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I'll start off by saying my names Sam. I live in southern New Hampshire, it's not that bad, haha. Im 15 years old & im going to be a sophomore in the fall. That's a picture of me and my amazing boyfriend Jesse. He's showed me true love like i never thought I could imagine!I'll answer any type of question. I've never done anything like this before, but I think it would be good for me to give it a shot. If you need opinions about anything, I'll help you out but don't get offended if I may offend you or anything. Understand that I'm just being honest. I'm easy to talk to and I love talking to people so if you talk to me, please don't annoy me. I love helping people out so leave anything in my inbox. :]
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Well, in all honestly I would say that I think I'm a nice girl. :] Im a pretty genuwine person-im not about being fake. I know who I am and no one can tell me different. I hate stupid girls. You know, the ones that are all like omg omg omg.. Yeah shut up. I can also be judgemental, so if I think something bad of you, prove me wrong. I love origional people. I don't like when everyone dresses the same. I hate drama & the people that come with it. I'm all about simplicity. If your the type of person who's all about complicating things, & making more out of the situation, I wont like you. Sometimes I can be really open with people, other times I just keep to myself. There's times when I can be too honest & I don't think before I speak. The truth is I dont care who you are. If I have something to say I'll let you know. I'm not very meterialistic. I wear whatever I feel like it and I love it. I can be immature, a lot & I don't mind that about myself. To me lifes all about being spontanious & crazy, & just doing whatever to have a good time. I like having a lot of different friends. I think cliques are really dumb. I have too much in common with people, yet I'm still different. I have a strong believe in respect. I respect myself as well as everyone else. I don't lie unless i truely think it's best. I keep my promises & secrets, no matter what.
I don't have a "label". People will judge other people, I'll admit that I do. Call me a bitch, whore, ugly-whatever you like, it won't bother me. Don't act like you know me & be all buddy-buddy with me because you want something from me. I have a lot of confidence in myself so don't bother with trying to lower my self-esteem. Im not shy, nor scared to say what's on my mind. With that being said, I love meeting new people and making new friends.
I get inspiration from music. My mood can totally change just from the song I'm listening to. Odd, I know. I like lyrical songs with deep meaning, but I also like songs that come easy to me.
I actually have expieriance with death. My dad died when i was 11, due to lung cancer. I'm still dealing with grief, but it's actually really not a touchy subject for me. Go ahead & ask me anything. Im all ears!
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I need some hair tips i have really thick fizzy hair i mean really bad i cant even where it down my hair is always in a ponytail someone please give me some tips as how to leave my hair down and make it look good
try using sunsilk shampoo & conditioner- Silky Straight, you can buy them at walmart and together they'll probably be around $12.00
shampoo your hair once and condition it twice every shower
blow dry it on the cold setting because it will dry it without causing it to friz and it will also lock in the shine
finally go over your dried hair with a hair straightener, mine was $17.00 at walmart and its a revlon ceramic plated straightener and it works awesome!
good luck!
I'm 14/f and I'm a freshmen at my school. I have this one class with a guy name-let's call him- Bob. Well, Bob is a senior I believe and I think he likes me but I'm not sure. I don't sit anywhere near him because we have assigned seats and so we can't really talk in class. But when we went on a little "field trip" with the class, or we had a little spare time in class, we talked just a little. I catch him staring at me from across the room at times, he lends me his jacket when I'm cold, and offers me rides home. The thing is our class is VERY social and open. The teacher herself is like the gossip center. She gets involved in everyone's buissiness and makes annoying and rude commentries at times. Also, I'm the kind of girl that's really outgoing in class but her life is sorta private and she doesn't like to be awed at or what not when I'm going out with someone. So if Bob asks me out (not saying that he will) do you think it's a good idea to say yes? (Considering that he's a senior and I'm a freshmen and the privacy I like)
Thank you soo much in advance =D
heyyy go for it[:
you can like whoever you want and he sounds adorableee haha
haha you deffinetly cant expect privacy in highschool! you'll learn that soon!
