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trust
me and my boyfriend have been going out for six months now, and im always jealous because he has alot of girl friends, and i mean i think its not jealousy but its not trusting him, i have no reason why i dont trust him because he is faithful and i need advice on how to trust him and maybe be more sicure about what he does and not care as much. thanx
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trust is earned...make sure to tel lhim how you feel tell him you love him so much that you tend to get jealouse because you know otehr girls must realize hwo great he is and throw themelves at him. Thats what i do with my bf. You have to be always honest because if he doesnt know how you feel then he cant really help you with anything. If he knows your jealouse then he will be careful to make you feel more secure with the relationship.
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A relationship is based on trust, if you can't trust your mate then the relationship will most likely will fall apart. You don't trust someone right away they have to earn it, so I would talk to boyfriend telling him you feel a little uncomfortable being with all his girl friends. Make sure he understands that you don't want to break up his friendships, but for him to understand that you need to learn to trust him. If he cares for you he will totally understand, and try to make things better. But it is not just him who has to work in this relationship, it is you. You have to learn how to trust him and how to feel better about all his girl friends( remember he choose you not one of those girls).I wish you the best of luck!
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If he loves you alot you have to let yourself no he won`t leave you for another girl. It will take time for you to get over your jealousy. Trust is a very important thing in a relationship and you really have to trust him. Talk to him about it, and tell him you would like if he didn`t talk to as many girls or hang out with them. He should understand but if you hang out with alot of guys or hang out with them you might have to stop too. Good luck. ♥
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