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Well my friends always come to with there problems and so I give them some advice. They tell me it's good advice so I figured, "Hey why not try and give advice to more people." And BAMM here I am. I understand Im 15 and I think that has some pro's. Like
A)I understand what it's like to be a teen TODAY, not 10 years ago.
B)I have a different perspective of the world.
C)Im easier to talk to.

When I get older I want to be a Couples Counciler, so this is a great way to get practice...

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i am 15/f. one of my best friends is 14/m. he told me last year that he liked me. i don't like him and have never liked him. i told him that. i thought he would get over it during the summer. however, last week school started and he's being very clingy to me and i'm uncomfortable with this. when we're standing in line for something, he'll stand really close to me and when he talks to me he'll get really close to me. this is really creeping me out. most of the time, i'll find a way to get away or go talk to another friend, but i can't seem to get rid of him. and i like him as a friend, but he won't realize that i don't like him in that way. i already told my best girl friends how i feel and they said that they would talk to him about it. am i doing the right thing, and if he doesn't stop, what should i do? i want to keep being friends with him. also, there is a big banquet in february every year for band students, and he asked me to it this year. i said yes as a friend (he asked me several months ago) because he shamed me into saying yes. how should i tell him that i don't want to go with him if he keeps being so clingy to me?

I liked one of my best friends and when I told her she said, oh well I only like you as a friend. I mean I dont want to be rude but I cant see us ever being more then friends.
Yeah i was kinda sad at first but I told myself hey being friends with her is better then nothing. So myabe you just need to step out on a limb and tell him how you feel.

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my name is rachel and iam a 17 female and iam dating this boy named jesse and for some reason iam afraid to call him I think it's becouse i'll say something stupid or something like that and when I called him today I got off the phone really quickly because his twin brother answered the phone and when I asked is jesse there he said jesse it's your girlfriend rachel and I think that made me even more nervouse than I already was.I don't have any classes with him either and we don't even have the same lunch at school becouse he got his schedule changed so now we don't have the same lunch anymore so the only time I get to see him during school is at breakfast.This is the 3rd time i've dated jesse and iam afraid to tell my mom iam dating him for the 3rd time becouse she dosn't belive in 3 chances and I do what should i do?

Theres no reason to be nervous. Obviously he likes you for who you are. Or else he wouldnt date you. :P

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every time i say to myself.."ok im gonna go home after school and do my homework", but as soon as i get home..i never do it..till maybe @ the last moment..i have no concentraton..what should i do?

I had this same problem. So my solution was I put a paper on my door that said HOMEWORK!! Then I had a schedule set up. I had 10 from the time I got home to get relaxed. Like taking a drink of water, use the bathroom etc etc..Then after awhile I took that note off my door because I had the routine set up. So im basically saying set up a routine and do it everyday. Even if you have to put reminders around the house. Then after awhile it will be normal.

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16/F, Recently, the guy that I liked told me that he felt the same way. I guess I was too excited so I told one of my friends. First, she goes up to him and all of his friends asking oh, so you like her? Then his friends start making up all of these jokes about me and they start making fun of me. But, the good thing is that he stood up for me and told them to shut up. she starts telling everyone at school and now everyone knows. So now his friends make sure that he doesn't talk to me at school. In the hallways, I notice that the guy always waits at a certain area right after my fourth period class and he just stares at me without saying anything. Recently, he told my best friend Ashley that he isn't mad at me but he is just disapointed in me. he also told her that wants to talk me on aim. I'm scared of what I have to say to him and I know that he'll mention it. What should I do?

Just tell the truth. Tell him you were happy the he liked you. If anything he should be happy that you like him enough to brag to all of your friends.

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okay my boyfriend of a month told me he loved me the day we started going out and we've known each other for like a while but like not that long and i don't know we fight constantly but he always comes up to me and says sorry and everything and i don't know what to do. Okay the other day we we're at this festival thingy and we got bored so we meet up with a couple of my friends. Sarah, jacob, and ashley. I said fuck you to him and he was like is that an offer or a promise and i wouldn't tell him so he was like then forget all the offers and promises that i said and i was like okay cause i know he didn't mean it and stuff and then he was like if you don't care then forget that we ever went out and i got really upset cause like i care for him like a lot and he didn't even like care that he hurt me and i was like you know wat fuck you and that's like not a promise or an offer we fought for 4 hours and during that time my friend jacob was like trying to help us and we were talking for like 20 minutes just me and him and stuff and my boyfriend got all pissed off and pulled a knife out on jacob and now i'm like scared of him i know he knows i got a knife pulled on me but once a gain he doesn't seem to care or trust me enough to hang out or talk to one of my friends that is a guy so whatever.

Well it seems like the problem in your relationship is communincation. You need to talk to your boyfriend about your feelings. Another thing that would help is you controlling your temper. I understand he can make you mad and what not, but you need to be incharge of the situation.

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