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Hey ppl my name is Courtney and i am a very outgoing person I love to give advice and i am the advice columnest in my High School so i know what i am saying :) But.. anyway feel free to ask me ANY questions i just LOVE LOVE LOVE to answer them.... especially if they are asked TO me... Anyway.. Thanks for visiting my page MUCH LUV LUV,
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my pregnant sister is trying to find a unique [maybe exotic] MIDDLE name for her baby girl, so far its between Cache[accent over the e] and chenelle....
the babys name will be Alexis [middle name] Smigelski
does anyone have any suggestions for a middle name?? and please dont say anything like nicole or ashley, NO common stuff
haha sry if im sounding mean but i just would like any suggestions that sound good, you can see our taste in names [chenelle, cache] if that helps so ya thanks, ill rate anyone who at least trys lol
~ xsharpiexlovex
shanaya?
i think that sounds good lol
i can't really think
&hearts Courtney
ok.. i have an 8 year old sister & she is very developed 4 her age. if u know wht i mean.. and she has a boyfriend who is 14.. which is not so unusual cuz she always dates older guys.. well.. my parents dont know about this boyfriend of hers.. so it is even worse.. she makes out with him all the time.. adn i dont have a problem with that.. but last week she decided to have sex.. and now shes preganat! what do i do???
Uh.... that is like IMPOSSIBLE for a 8 year old to be PREGNANT!!! she would have had her period...well, you did say she was developed so... Okay but i think that it's kind of wrong that number 1. she has a boyfriend and 2. he is 14!!! about her being pregnant.... that is wrong, think of adoption because a baby can't take care of a baby.
Ok, so i moved from California to Ohio this summer, mid July, and i didnt really meet anyone during the summer because there wernt really any oppotunities. So i thought ok i will make friends when school starts, well i started wednesday. No one has even attempted to talk to me there, not even say hi. So when lunch comes around i sit at an empty table and eat by myself. I feel like such a loner. At my old school i had soooo many friends. What am i doing wrong? People tell be just be friendly, well of course im friendly but whenever i try to talk to people i feel out of place, like they are thinking, "Who is this weird new girl?" Im tired of not having anyone to talk to or hang out with, Ive cried all my tears and I just want to know, Is Something Wrong With Me!? Thanks for reading.
Believe me when i say I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL!!! i just started high school the other day and felt like a LOSER sitting by myself,but then i finnaly thought WHAT AM I DOING!?!? so i went up to a table asked if i could sit and they said YES i was very happy i wasn not aloneand after that PRONTO i had friends!! you just can't sit there you have to talk to other people :) i am SURE you will make friends
Ps. look to see if any other people are sitting by themselves, go over to them and sit You will be happy ur sitting with someone and THEY will be happy they are sitting with someone
Hope i helped
&hearts Courtney
what is the best program for downloading music?
i use bearshare, and it is good.... it has not messed up my ipod or computer and i have been using it for awhile soo..... that's what i suggest
next year im going to high school. the seniors initiate all of the freshmen. has anyone been initiated before? what did they do to you? please help. im scared to go to high school.
I was freshman least year... i thought i was going to get thrown rocks at :] but... i didn't mostly seniors don't care about freshman, the freshman watse their time, they are to busy worring about college and classes etc. to be mean to you(unless you have the people who don't care) even them, they just don't care about freshman......IT IS ALL IN YOUR HEAD!!!! but......you probably will get picked on if you are totally obnoxious upperclassman DO NOT like that at all. just be cool and don't be in their path, you'll be fine
ps. not all the seniors are like that
most of them are OKAY! :]
have fun in high school
(it goes by fast)
hope i helped
&hearts Courtney
There is this dance and I am going to go with this guy, the dance is in 2 days, and I said yes to him yesterday, today he gave me a hug, do you think he thinks we are going out?? Also, he is a wigger and that is not my type, and he is on my nerves...WHAT TO DO!!?!?!?!
Hey
I don't think he does, i think the hug was just a friendly thank-you but if he does, just tell him " You are a wonderful guy but you are not my type other girls would LOVE you though"
Hope i helpes
P.S what is a wigger???? lolz
Okay, I know that just about everyone on this site (or atleast the girls) has at one point thought about what to name their kids one day, so I need your help. I need boy & girl name suggestions middle names would be helpful too. Thankyou guyss I appreciate it.
