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sex vs relationship
ok so i got my self in a siruation where...i just cheated on my boyfriend...and before that night i was a virgin and now im not. and like. i dont know what i shoudl do. I didnt really want to have sex with the guy...but i was in a situation where i had to be sorta quite and i was saying no...but i dont think he heard me or maybe he just didnt care. but like. he didnt use protection and im not on birth control. and im pretty sure he pulled out before...but like. i just dont know what to do and im freaking out.
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You really need to talk to yo man about it girl.
forreal.
you can't be doin that to y`r man.
he pretty much diserves much better than that.
he diserves the trust in his girlfriend.
you need to talk to him about it,
and if he really love/likes you,
he will forgive you.
but then on the other hand,
it does fuckin sound like you got raped.
did you?
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awe.tell him you were raped.
because it sounds to me like it.
if you say no and dont want to heck even if you say no and do want to its rape.
you have to agree to it.
trust me ive been thru the same situation.
i would tell him you were raped.
before the word gets out and comes back to him and he will think you wanted to because he will here what people are saying.
so tell him.
maybe cry a little
but yeah.
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solution; dont have sex.
as for your boyfriend, tell him.
samx
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Talk to your boyfriend about it, if you don't it'll come out later on, and you will lose him. Get a pregnancy test, even if he pulled out, there's still a high chance your pregnant.
Tell someone about the other guy, because if you said no, he was wrong. Hope it all works out. xx
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Since you said no and he kept going, that is called rape. You didn't want to have sex with him and he did this against your decision. So in other words, you were raped. I wouldn't consider this cheating. I mean you didn't want to do it, so you didn't cheat on your boyfriend. I suggest telling your boyfriend about this, though. (If you didn't already.) He has to know. Actually, he needs to know. He is your boyfriend, so he has the right. Just explain to him everything that happened. Of course he is going to freak out a bit. But I'm sure he'll help you through this and will be by your side. I suggest going to the doctor, too. Just to get checked out. Better to be on the safe side.
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Sweety first of all get an pregnancy testASAP. and if you said no i am pretty sure he heard you.Thats rape no matter how you put it.you should talk to someone. Someone you trust and maybe you can talk to your boyfriend and yall could proably come to an conclusion together and if he doestn't understand what happened to you.then you need to leave him alone also.
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Just try to think for the best, but like the other person said if you say no, then it`s rape. Tell your boyfriend, I think he will understand, and get a pregnancy test just to be sure.
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I dont think it's cheating.
It sounds like RAPE.
You didnt want to
and You said NO.
Tell your boyfriend that.
Go out and buy a pregnancy test.
You should also go to a doctor to get checked out.
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It does not matter if he pulled out or not, you could still be pregnant.
You could also have an STD, just so you know.
If I were you I would buy a pregnancy test ,and follow the directions on the box to figure out if you are pregnant or not...
Then see a doctor and get checked to make sure you dont hve any STD's...
Then you shoud tell your boyfriend!
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