I am 178cm tall and I weigh 66kg. I don't look fat at all, but I don't have an obvious jawline. Is there any ways I could do to have a sharp jawline like celebrities?
Im not familiar with those measurments haha buuut if your looking to define your jawline and cheekbones try using makeup.. really by adding blush to your face a large brush it will define your cheeks alot.
samx
I have dyed dark brown hair thats a little past my shoulders and is super thick. (which i hate)
What are some websites that have just pictures of really punk/scene/emo hairstyles? You know edgy stuff. I don't really wanna change my hair that much since its so damaged from bleach and other crap. But I can flex on the legnth.
Thanks!
Try your hardest to go for originality.. don't copy pictures off the internet of scene kids or anyone else like that. Do your own thing, that will make it really cool and totally you!
Ok I love desperate houswives and im addicted. I am recently in the mid east and i dont get abc or anything like that. But then i remembered that I could watch the whole episode online on abc.com but then when i went to go watch the season premere it said it was only available to viwers in the usa so now im hecka bummed! Does anyone know where I can download full lenghth episodes everyweek. And dont say limewirer cause my limewirer sucks and doesnt work. Well thanks in advance.
Get a penpal from the US and ask them to tape episodes weekly and send them to you[:
i loveee that show too!
samx
I am 13. I have had sex. I am scared to go to the doctor to get birth control pills because i am afraid he'll tell my mom and he'll look at me and be like you only 13... and/or how do i get there.. haha i dont know just some advice will hepl. :]
kthanks
the best form of birth controll is abstinance.
samx
ok so i got my self in a siruation where...i just cheated on my boyfriend...and before that night i was a virgin and now im not. and like. i dont know what i shoudl do. I didnt really want to have sex with the guy...but i was in a situation where i had to be sorta quite and i was saying no...but i dont think he heard me or maybe he just didnt care. but like. he didnt use protection and im not on birth control. and im pretty sure he pulled out before...but like. i just dont know what to do and im freaking out.
solution; dont have sex.
as for your boyfriend, tell him.
samx
ok. so homecoming is coming up. and my dress is teal. and up to my knees and a halter top. i just dont know what color of make up i should wear. i dont think teal would be good...tahts just to much and will most likely look terrible. so i guess im just asking for some ideas. im kinda tan. kind of olive-ish colored skin. brown eyes.
thankkkss
I would deffinetly stay away from teal makeup, go for a more natural look. Esepcially with your skin tone. I have a great eye shadow colour pallet i bought at the body shop for $18 with colors ranging from dark brown to gold to a like tan. You can pick up something like that at cvs also, they work great!
samx
13/f/8th grade. ive been trying to convince my mom to let me have a computer in my room, and she says shell consider it, but shes still a little reluctant. what do i do to convince her?
Assure her that are responsible and you deserve one. If she wants to drop by and check in everyonce in a while tell her to feel free. If she is reluctant at first give it a rest. Try your hardest to make a big accomplishment wether its a semester of good grades or a new trophy, and the ask her again!
samx
i want to know how to become a better kisser. i am 13/m and everytime i make out wiht someone they tell me i am not good at it. what can i do?
Hm this is easy..
save it for highschool
samx
Alright. Well, I sit with my one friend at lunch and basically only know a couple of people at his table. My problem is is that there is guy that sits there too, and he's really nice, but the problem is is that he is really quiet. I try to talk to him, and he kind of talks to me but I really have no idea what to do. I've never had a boyfriend or anything like that, unlike ALL of my friends and I have no ideas what to do. Please help.
Try your hardest to get to know him. He just sounds shy is all. Break the ice! Ask him about his family and his house, what hes interested in.. that kindof stuff. For instance some good conversation starters could be;
"heyy, did you see that new movie ___?"
"i really dont know how to do this problem, do you think you could help?"
"so yeah theres this concert coming up.."
"what kindof music do you like to listen to?"
"heyy, what teacher do you have for ___ class?"
have confidence girly! change the fact that youve never had a boyfriend before! be yourself and im sure you'll impress him! good luck![:
samx!
