet in february every year for band students, and he asked me to it this year. i said yes as a friend (he asked me several months ago) because he shamed me into saying yes. how should i tell him that i don't want to go with him if he keeps being so clingy to me?
You were right to tell him that you were not interested right away, because if you have waited he would probably think there was a chance! I'm sorry but I don't think it is a great idea for one of your friends to talk to him, you have to talk to him again! You have to clear the air and make sure you tell him you only like him as a friend, nothing more. Tell him you really enjoy his friendship, but he has to stop being clingy all the time. Also try to tell him you would really like to go the dance with him, but only as friends( and to stop being clingy).All the Luck!
P.S. remember to tell him you still want to be friends and that you value his friendship (in other words try to let him down firm, but easy)
I want just wondering what everyone notices first in both the opposite and same sex. I want to know what to spend more time on so people will notice me. I don't want to say if I'm male or female because I want to know what both sides think. Thanks.
I'm a girl by the way. In a guy I look at their appearance ex. eyes, hair, smile, and figure. Then if they are shy or outgoing, you know if they are easy to talk to. In a girl I notice how the present themselves, example if they have confidence or are they laid back etc.
okay so i have this boyfriend. i like him a lot...but he lives one town over from me. i only get to see him like once every 3 months. what should i do?
Having a boyfriend in another town other than yours is hard, but you have to realize it is just a town at least it is not state away. You should call him and try to figure out dates when you can see each other, and plus you know what they say:
"absents makes the heart fonder!" You might have to work on your relationship more than some but if you really for each other everything will work out in the end! Best of Luck!
im 13/female...im about to start eighth grade...and i really liked this guy (he was in my group of school friends) in the beggining of last year. and i ended up asking him out...and he turned me down. so from then on he was being an asshole and everything i would say at lunch, he would shoot down. and he was just being really mean. so all of last year, i was really depressed because all the time i got to spend with my friends was hell. im worried that the same thing will happen this school year. what should i do???
Once you begin 8th grade, you will lose touch with some of your friends and start making new ones. So you might not even be around him anymore (keep your fingers cross) and if he keeps on bothering you, try to talk to him tell him you lost your mind when you asked him out!lol! Then just try to act like nothing happen, have fun with your friends, enjoy life, and you might want to act like nothing happen between you two! It was his lost and you will find a guy who would love to go out with you soon. Good Luck
I have a boyfriend. But last night I had a dream where I was making out with this guy I used to like. Is that some kind of sign that I should be with him? Or does it mean that deep down I still like him? What does it mean?
Sometimes a dream is just a dream, away to escape are everyday thoughts. But sometimes your dreams are trying to tell you something, I would tell you to think about you relationship with your boyfriend now (Are you happy? Is there a future?), and try to think if you any more feeling for the other guy?! You need time to think and try to analyze your dream. Best of luck!
ok how do you get over a guy?
Getting over a guy is hard no matter what, but you have to realized it was for the best.A broken heart takes time to amend especially if you have been going out for awhile.First you might want to call some friends over for a sleep over the first week is the hardest.Have a girls night watch a lot of movies, eat a lot of junk food, maybe have a good cry to let it out of your system.Then slowly, but surely you need to get your self out of the house more and more.Get preoccupied with school, friends, work, ect.try not to think of him to much!You have to remember that he was not the guy for you and that your "prince charming" is out there somewhere. Now when enough time has past you might want to consider going out on a date. Don't worry about the date just relax and have fun! I hope this helps you out with your problem! Good Luck!
My boyfreind has had sex with 30 other girls and he prbably has alot of STDS and he cheats on everyone.its just in his nature. He cheated on my friend he cheated on all his other grilfriends. He tried to finger my friend when they were going out and my frined dint want him to and he wouldn't stop trying to do it. He's a man hore. He's only 16 too and he already had sex with 30 girls. And to top it all off, hes arrested right now I forgot what he did. I think hes too much truble for me because I'm not a good girl but I'm not that bad. hes already wanted sex with me the first day we were going out. I think i should dump him. Hes a bad kid and he will only cause more trouble to me. What do yuo think?
It sounds like he is not ready to be in a relationship, and that he needs to grow up abit more.You should dump him right away, especially if he's pressuring you to do sex.Being with him will only bring you more problems. Good Luck!