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For the past 2 years I have gotten really close with this guy who is A LOT older than me. He's 36 and Im 14/f But latley we've gotten really close. Like were dating? I don't know. its not like he's a pervert or anything. But I've i guess fallen in love with me. We're both musicians and we share an amazing passion together. I can stop it whenever I want to , but i can't. I guess you can't help who you fall in love with. The thing is that no one knows about it and hes married! So im really confused. but if i tell my mom or anyone there goes my lessons with him and band and everything ive worked for. and i love him. what should i do and is this okay that were together?
Woah... that is not okay..
You might think he is a nice person but that is totally against laws. does he "love" you too? if so do you know what a pedaphile (sp) is??? he sounds like one... get to know boys your age not a man that could pose as your father!!!! (sorry if i am being harsh i am just trying to speak my mind and keep you from danger) i think you should tell someone, maybe a guidance counseler at school or someone if he is pressuring you into anything. he is married he is 22 years older!!!!! i don't think you should get your hopes up like i said before he is older much older and married.
sorry if i was harsh
take care message me with anything if you want
&hearts Courtney
This year im in video announcements for my school and I'm going to be the lead anchor. and I was wondering if anyone had some good tips on how not to screw up and how to make my voice sound better. I hear opening your mouth wide helps. any answer will be considored. Thanks
Just try not to be nervous!! :] in my school we had Orals ( you had to memorize a poem and say it infront of the whole class and get a grade for it)school- st.anthony's) but anyway you could just imagine how nertvous i was...so just be yourself don't be nervous and just practice your speaking :]
everytime i masturbate [which isn't often], I feel so much shame.
I'm 14 and I just feel like masturbation is wrong - yet I can't help it when I have hormones. What should I do? Should I keep masturbating and keep it a secret from my mom, or just stop because I feel ashamed?
it is soooo not wrong, you should not be ashamed it is natural, alot of people have urges for them. Ohhh yea and i wouldn't tell ur mumm i don't think she would want to know that her daughter is doing that, not that it is wrong :]
have fun lolz :]
What are the best condoms out there?
Ones that feel like you have nothing on?
Thanx
i heard that Trojan is really good :]
14/f
Okay so me and my boyfriend started having sex a couple weeks ago .. ik im probably going to get some smart ass remakrs saying im too young, or imma slut. so just save it please. But i Really love him so its worth it. But anyways the first time we did the condom broke, and then a couple times after he didnt use a condom .. Im worried i might be pregnant. tomorrow hes taking me to the clinic so i can get a pregnancy test cuz he doesnt trust the store bought ones.. Hes turning 17 on Sept. 11th and idunno what i would do if i was. I really love him and he loves me.. but im only 14. abortion is NOT an option.. idunno im really stressed out right now .. Im on 3 cheerleading teams and i would have to quit alla them.. GRR
sry this is so long.
I know how it feels to luv someone that much... i will not say anything like you are too young or anything even though you might have been but..... it has been done and that's it.... anyway if there has been signs, like getting periods late, that might meen something, or if you throw-up daily (not all people do) so.. just get the test and see what happens i no you used protection and good for you :] and it is terrific to know that abortion is not the answer.... so if you have been not expeirencing symtoms you are probably not pregnant but get it is good you are getting tested anyway
I hope the results are to your likeing
hope i helped
&hearts Courtney
Ok so I JUST turned 13 and I want to wear makeup. But I was wondering how can I put on makeup so it actually looks pretty, not slutty or trashy lol? I want to wear makeup for back to school. What kind of makeup should I wear and how should I wear it? I have light brown medium length hair with highlights in it from going in the sun, I have gray-ish blue eyes, and pale skin. Please tell me good makeup ideas!
