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best friend likes me
i am 15/f. one of my best friends is 14/m. he told me last year that he liked me. i don't like him and have never liked him. i told him that. i thought he would get over it during the summer. however, last week school started and he's being very clingy to me and i'm uncomfortable with this. when we're standing in line for something, he'll stand really close to me and when he talks to me he'll get really close to me. this is really creeping me out. most of the time, i'll find a way to get away or go talk to another friend, but i can't seem to get rid of him. and i like him as a friend, but he won't realize that i don't like him in that way. i already told my best girl friends how i feel and they said that they would talk to him about it. am i doing the right thing, and if he doesn't stop, what should i do? i want to keep being friends with him. also, there is a big banquet in february every year for band students, and he asked me to it this year. i said yes as a friend (he asked me several months ago) because he shamed me into saying yes. how should i tell him that i don't want to go with him if he keeps being so clingy to me?
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I liked one of my best friends and when I told her she said, oh well I only like you as a friend. I mean I dont want to be rude but I cant see us ever being more then friends.
Yeah i was kinda sad at first but I told myself hey being friends with her is better then nothing. So myabe you just need to step out on a limb and tell him how you feel.
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You were right to tell him that you were not interested right away, because if you have waited he would probably think there was a chance! I'm sorry but I don't think it is a great idea for one of your friends to talk to him, you have to talk to him again! You have to clear the air and make sure you tell him you only like him as a friend, nothing more. Tell him you really enjoy his friendship, but he has to stop being clingy all the time. Also try to tell him you would really like to go the dance with him, but only as friends( and to stop being clingy).All the Luck!
P.S. remember to tell him you still want to be friends and that you value his friendship (in other words try to let him down firm, but easy)
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hey, first off i wouldnt have your friends talk to him about it. i would have you talk to him about it. you dont have to do it in person. you can do it on the phone or comptuer or whatever. tell him that you like him as a friend, but his clingyness is annoying and just plain creepy! i wouldnt tell him that you dont want to go to that school thing with him because thats mean [ how would you feel if you asked a guy to go and then he changed his mind? ] and you dont know how your going to feel about him in febuary.
-caitt♥
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