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my boyfriend or my old friend...
i dont know what too do....i like my b/f..we've been going out for a year and he's the second b/f i've ever had...i like him and all but i think its time to see other people...but i dont know how to tell him...i'm dont want to hurt him...is there a way for me to tell him without hurting him? And now i'm starting to think i like my old friend from my other school.... but he has a g/f but when we talked to each other today it felt like we were kids again and liked each other...please help me i dont know what too do..how can i make it so that i wont make myself feel bad or my b/f...=/
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well let me tell you truthfully there really isn't a way that you can tell someone that you wanna see other with out breakin some body's heart it will hurt them no matter what thats jus lyfe but if you really wanna break up with your boyfriend just tell him but dont try to rush the words right out your mouth that will make it soud like you been wantin or been think'n about this for quite a while
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There's not going to be a "EASY" way out of this. Break-up's are just horrible for everyone involved. If they were easy, I'm sure there's alot of ppl that would be filing for a divorce right now instead of staying UN-happily married. Think long and hard about your decesion before you act on it. Imagine your life without your current boyfriend in it. No phone calls, no Hey, whatcha doin? NOTHING. Not saying he would never speak to you again but 1 year is a long time and it's better to prepare yourself in knowing that quite possibly he'll be so hurt he want won't to talk to you again. Now, I'm not trying to play pitty-party here.. In no way should you stay with him if you don't want to. Ultimatley it's your life and your happiness were talking about here. You do what is going to make you happy. You deserve that-everyone does. Maybe write him a letter, that seems to be best as to where maybe if you said it in person, you wouldn't get up the nerve to say everything you wanted to say. Don't let him know you want another guy. That just makes the break-up hurt even worser knowing the woman you love is with some other dude. Just tell him you feel like you need some space at this point in your life and that you'll always love and care for him and hope that yall two can still be friends?
-Hope this helps.
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If you feel like you need to move on from your current bf, then you should tell him that you think that you have grown apart and that you just want to be friends, and that if he wants to be friends to then great, but if he does not then let him go one way and you another.And after you break up with your current bf then search your feelings and see if you do like your old friend and if you do think about asking him about how he feels about you and if he says that he just wants to stay friends start looking for you another man girl....
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well i think you should take the time to think which one of the two is most loyal and trustworthy to you. and if you want to dump your boyfriend...the easiest way would be to tell him you just want to be friends and that you are not ready for dating. if he's true and loves you like he says, he will understand.
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