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how old should you be to think about having sex


Question Posted Monday October 31 2005, 2:28 pm

how old should you be before having sex.

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cappi answered Saturday August 5 2006, 12:01 am:
the age i really think dat someone should have sex iz at leats 16 years old of age but itz really up to you if you wanna have sex or not but u gotta remember wat is at stake u should always take a condom with you when you think your ready to have sex with the opposite sex so itz up 2 you but make the right decision

~*~*~*MrS.cApPi~*~*~*

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jessisthecoolest answered Monday June 19 2006, 3:07 pm:
i would ay at least 14 or 15.but you should wait until you are in love and you could take care of a baby(just in case).

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CHHSchoirbabe answered Monday June 5 2006, 2:57 pm:
it depends. I would wait until marriage (abstinence) but that's just me. Some think 16 yrs. old, so they can support the baby. It's all up to you, virginity is lost at many ages.

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sweetguy answered Sunday April 2 2006, 3:38 am:
um at least 16. and the reason why is because u must be able to get job so u can cre for a baby (if concived) good luck

love your
advice guy
drew.

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jesusfreak92 answered Sunday November 6 2005, 11:25 pm:
sum times it depend on your religion like me i wont have sex until im married so i have a promise ringmy mom would be pissed and think about if you got pregnate (if your a girl) or if you got the girl pregnate (if your a guy) wat the hell would you do!

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daddydiva answered Thursday November 3 2005, 8:41 pm:
hey
it is not how old but when you are ready

your friend daddydiva

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shannonsgirl answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 10:51 pm:
until you are married or over 18.. well hell i wish i could of followed the same advice i gave you (lol)

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girdy_goo15 answered Wednesday November 2 2005, 3:44 pm:
till you are mature enough to handle the consequences. check out my column it has a checklist of the physical needs. but until you have someone you can trust with all your heart and you are responsible enough to tell your parents incase you get pregnant or get someone pregnant. and are ready to be a parent

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Mackenzie answered Tuesday November 1 2005, 10:22 pm:
Old enough to support yourself AND a child, alllll by your lonesome. :P

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ThugGirl041790 answered Tuesday November 1 2005, 1:23 pm:
their isn`t an age limit or anything start when their ready and with somebody that they cn`t live without and that completes that person.. ♥ DEz

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x0dani0x answered Tuesday November 1 2005, 10:30 am:
i think its all up to that person..there is so specific age

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xopinkbarbie answered Tuesday November 1 2005, 10:13 am:
There's no certain age as to which you are "old enough" for sex. It's when you're ready mentally & emotionally, you truly love the person you're with, and you're responsible enough to handle the consequences that come with it. Although, most people don't even consider any of these reasons.. and think they are ready. It depends on what kind of person you are, basically. ♥ =]

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PrEtTyKiTtY0428 answered Tuesday November 1 2005, 2:39 am:
Hello hunny,
There isnt a certain age to think or have sex. I feel that it is something that someone just knows. It don't matter at what age you start thinking about it, but my opinion is that you shouldn't have sex unless you are serious about the person, and have the right mind. If you're young looking to have sex with your boyfriend just because you guys have been going out for a few months and you think it'll make him love you,no its not a good idea. You could get really mentally and emotionally hurt so you have to be careful. I hope I have answered your question for you x3

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bittersweet17 answered Tuesday November 1 2005, 2:24 am:
well when it comes to having sex then you should know all the reprecussions and know that you are mentally ready. when you start having sex all kinds of emotions are tied to sex. you shouldn't have sex because everybody else is you should do it because you want to are ready and it is with someone that you love and care for because after you do it you can't change who you slept with or your feelings. catch my drift? know about all the diseases like STDs AIDS ect and use birth control and condoms. it dosen't matter if he likes them or if you don't like them protect yourself! well i hope this helped

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SoUrLiMe11 answered Monday October 31 2005, 11:51 pm:
i think ATLEAST 17, you knwo when you are ready but if you feel that tehre is any pressure into having sex then wait a while, you cant change your past, and you cant change things you may regret. im not trying to talk you out of it but you knwo the risks and all the opions all over the world about kids having sex, so mkae your choice and make sure that its the right choice for you
hope i helped!
much <3
-emily-

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SouthernGirl323 answered Monday October 31 2005, 9:27 pm:
There's no age where you can say because your this old you're ready to have sex...when you're ready, you will just know you are. however, u need to be aware of the situation and what can result from it including pregnancy and stds. you're ready when you're ready, you just have to be ready for the whole package. :)

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Californias_Hottest_xO answered Monday October 31 2005, 9:21 pm:
Ready enough to know all the risks, and that you do it because you love that person. Ready enough to tell your parents about it. Ready enough to use a condom properly or else....

You my friend, are not ready.

&hearts; Melissa
=)

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emotedardorxx4 answered Monday October 31 2005, 6:31 pm:
There's really no set age for thinking about having sex, or actually starting to have sex. Everyone matures at different times in their lives. Some people start thinking about it, or actually doing as young as 13, and some wait until they are in their 20's or older. It's just a matter of your own body. I'm sure everyone starts to think about havig sex once they reach puberty, of course its just a natural instinct that everyone goes through, some people experiment, and some people don't. that's really up to you. There are many factors you should think about before getting involved in sexual activities. 1- are you ready for it, and ready to handle the responsibilities that comes along with it? 2-do you feel comfortable with your partner, because if not, it would be a lot better experience if it was with someone you really were comfortable with.

In my thought, an age would be like 15, I mean theres a few cases 13 or 14 year olds are ready, but usually at only 13 and 14, the minds of children aren't mature enough to actuall cope with what's happening, and if they really want to do it. I would say anywhere from 15-17 is the normal, at least around where i live.


hope it helped<3

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iiluvpiink15 answered Monday October 31 2005, 5:25 pm:
well there is no exact age to have sex but i think that you should have it when you compleatly ready and your not even asking this question. the reason why i said that id becuase if you knew you were ready you would have to ask an age((im not try at all to be coxy or mean)) but i think that you will make the right choice. Good Luck
MAKE THE RIGHT DECISION&hearts;
Christin

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FrEe2bMe answered Monday October 31 2005, 4:52 pm:
Wow, what a question! An individual's choice to have sex or not is not as simple as a set age. There are so many more factors. You must take into consideration all the different aspects of what having sex brings along. For instance, are both you and your parter 100% ready and willing? Are you ready for a possible pregnancy? Are you aware of all the various STDs you could possibly contract? Are you ready for the emtional and physical pain you might endure..etc. The list goes on and on. Having sex shouldnt only be done when you are responsible, mature and fully ready. If you have to doubt anything, then you are not ready. Remember, you can only have your first time once. Don't throw that away too soon. If you are even under 17 I would say you are way too unexperienced to understand all the details of having sex. Age varies though. But, as I said, just make sure you don't give in too soon for a few minutes of pain or pleasure. And if you must have sex, be safe. :)

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