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my sis is in trouble
ok.. i have an 8 year old sister & she is very developed 4 her age. if u know wht i mean.. and she has a boyfriend who is 14.. which is not so unusual cuz she always dates older guys.. well.. my parents dont know about this boyfriend of hers.. so it is even worse.. she makes out with him all the time.. adn i dont have a problem with that.. but last week she decided to have sex.. and now shes preganat! what do i do???
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WHAAAAAAAAAAAT?!?!?!?Pregnant when shes EIGHT!?!ooooh if it was MY sister i woulda....haha.Shes 8 and pregnant and your ASKING if you should tell your parents?!?!?!WOW!Ofcourse you should tell your parents?Tell your sis to live her age and go play with barbies and pokemon because when we were 8 we knew about nothing but cartoons and candy.Are you actually not mad at her?Go tell your parents EVERYTHING and infront of her face,shes gotta start living her age.If you keep this from your parents,its going to ruin your sisters life because shes gonna give birth when she isnt even close to being a pre teen.She can be all jumping on the trampoline and it ends up with her having a misscarriage.And please,take more care of your sister because God will judge you guys about her,you should have told her whats right and wrong.Go to the police and tell them that this guy raped your sister!!!It IS considered rape when its with a 8 year old!Omg....You shoulda stopped your sister in the first place when you found out that she had a boyfreind six years older than her when shes only a baby.Tell me what you do after,good luck.Wait and what do you mean all the guys shes ever dated were older,shes dated before and you let it pass???What kinda sister are you?!?!
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If she is pregnant or not tell your parents. If she is making out with a 14 year old tell your parents. If she even has a 14 year old boyfriend tell your parents. If she is just telling you these things and you have no proof of any of it tell your parents. If she is telling you these things and she could even be lying tell your parents. All of what you said is not normal for an 8 year old to go through. It almost sounds like your sister needs some sort of therapy, or you do. To be honest with you I don't actually believe you and if I'm wrong understand where I am coming from because this is a very outlandish story. If I'm wrong, sorry and your sister needs help from adults. Neither of you would be able to handle this alone.
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Well if you are 18 then you can go and get an abortion for her yourself but if you are 18 i dont know why you would be even asking this in the first place. so i am guessing your not. well that is illigil first off, and second talk to her about it, then when she is ready she can tell your parents herself, you dont really have to do anything.
ew when i was 8 i didnt even know what sex was. Thats sick.
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tell ur parents!
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An 8 year old with a 14 year old boyfriend, making out, and having sex? Wow.
Well, I highly doubt that she is pregnant because in order to be, she would have needed to gotten her period. And girls don't get their periods until they're around 12-14ish. So firstly, I would be completely positive that she is pregnant. Have you tried a prengnancy test? I would buy a couple and see what they all say, just to make sure.
Now, if she IS, then she needs to decide wether she wants to keep it, get an abortion, or put it up for adoption. I would highly reccommend putting it up for adoption. I mean, there IS always abortion, but I'd rather think of saving a life then killing it and it's not like you'd have to take care of the baby at all, that's the other families job. Keeping it I'd find impossible to do. I mean, it's hard enough for teen mothers to raise a baby while going to school and everything, how is a girl in the third grade going to do it?
Once you're both 100% she's pregnant, I would tell the parents, and ask them what she should do. And also, I'm sure whenever they see their 8 year-old-daughter with a fat stomach, they're not going to exactly not notice. And she should also tell them that she has a 14 year-old boyfriend.
But I think you and your parents and your sister should all dicuss and think out the options. Don't be so quick to go to abortion because remember ; this is a little baby we're talking about here who hasn't even experienced life yet. But talk it out. And then I agree with the one advicenator. Her and her boyfriend really need to go to counseling because this really IS a life-changing event, and they need guidance.
Best of luck, I hope I helped.
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How could an 8year old be Very developed? I highly doubt that she is even a cup size "maybee" she in a training bra but i highly doubt shes "developed." Why is she dating a 14 year old? When a 14 year old dates a 8 year old you should notices there is something wrong with that picture right away. A 14 year old is usually a frehsman in high school and a 8 year old is in the 4th grade. He is really stupid or you are making up this story. About your sister being pregnant. She would of had to start her period and its really rare for a 8 year old to start her period.
How did you find out she was pregnant? Di she take a pregnancy test? I hihgly doubt you went out and bought one because you sound reallly young yourself. Maybe even under 13.
If this story is true talk to your parents about her and her boyfriend and how she is pregnant.
hope this helps
kim:)
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That is very rare for an 8 year old to be THAT devoloped.
Are you 100% sure she is pregnant? Buy a home pregnancy test, OR go with her to the doctors to get a more reliable test done.
She needs to know her options: Keeping it, abortion or adoption.
I dont know what she wants, but I think keeping it would be a mistake because she is only 8, and trying to raise a baby when your even 16,17,18 years old can be hard, never mind when your 8.. I couldn't even imagine what she would go through.
So I highly recommend either adoption or abortion.
Some people say abortion is wrong but I personally think without it, alot of girls' lifes would be ruined.
Good luck with it all.
Be there for her and support her.
She and her boyfriend will probably need counciling too, this is a very life changing event.
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Uh.... that is like IMPOSSIBLE for a 8 year old to be PREGNANT!!! she would have had her period...well, you did say she was developed so... Okay but i think that it's kind of wrong that number 1. she has a boyfriend and 2. he is 14!!! about her being pregnant.... that is wrong, think of adoption because a baby can't take care of a baby.
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