Hmm... i think a light blue eyeshadow or any other light color would look good and maybe a little lip gloss and blush or something you will look pretty :] not slutty
uhmm, what the heck? okay so my crush recently asked me if i liked carrotcake or not, and i was like "uhh, what kinda question is that, you're so random!" and he was like "no i think you can really learn alot about a person by asking that question!" SO WHAT THE HECK? is it like a trick question? is there a special answer guys expect when they ask this to a girl? or is my guy just a weirdo? (haha) so im just thinking.. instead of answering the question, i'd like to make a joke out of it, or just randomly move away from the subject instead of having to answer that question were i might get the "wrong" answer.. you know? maybe its something he's made up in his mind, like "if the girl says YES, she's the one for me, if no.,. shes not" or vice versa..
so i dont wanna ruin mu chances here (haha i know its dorky) but seriously.. can you make a joke out of this? or should i just be like "hahha, you're so random!" and not even answer.. or can i make a joke of something else he wrote in that email and not bother replying to that part at all? maybe i can comment on the fact that he's trying to get to know me.. through carrotcake. haha, he's so weird!! but seriously, what do you guys think??
Hmm... I don't think your answer will affect his liking of you :] it is probably just a joke kind of thing, just like i had someone do that to me but he asked "Do you like tootsie rolls" discusting i know, but he's another story....lolz but yea... i think it is just a joke, or you could make a joke out of it..... IDK maybe you could reply and ask him "Do you like chicken?" Lolz :] Wellll good luck with that ;)
Me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex soon. Neither of us have ever done it before, so we have no idea what you are supposed to do without getting hurt. I am 13 and he is 14, do you think that it to early, even with protection?? Any advice would help.
Like i told another couple you are WAYYYY to young to be starting this, you could still love each other without sex y'know. i really think you will regret this if you do it, pl think about this
hope i helped
i just found mary is cutting again after she promised her bf and i that she wouldnt do that anymore i think she is cutting because of me my family is screwed up right now and i just moved away and she really misses me we talk like once a day but we barely ever get to see eachother cuz i live and hour or so away should i tell her bf?i dont think she is doing to deep tho also if you tell me to tell her pearents it is a wate of time because it is not serious enough at this point
IT is always serious if she is even doing it at all, even if she is cutting just a little it is still serious you have to tell someone, for her safety
hey...well my problem is that i dont know whether i should break up with my boyfriend. we've been dating for a year now and i do love him..but the thing is that we're only in high school and i think i'll regret it if i dont go to dances and stuff with just my friends and not have to worry about a guy. but hes so sweet and we're perfect for each other. idk wut to do!!!
DON'T DO IT if you love him don't break up with him.......... a lot of married couples met in high school, so it's not like you are doing to it too soon ESPECIALLY if you are a junior or senior, even if you are younger if you really luv him don't break up with him unless you have another boy on your mind
ok, me and my girlfriend have decided we want to have sex, the only probleam is i am not sure how i am going to get my hands on a condom, i am 13, and don't give me stuff saying im too young or anything cause we have made up are mind, im just not sure how i can get my hand on some condoms. can i just buy them? what? and also what kind should i get?
You are WAYYYYY to young seriously really think abou t this again before you do this
Might be stupid, but I need help.
I'm 14 years old, going into 8th grade and there's this really cute boy.
I've told my mom, because it kinda slipped out...somethimg like that.
First of all, I thought this guy likes me because he once talked to me and more things in the past when I didn't notice him even!
Now I do, and I majorly like him. He's the perfect guy. I call him, and he's annoyed...is this a sign he doesn't really like me? Should I just forget it and find someone else?
-Any info helps...thanks
NEVER give up hope gurl, stick to your intuition i meen unless he REALLY starts to be buggin lolz but maybe the fact that he iz annyoyed iz nuttin really bad he might have just had a baddddd day but on the serious note... don't give up if you reallllly like him try to make it work try until all hope is lost.... which i know hey will like you bcuz you seem very nice i hope i helped feel free 2 message me wif any otha questions :)
well school is comming around soon and ive been wanting to look more mature because i finally got my hair cut and i can wear it down and i look more mature but id like to wear makeup like a teen and not a 5 year old haha. well i have brown eyes and brown hair and beige/olive skin (my background is mexican/spainish)..any advice on colors or how to apply some things?? im pretty good with most i just am kinda bad with doing eyeliner on my top eye-lid and i dont know what colors would be good for mee. thanks!
Heyy, i know wat u meen. I think just a little make-up would be good nothing outrageuos y'know like a little lip gloss and bronzer or blush and a little eyeshadow ( like a dark color green or blu) just the little things... nofing like gold sparkly eye shadow or nuttin lolz Well i hope i helped feel free to message me wif any otha questions :)