im going in to my sophmore year and we got our schedules yesterday. last year i got in a big fight w/ one of my best guy friends, he blocked me on aim and swore hed never speak to me again (the fight was over something stupid that makes absolutely no sense so im not really mad at him) anyways, i was talking to some of my friends and they told me that hes in my chemestry class. what do i do? i have about 3 other friends that i kno of in that class so its not like ill be forced to speak to him but do you think i should say anything to him? or just let him stay mad at me. i hate that we arent talking weve known each other since 6th grade! thanks so much
bridgeeetirene answered Friday August 4 2006, 11:05 pm: well maybe this will break the ice and you guys will be friends again. if he still holds the grude maybe he isnt somone you should be firends with
cappi answered Friday August 4 2006, 10:20 pm: Here's wat i think you should let a fight that make's no sense mess up your good friendship there isn't to me people that you will meet like him or her he is a person that's been with you for quite a while so just think before you really lose a good friend [ cappi's advice column | Ask cappi A Question ]
uisforukelele answered Friday August 4 2006, 9:07 pm: here's my advice (i've had something happen like this before): just treat him like you would when he's not being a jerk. and if he doesn't want to talk to you, then screw him (not literally). most likely it will blow over... guys have like a five second memory span anyway. but just be friendly to him, and if he keeps you blocked on aim and doesn't want to talk to you, then you should sit him down and basically tell him that you want to be friends with him but you don't want to deal with his crap. anyway, just try to be friendly... because there is a chance that he will quit being so mad. and you're going to have to see him in chemistry at school every week so it's worth a shot, trying to stay friends with him. good luck :) [ uisforukelele's advice column | Ask uisforukelele A Question ]
AmandasAdvice answered Friday August 4 2006, 5:49 pm: hey i think that since the fight has sort of blown over by now since a year has gone by, it's okay to talk to him again and he probably won't even remember why he was mad. it might be a good idea to talk to him in class because then it won't be totally random. just talk to him like you are talking to someone new and ask him a question about chem or something. then if he doesn't act mad at you, it's probably okay to go on a different aim screen name and see if you two are okay. i had a fight with my friend on aim and i waited a long time to talk to her and one random day like a year later, i went on my old screen name that she hadn't blocked me on and randomly asked her if we were okay. your guy friend will probably be mad at you at FIRST, but the little convo you guys share in chem will make it a little less awkward because he will realize that you are willing to forget the past and he will too. if you need any more help just drop one in my inbox! hope i could help you and good luck!
OoOhaileyOoO answered Friday August 4 2006, 4:58 pm: Just say sorry to him before class starts, that way he can think. Sometimes it's best just to say sorry, even if it was over something stupid.
Hope I helped.
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courtxrawr answered Friday August 4 2006, 4:43 pm: Dont worry!
He will want to talk to you.
Thats what always happens with me.
They just need time to think about stuff.
So, just leave him be. He is going to talk to you evantually. He's not going to hate you, especially since you guys have been friends for soo long.
So just go on with your life. Soon, he will be part of it - again!
:D
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