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A Guy I Liked Messed Up My Life
im 13/female...im about to start eighth grade...and i really liked this guy (he was in my group of school friends) in the beggining of last year. and i ended up asking him out...and he turned me down. so from then on he was being an asshole and everything i would say at lunch, he would shoot down. and he was just being really mean. so all of last year, i was really depressed because all the time i got to spend with my friends was hell. im worried that the same thing will happen this school year. what should i do???
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Once you begin 8th grade, you will lose touch with some of your friends and start making new ones. So you might not even be around him anymore (keep your fingers cross) and if he keeps on bothering you, try to talk to him tell him you lost your mind when you asked him out!lol! Then just try to act like nothing happen, have fun with your friends, enjoy life, and you might want to act like nothing happen between you two! It was his lost and you will find a guy who would love to go out with you soon. Good Luck
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Iam sorry but I have to be honest here.
You're 13 years old and the only thing you should be depressed over is who got kicked off American Idol and not how some guy treats you. You're too young to feel real love and guys especially at 13 with their hormones really raging only want sex anyway. You're going to experience heartbreak a lot in your life and you're going to go through many boyfriends in your life before you finally settle down so you might as well not even worry about trying to get a boyfriend at this time and focus on having fun in your life. You have all the time in the world.
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Never let a guy get you depressed or let you down..I have learned my lesson from that.Act like he is nothing or like you never met him before if he says anything pretend you didn't hear it..and just let what ever he says or does go. Have fun with your friends.The more he knows your sad or mad the more he will want to piss you off so don't let him get to you. ♥
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stop talking to him. Just pretend he isn't there. Have funn with you friends, make new friends, that way you'll never be lonely.
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my advice towards you is dont let one boy put you down an mess up your last year of middle school if he shoot you down when you ask'd him thats ok there will always be somebody else out there that would love to go out wit you an dont worry about wat he say or do towards you cus he is just tryning to get your attention then sooner or later when you get a boyfriend he will get jealous an soon realize wat he could have had
~*~*~*MrS.cApPi~*~*~*
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NEVER let an asshole determine your life. Now that you are starting high school, you are going to lose contact with your middle school friends, so it doesn't mean that you and he will have the same social circle any longer. If you do, you should try making new friends you can hang out with during lunch and as for your old friends, find a good time to hang out with them sans jerk. Not only do you get to meet new people, you can also avoid having to be with him.
Hope this helps.
--Teacup
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