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my name is rachel and iam a 17 female and iam dating this boy named jesse and for some reason iam afraid to call him I think it's becouse i'll say something stupid or something like that and when I called him today I got off the phone really quickly because his twin brother answered the phone and when I asked is jesse there he said jesse it's your girlfriend rachel and I think that made me even more nervouse than I already was.I don't have any classes with him either and we don't even have the same lunch at school becouse he got his schedule changed so now we don't have the same lunch anymore so the only time I get to see him during school is at breakfast.This is the 3rd time i've dated jesse and iam afraid to tell my mom iam dating him for the 3rd time becouse she dosn't belive in 3 chances and I do what should i do?
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Theres no reason to be nervous. Obviously he likes you for who you are. Or else he wouldnt date you. :P
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Hey,
First of all, don't get your mother involved in this situation at all, because sometimes there are desicions that we should take and not our parents. And honestly i believe that as long as there is a chance, even if its the 2nd or 3rd or 4th up to million. Just as long as there is one, then we should take advantage of it, and use it.
Because usually chances come once in a life time,and when it comes several times, then we should get down on our knees and thank god for them, instead of not believing in them.
Now , guys like cool challenging hot and honest girls, and this is exactly what jesse wants too. And you can be that kind of girl, because deep inside you , you are already one, but only if you believe in yourself and have some confidence then you can be whatever person you wish to be. And so what if you only see him during breakfast at school, talk to him then and eat with him and stuff. and so what if you call him and his twin brother tells him ,that his girlfreinds on the phone. I mean... you ARE his girlfriend, so then whats wrong in admitting that? If only you try to stop this whole shy and scared thingy, jesse would love you even more and want to me with you and spend time with you, so call him and act as i told you to, and ask if he wants to hang out with you or catch a movie or something.
I don't have anything else to say for now, so consider what i said , and if you need any other help or advice, then please be free to contact me.Goodluck:)
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first off this is your relationship not your mothers. if you believe in 3erd chances then give him a 3erd chance. i don't know why the relationship did not last the 1st and 2nd chance but if you think the relationship with this guy named jesse is worth your time and effort i say go for it. if you are 17 then you should have a licinecne or a car or both and if he is the same age as you he should too, if you can't see eachother during school except breakfest then there is always time for after school where you can hang out with him. also i had the same sititation with my boyfriend where i did not get to see him at all except after school when the busses came but after awhile i get fed up and i started looken for ways to when i could see him in between classes and before school and it worked out and i am sure it will work out for you as well. just look at eachother's classes and if you have 2 floors then if you are on the same floor i am sure you can walk eachother to your classes. with being nervous, if you have not dated this guy very long you may get that way but it will pass after awhile, makes me wonder if you were friends first before you started dating. it's better if you are friends first because then you don't have to wonder, or be afraid to be yourself and only yourself because the guy already knows who the real you is and you already know him for who he is and you should be combfterbal around eachother.
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Why are you so nervous? If you are dating, you should feel completely comfortable with that person. Just be yourself, he obviously liked you enough to want to be with you. It's a great feeling to be able to have that person to talk to about anything and not feel stupid and other than your best friend, a boyfriend is a great to do that with.
What were the reasons for your first two break ups? If it's something of major concern, I can see why your mother would not want you dating him. Regardless, it is your life and as much as your mom may love you, she needs to let you make your own mistakes...it's the only way you'll learn anything. If you feel he is worth it, then you should go for it and get over whatever you are afraid of.
I would say though that anything after 3 chances, may be a little excessive. So if trial 3 is not working, it may be time to move on.
Good Luck, relationships are hard.
-Teacup
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