I'm 14/f and I'm a freshmen at my school. I have this one class with a guy name-let's call him- Bob. Well, Bob is a senior I believe and I think he likes me but I'm not sure. I don't sit anywhere near him because we have assigned seats and so we can't really talk in class. But when we went on a little "field trip" with the class, or we had a little spare time in class, we talked just a little. I catch him staring at me from across the room at times, he lends me his jacket when I'm cold, and offers me rides home. The thing is our class is VERY social and open. The teacher herself is like the gossip center. She gets involved in everyone's buissiness and makes annoying and rude commentries at times. Also, I'm the kind of girl that's really outgoing in class but her life is sorta private and she doesn't like to be awed at or what not when I'm going out with someone. So if Bob asks me out (not saying that he will) do you think it's a good idea to say yes? (Considering that he's a senior and I'm a freshmen and the privacy I like)
queenhearts answered Friday October 6 2006, 11:00 pm: Honesty?
I'm not sure if you would want to go out with him.
Sure, he seems sweet and nice and all.
but how long would it last? Because soon, he will be off to college.. and usually.. things don't work out..
Do you really know him? You really have to get to know him though.. Maybe you're getting ahead of yourself and you think he likes you. Some guys are really nice though and want nothing more than a friend.
I would just wait it out.
It's your own decision what to do..
But usually when a senior goes out with a freshmen.. it spreads around and ugly rumors get pasted on ("He's only wants sex" thing)
I mean.. if you're ready for that then go for it. [ queenhearts's advice column | Ask queenhearts A Question ]
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