Stupid question, but...I'm 14, and my bf is 18. I was wondering if he could get in trouble for the age difference or anything. If so, what would happen? Do you think we should stay together?
It really depends on the state you live in. Im from new hampshire and i know that if the girl was 15 and the boy was 17 or vice versa you would need parential consent to go out. You need to be atleast 16 to date someone older than 16- if that makes sense. Im n ot sure how bad the consiquences could be.. it would probably just result in your parents being really pissed.. at worst a restraining order.
samx
so i thought i loved this one kid. but i know now i dont. and then i started liking this other guy but no i never did. he's sort of a jerk but then i met this guy and he's amazing but
he's gay =[
what should i do. i know i obviously wont have a chance with him but ugh. thanks for any advice
It sounds like you like a lot of kids? Just try to be good friends with him.. or maybe make him reconsider being straight?
samx
What's a good straightener that doesn't cost like, $100. I had the wet to straight one, but I got it last Christmas and it doesn't work as good so I need a new one.. should I just stick to getting another one of those or and recommendations? & price ranges would be great too. thankss :]
OMG straightener to die for
Revlon, um sold at target.. its white and its amazinggg! Either way revlons a really great brand for hair maintnence supplys!
samx
my neighbors gave me an offer and they said they would pay me $5 a week if i walked their dog every day. i've been doing it for 3 weeks and they havent gave me any money. i keep bringing it up in a hinting way like "do you want me to walk your dog around noon or later on?" and they will just say"whenever you want ." my family and their family is really close since we live next door and im basically a second family to them and i dont want to be rude and be like okay wheres the money but hinting is not helping either. i want to bring up the money subject but i dont want to seem pushy or desperate or rude so what do i say?? they owe me $15 so far and i really would like the money. =/
Hm this does sound like a tough situation. If i was you i would tell my parents. You already said your families are close so maybe you could ask your mom to say something to your neighbors for you. It deffinetly sounds like your getting shafted! If it continues that you are doing labor maybe you should fit it out of your shedule.. im sure you have more important things to do.
samx
13/f/8th grade. i have a school uniform, and id like to spice it up a little bit. heres my uniform restrictions:
shirt: polo shirts (red, white, blue, black, grey, green, mahogany)
pants: khaki colored or dark blue
shorts: khaki colored
skirt:khaki colored
i usually wear shorts or pants, but any advice is good. i dont want to look like every other kid in my school. help me be different!
PS: advice on shoes and jackets would be nice too.
I know that although my school doesnt have uniforms all of the trends are starting to become alike. Its really annoying.. it makes me wonder where the term 'originality' went!
Sproucing your uniform would deffinetly be really cool. Try layering your polos, wearing funky jewlery like bangles or or long necklaces, or even try adding lace around the bottom of your shirts.
Another thing that can make you stand out is try doing something new with your hair. Tease it. Make it huge. add highlights or make it choppy. Also adding ribbins bows or thick headbands is always really cute!
Good luck!
samx
So I love my boyfriend very much but sometimes he's just always there. Latched on to me like a leech. Don't get me wrong.. I do love it that he pays attention to me soo much, but I do want to have some space sometime. But he seems to always be there all the time trying to pull me so close that our skin could be melted together. Please help me. I don't know how to tell him that I want space, without hurting his feelings.Btw we've been going out for almost 11 months.
I really think you should confront him and let him know that you feel its really important that you get some "me-time." Also recomend that he spends time with his friends as well as his family!
Samx
I know that if you don't eat, it actually makes your body gain weight, or so everyone says. But honestly, if you ate nothing, or say 1 apple every day for 2 weeks..would you lose or gain weight? I've always been curious about this. Thank you.
Well, I've been told that when you stop eating your body thinks that it's going into starvation mode, which is true for this instance. So, it stores fat for your stomach to eat. Eventually though that stored fat will be eaten away & you will become skinnier. In all honesty though, you will have to start eating again, & when you do your metabolism will be soo slow it wont be able to burn off the new calories your consuming & you'll put the weight right back on. I would recomend dieting or exersize.