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Hey my name is Ashley and i am on herre because i love to give people advice.I love to help people with their problems if they don't have anyone to go to.I was born in Grady Memorial Hospital in Atlanta,Georgia.I orignally grew up in Fulton County on Bankhead Hwy then i moved to Dekalb County to Stone Mountain.If you wanna know more you could just ask.
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Age: 14
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how old should you be before having sex. (link)
the age i really think dat someone should have sex iz at leats 16 years old of age but itz really up to you if you wanna have sex or not but u gotta remember wat is at stake u should always take a condom with you when you think your ready to have sex with the opposite sex so itz up 2 you but make the right decision

~*~*~*MrS.cApPi~*~*~*


Well, before the "in" thing was prep. Right? Well, now everyone is like be "original." Now, Original is becoming UnOriginal. I really don`t know what to do. Because I meen I want to be myself, and stand out. Before I was PREPPREPPREPPREP. & then I decided I wanted to become original because I got sick of everything. But, now, everyone wants to be Original, and its like a new trend. Original is suppose to be original!! not a TREND. I really dont know what to do anymore. I just want to be myself. 14/f.


ps im a REALLY bad speller (link)
well you cant alwayz go on wat the crowd does you have to be a trend setter be a leader in wat you do cuz that goin me that you whole life you goin wanna be like everybody else an soon enough its gonna get to you an you goin wanna do wat you have to do so just follow wat you wanna follow not a crowd be a leader not a follower

~*~*~*MrS.cApPi~*~*~*


i dont know what too do....i like my b/f..we've been going out for a year and he's the second b/f i've ever had...i like him and all but i think its time to see other people...but i dont know how to tell him...i'm dont want to hurt him...is there a way for me to tell him without hurting him? And now i'm starting to think i like my old friend from my other school.... but he has a g/f but when we talked to each other today it felt like we were kids again and liked each other...please help me i dont know what too do..how can i make it so that i wont make myself feel bad or my b/f...=/

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well let me tell you truthfully there really isn't a way that you can tell someone that you wanna see other with out breakin some body's heart it will hurt them no matter what thats jus lyfe but if you really wanna break up with your boyfriend just tell him but dont try to rush the words right out your mouth that will make it soud like you been wantin or been think'n about this for quite a while

~*~*~*MrS.cApPi~*~*~*


Okay, my older brother and little brother are really into break dancing and hip hop dancing. Because both of them are kinda...mean about it, i want to prove that i can dance to...the only problem is, i can't.

So, i was wondering, if there are any really good, but kinda cheap hip hop dvd's or vhs videos that i can buy that can teach me the basics of dancing. I understand that its really hard to learn, and i wont be able to learn alot from a movie, but i really want to at least get down the basics, so if my bro teaches me, i wont feel like a fool...

I know its stupid to try to learn somthing, just because people arn't to nice to you about it, but i really do want to learn!

So please help me!

heh, sorry its so long... (link)
my advice towards you is that if you have a friend that knows how to dance ask him or her to help you but sometimes you will have to ask your family to teach you new things even if you don't want to cuz family will always help you with a problem even if they dont want to of even if you dont want them to just think about it

~*~*~*MrS.cApPi~*~*~*


im 13/female...im about to start eighth grade...and i really liked this guy (he was in my group of school friends) in the beggining of last year. and i ended up asking him out...and he turned me down. so from then on he was being an asshole and everything i would say at lunch, he would shoot down. and he was just being really mean. so all of last year, i was really depressed because all the time i got to spend with my friends was hell. im worried that the same thing will happen this school year. what should i do??? (link)
my advice towards you is dont let one boy put you down an mess up your last year of middle school if he shoot you down when you ask'd him thats ok there will always be somebody else out there that would love to go out wit you an dont worry about wat he say or do towards you cus he is just tryning to get your attention then sooner or later when you get a boyfriend he will get jealous an soon realize wat he could have had

~*~*~*MrS.cApPi~*~*~*


There is this girl i like at school and im not sure if she lkes me back i've asked her out twice and on the second time i asked her she said "...errr well not right now sorry" what is that supposed to mean plz help i rate 5s. btw this question would be better off answered by a girl (link)
well since im a girl i will help you when she answered your question it sounded like that she is not interested in you so my advice to you is that you should jus moved on find another girl that you like then soon enough she will realize wat she could have had


To start off i am a 15 year old girl. I am living at home and pregnant. I no stress is not good. Living at home i think is stressing me out i cry every day. Im not sure what to do or how to tell me mother i need out. I am not getting along with my brother or my father. Please Help (link)
well here is my advice to you i think that you should just get your mom an sit her down next to you explaining to her how much the baby means to you if you want to have it or don't want to have it since its in you its your decision she will just have to deal with it an try an see if you can get your father's attention and your brother because if you can't count on family who do you have to help you out in life just think about it


next year im going to high school. the seniors initiate all of the freshmen. has anyone been initiated before? what did they do to you? please help. im scared to go to high school. (link)
well its like that if you first go to middle school but here is my advice towards you yes some of the seniors might intimidate the freshman but that don't mean that person has to be you when you go to school just act like your self try not to make any enemies your first day that will be a bad start at your new school den your goin to be a freshman so jus remember just be your self don't be something your not


to get to the point my boyfriend has this friend. who stole car radios blammed it on my boyfriend. he stole a cell phone and my boyfriends friend told the cops my boyfriend did it. he recently (couple days ago) showed up at my boyfriends house wanting to hang out. i called my boyfriend and his friend in the back fround was making rude comments. about me trying ot think my boyfriend was cheating. my boyfriend promised he would make him leave his house by the time i got there i pulled up in the drive and didnt even get out of the car his friend was still there and was going to be hanging out with us. (my boyfriend and i have been fighting lately we needed sometime alone to work things out) so i pulled out of the drive and left this happened yesterday. he left and hasnt been home since then. hes at that kids house. i dont no how to get ahole of him i been in panic for over 24 hours. and im pregnant. im scared. i dont know what to do PLEASE HELP (link)
well this is wat you should do you should try an get in contact with your boyfriend an tell him that his friend that he think is his friend is not if all he do is blame him for the things that his friend do an then you should try an tell your boyfriend that your pregnant but you should tell your parents first they always know wat to do in that situation.


im going in to my sophmore year and we got our schedules yesterday. last year i got in a big fight w/ one of my best guy friends, he blocked me on aim and swore hed never speak to me again (the fight was over something stupid that makes absolutely no sense so im not really mad at him) anyways, i was talking to some of my friends and they told me that hes in my chemestry class. what do i do? i have about 3 other friends that i kno of in that class so its not like ill be forced to speak to him but do you think i should say anything to him? or just let him stay mad at me. i hate that we arent talking weve known each other since 6th grade! thanks so much (link)
Here's wat i think you should let a fight that make's no sense mess up your good friendship there isn't to me people that you will meet like him or her he is a person that's been with you for quite a while so just think before you really lose a good friend


why does everyone always say "this one time,at band camp.." i dont get it. is it from a movie or something? (link)
yes it is actually its from the movie American Pie its a funny movie.




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